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Titanium0Master -> RE: Have any of you sent a woman a mean message and got a positive response? (5/11/2010 5:32:23 PM)
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I'm sure some people get positive responses to rude messages, but my guess is that the response rate would be pretty low. The number of men sending rude messages is almost certainly a lot higher than the number of women who like to receive them. Of course, the number of men on sites like this always vastly outnumbers the number of females anyway. Many years ago when the internet was new and I used IRC, I used to frequently get women (and men, although I politely informed them I was not interested in them) who would request a private chat with me and then immediately start degrading themselves verbally before I even had a chance to say anything, so I know first hand that some people want to be treated rudely from the start.
It all boils down to who you are and what you are looking for. There are certainly some women who like those types of messages, and there are definitely a lot of men who think that is the way women who identify themselves as subs/slaves want to be treated. Although my guess is that the vast majority of those men are new to the lifestyle and are just acting like they think a Dom is supposed to act.
The best thing is to just be who you are and accept that some people are going to be interested and others are not.
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