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RedMagic1 -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/7/2010 5:38:56 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Caius
how often does a person come across a niche joke like that which they are so ideally suited to be tickled by? Come on, a generative grammar and bondage joke!?  


What's the difference between eschatology and scatology?

One is a priori; the other is a posteriori.




RedMagic1 -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/7/2010 5:55:41 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve
Perhaps one day I'll be open-minded enough to not need these communiqués from you in a public forum. One day, perhaps.

Something to consider: you didn't used to make many multi-sentence (much less multi-paragraph) posts here.  Meant in the best possible way, I didn't know you were intelligent until I looked at your site.  It's a common impulse to assume ignorance, or the possibility of ignorance, in a poster who is "unknown."  And, while you've been hanging out here longer than I have, in different nicks, my impression has been that you intended your posts primarily as a tool to keep your name regularly in front of the eyes of the sub men who read these boards, because your pre-Saharah posts were mostly short affirmations or emoticons.  So I think you're an unknown quantity to a lot of people.  People know you're hot and into FS, and that's about it.

I much prefer your current posting style, as I enjoy seeing inside your mind.[;)]




xBullx -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/7/2010 6:43:18 PM)


Considering that pretentious little eye roll emote, this jovial remark is you at your best......write? rite? right?

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ORIGINAL: kittinSol

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ORIGINAL: xBullx
challanges.


It's "challenges" [8|] .








aBondageTop -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/8/2010 1:06:32 AM)

Non-standard grammar from a native English speaker is a deal breaker for me.  It is so distracting that it spoils any pleasure in conversation.  I have also found that those who don't care to speak standard English tend to lack general knowledge that I take for granted.  This limits the possible topics of conversation.




Caius -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/8/2010 12:25:50 PM)

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ORIGINAL: aBondageTop

Non-standard grammar from a native English speaker is a deal breaker for me.  It is so distracting that it spoils any pleasure in conversation.  I have also found that those who don't care to speak standard English tend to lack general knowledge that I take for granted.  This limits the possible topics of conversation.



Ah, soft bigotry and language mavenism, has there ever been two traits better suited to each-other?

There is no such thing as "standard" English.  There's no such dichotomy when it comes to any language.  There's your way of using it, and then the way of every single other speaker.  From the standpoint of the empiricist, each is equally valid.  Now, this is not to say that there aren't some people who simply make a muddled mess out of their language no matter who they are trying to talk to, and I don't begrudge someone the decision not to interact with them, even if I think that decision is often shortsighted.    But you are clearly confusing two completely independent issues, natural language variation and your own bias.  What makes your variation so much closer to what you perceive as the "standard"? The simple fact that you speak it? The language community you learned it from?  The institutions that taught you? That's nothing but a baseless sense of elitist propriety.  Take an elderly white woman from Ontario, a valley girl from California, a middle aged man from Jersey, a rural man from Louisiana, a farmer from the extreme north of Scotland and other varied persons from a few other farly-flung but English-speaking locales, throw yourself into the mix and then tell me what about the language is standard.  Or try telling them that they are all speaking the language wrong.  Tell the Scot first.  

Look, maybe I've gone off on this little tangent unnecessarily by over-interpreting; maybe you just meant to be commenting on people who make no sense to you whatsoever or are exceedinly vague in what they say, though from the tone of the post, I doubt it.  But at the very least you need make some alteration to your terminology if you want to speak meaningfully of language barriers.  I just happen to think that the irrationality of language elitism is (not un-ironically) a serious handicap to anyone who would communicate clearly.  It, if you'll forgive further irony in my wording, makes me feel that the people who care to employ it tend to lack general knowledge (and common sense) that I take for granted and limits the possibility of conversation.  Regardless, making an assumption that there's a correlation between whether someone speaks your language with the same required rules you have and whether they are knowledgeable in any general domain of knowledge is just plain moronic. 




aBondageTop -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/8/2010 10:02:17 PM)

It is true that there are no laws or boards defining "proper" English. Still, there are standards of usage adhered to by educated writers and speakers worldwide. 




Caius -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/9/2010 2:53:10 AM)

Hmmm, I have to take a second to say, I like the cut of your jib after-all, aBT.  I really kind of laid into you there, and you refused to be rattled.  You just made your response as straight-forward and concise as could be. Mind you, I still think you are as wrong as wrong can be on this subject, but you're ok.

Anyway, to the matter at hand... There aren't so much standards as transitory trends, same as any language.  The only semi-permanent rules are those of descriptive grammar (see my post above if unfamiliar with this linguistic term).  Even educated persons will vary considerably in what they consider 'acceptable,' if they are already predisposed to that kind of judgemental attitude.  And anyway language is one of those queer areas where very frequently more education can lead to more ignorance if it's not handled in an empirical manner. Language is a powerful force (indeed, clearly one of the most necessary) when it comes to indoctrination.  It works almost like magic in how it can create both solidarity within a group by isolating its members from those without.  The 'highly educated' are by no means immune to this effect; in fact they are in many ways one of the most vulnerable because that sense of elitism is implicit in such a group's very definition and they are more than willing to believe they have a superior handle on a subject that was so essential to the educational process.  But the fact of the matter is, they don't.  They simply have a claim to a similar kind of idiolect. But in no significant objective, factual way is it more complex, efficient, powerful, or in any way superior.  The most uneducated person on the planet is just as likely to be someone who can turn a phrase impressively as another given the highest degree of education. 

See, the thing is, what modern linguistics (and cognitive science in general) has taught us, is that we are born pre-loaded with most of our linguistic ability.  Children begin using language in set ways, adhering to many general syntactic/morphological  rules regardless of whether they are explicitly taught to or not.  It's called the "poverty of the stimulus" phenomena.  And of the langauge ability that you do garner from experience, the vast majority of it is gained during early childhood, while the brain is still 'plastic' and capable of being molded to the more finer rules of a given language.  What you learn thereafter is a drop of water in the bucket, really.  So higher education mostly only teaches you how to speak in a more stylized way (and often to judge others who don't speak in that style) it doesn't in any real sense teach you to speak better.  In fact, the only real advantage you might gain from higher education in terms of language ability would be the opportunity to expose yourself to as many different styles of speaking.  Unfortunately because education is often as much about stamping an identity as exposure to new ideas, many of the more 'refined' institutions (actually, most) will go the other way, limiting study of a language to the forms expected of persons of a certain class and disparaging others.  I know it sounds cliche, but if those aspects of education are true in any area, it's in language instruction.

I probably should have worded myself as above from the start, but what can I say, it's a bias I long ago grew wearisome of and sometimes I can be a prick when I know I'm absolutely, completely in the right. ;)




LadyAngelika -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/9/2010 7:49:02 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve
P.s. There are multiple intelligences? Wow, utterly shocking, LA. Perhaps one day I'll be open-minded enough to not need these communiqués from you in a public forum. One day, perhaps.


SaharahEve, you have your standards, I have mine. I'm not a forum sniper to be honest, I'm here to discuss.

I guess just judge people on another set of criteria. But you have the right to your standards and your reactions. As long as they work for you.

- LA




SailingBum -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/9/2010 10:18:26 AM)

That's a  new term for me "forum sniper".  Doth protest way to much. 

BadOne




LadyAngelika -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/9/2010 10:40:37 AM)

I have to give credit to SaharahEve for that term as she coined it! Though I'd say MichiganHeadMaster with his sniper kitty avatar is the real forum sniper ;-)

- LA




SaharahEve -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/9/2010 12:33:11 PM)


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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve
P.s. There are multiple intelligences? Wow, utterly shocking, LA. Perhaps one day I'll be open-minded enough to not need these communiqués from you in a public forum. One day, perhaps.




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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

SaharahEve, you have your standards, I have mine. I'm not a forum sniper to be honest, I'm here to discuss.

Well I don't have trouble with discussion, but if you're going to suggest in so many words that I'm close-minded, you should (logically) prepare for an apt reply.



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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

I guess just judge people on another set of criteria. But you have the right to your standards and your reactions. As long as they work for you.

Of course they work for me. Why would I use them if they didn't? Why would I bother sharing them if I didn't stand behind them?






SailingBum -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/9/2010 11:35:07 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

SaharahEve, you have your standards, I have mine. I'm not a forum sniper to be honest, I'm here to discuss.

Well I don't have trouble with discussion, but if you're going to suggest in so many words that I'm close-minded, you should (logically) prepare for an apt reply.



ehhh don't take it her to seriously ... I didn't agree with one of her threads and she didnt imply I was closed minded she came right out with the "name calling".  I believe ...no im positive she called me "Closed Minded".  I'm noticing a "trend" here dont agree with la  be assured you will prolly get called a name of some sort.

BadOne






WyldHrt -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 1:21:12 AM)

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I'm noticing a "trend" here dont agree with la  be assured you will prolly get called a name of some sort.

Funny, I've disagreed with her a number of times and don't remember any name calling. *shrug*

As to the OP:
One of the most intelligent men I have ever known was absolutely crap when it came to spelling and grammar. His issues with written English weren't all that evident in his forum posts or emails (because he took the time to spell and grammar check), but very obvious in live chat. It lead many people to underestimate him, which was something he found amusing.

To be clear: when I say that he was extremely intelligent, I mean that this guy could write just about any computer program he took a mind to; debate just about anyone under the table when it came to philosophy, religion, existential thought, human relations, and any number of other subjects; held a high level position in computer security; organized and ran several large groups both online and off; and was generally in charge of any situation he found himself in (yeah, he was a Dom).

I'm something of a spelling/grammar snob myself, but the above mentioned guy taught me not to underestimate someone simply because their spelling or grammar sucks, especially in chat. I make a fair number of typos when chatting myself, so I don't really get to be a snob there anyway. [:D]




LadyAngelika -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 3:49:47 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve
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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika
SaharahEve, you have your standards, I have mine. I'm not a forum sniper to be honest, I'm here to discuss.

Well I don't have trouble with discussion, but if you're going to suggest in so many words that I'm close-minded, you should (logically) prepare for an apt reply.


Actually, I simply said that it took an open mind to recognize multiple intelligences. If you felt targeted by that comment, then it's on you. I don't know you well enough to make such an assumption about you.

- LA





kanina -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 5:23:16 AM)

My first language is portuguese, not the brazilian portuguese, but the portuguese from Portugal... My english does suck... especially with words with similar sounds like leave and live, but even so i  try to keep things simple, if i don´t know how to write a words or a phrase i look for a similar one.

what confuses me is people that are from the USA, the UK or other english speaking country and make mistakes that even i can see that are mistakes... but of course sometimes i do mistakes in portuguese, by lack of attencion or hurry...




LadyAngelika -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 5:38:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: kanina

My first language is portuguese, not the brazilian portuguese, but the portuguese from Portugal... My english does suck... especially with words with similar sounds like leave and live, but even so i  try to keep things simple, if i don´t know how to write a words or a phrase i look for a similar one.


Seu Inglês é muito bom!

I live in a neighbourhood with a very strong Portuguese concentration (we can't call it a Portuguese neighbourhood because it is actually one of the most ethnically diverse neighbourhoods in Canada), which according to my friends from the Algarve have too many Açoreans ;-) I love the accent. I've also visited Portugal and I have to confess, I love your country!

For the record, I've always found accents to be very charming. I have a very slight French accent when I speak English (actually my accent varies a little depending on whether I'm speaking English with Anglophones or Francophones, which is not uncommon, but nonetheless very weird). I've never had an issue with this nor my little grammar errors and people are usually more than kind.

- LA





kanina -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 5:53:32 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika


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ORIGINAL: kanina

My first language is portuguese, not the brazilian portuguese, but the portuguese from Portugal... My english does suck... especially with words with similar sounds like leave and live, but even so i  try to keep things simple, if i don´t know how to write a words or a phrase i look for a similar one.


Seu Inglês é muito bom!

I live in a neighbourhood with a very strong Portuguese concentration (we can't call it a Portuguese neighbourhood because it is actually one of the most ethnically diverse neighbourhoods in Canada), which according to my friends from the Algarve have too many Açoreans ;-) I love the accent. I've also visited Portugal and I have to confess, I love your country!

For the record, I've always found accents to be very charming. I have a very slight French accent when I speak English (actually my accent varies a little depending on whether I'm speaking English with Anglophones or Francophones, which is not uncommon, but nonetheless very weird). I've never had an issue with this nor my little grammar errors and people are usually more than kind.

- LA




Thank you very much

The portuguese have a tendency to leave the country [:D] i think is because of historic reasons...





Jeffff -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 6:04:07 AM)

It's those Spanish bastards isn't it?

I completlely understand




SaharahEve -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 8:50:42 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Actually, I simply said that it took an open mind to recognize multiple intelligences. If you felt targeted by that comment, then it's on you. I don't know you well enough to make such an assumption about you.


Well, for the sake of discussion then, let me summarize (for brevity) a thread of conversation between you and me still waiting for your redress :

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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve

When someone writes a letter and it's patent they've willfully neglected the most basic punctuation and capitalization rules, that indicates to me they are lazy and uninspired.


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

Or maybe they just have a learning disability. Not all of us are so quick to judge.

...There are multiple intelligences. Yet it takes an open mind to be able to see them in people.


To which I replied:

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ORIGINAL: SaharahEve
... you forgot to consider the terms patent and willful contained within [my words].

...I can let a comma here or a capitalization error there slide by, but—when u r talking like this 4 no other reason than ur own convenience when writing to a 'dominate'—it's clear your writing is poorly constructed, and probably for little more than the sake of quick-speak laziness.



I hope that sums it up well enough, and underscores my little bone of contention. If you're here for discussion, then by all means own your words and partake in it.




Jeffff -> RE: Is good grammer a reasonable standard? (5/10/2010 8:59:23 AM)

Can I expect to see hair pulling and blouse tearing soon?


I so enjoy that!




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