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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:49:19 AM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: myotherself

I'm thinkin' Icarys was making a general comment to some of the more...emotional posters on this thread, not to my favourite flyin' monkey!



Actually bunny, I was stating, you weren't being a snarky motherfucker like the rest of usual bunch.

The emotional comment was for the OP..She seemed to get a little dramatic.

And Greedy: You wouldn't think that..It's obvious though from his wording that's what he meant..(I'm big Dom..He little dom)

Traditional approaches amongst most monkeys who need that feeling of big ape on campus.


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:49:29 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Ha! Who woulda thunk that??? 43? Would have lost that bet.
The overly romantic and flowery type.... was she waiting for a knight?

You should never have coffee with her. She will cook and eat you.


Don't feel bad, I would have lost the bet too.



I wouldn't have. Do I get a prize?

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:49:56 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMe8

Don't judge someone you don't know! I did not tell the whole story and was in a rush! My downfall by all accounts! Actually I do have a rabbit!
He has just sent me a text asking why on earth would listen to complete strangers, who knew nothing about the entire situation! He may be right, so if it makes you feel happy.......do feel free to carry on. I would be questioning my own sanity if I where you, for trying to hurt other people with negative words!!!!



How many profiles do you have and why did your other one say 43, when this one says 40?


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:51:44 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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Also... you wanted to meet right away, and he didn't, and you won. That's a sign of a weak man, one who will give in like that - not what I'd call a Master.


Wasn't aware this was a game...

Giving into an idea that someone else has isn't even close to being a weak sign.

If it matters a lot to me then nothing changes..I say no

If it's not that important..annnnd I see no reason to say no..I'll say yes

Simple as that


(I find that a lot of people like to throw that whole he/she isn't a Dom/sub around but get uptight when it's done by others..really silly)


This I actually do agree with, sorry Steven. I do have a feeling though that, given the OP's... passionate nature... it was less "agreed to someone else's idea" and more succumbed to her enthusiasm. Which is not always a bad thing, for the record. Just in this case, it clearly didn't work out.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:53:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		Thanks Icarys!

Despite your rather worrying avatar, I guessed you were on the side of da bunny

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:55:43 AM   
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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

Ha! Who woulda thunk that??? 43? Would have lost that bet.
The overly romantic and flowery type.... was she waiting for a knight?

You should never have coffee with her. She will cook and eat you.


Don't feel bad, I would have lost the bet too.



I wouldn't have. Do I get a prize?


Sure, knock me up next time you are in Detroit and I will deliver it in person


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:56:22 AM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMe8

Don't judge someone you don't know! I did not tell the whole story and was in a rush! My downfall by all accounts! Actually I do have a rabbit!
He has just sent me a text asking why on earth would listen to complete strangers, who knew nothing about the entire situation! He may be right, so if it makes you feel happy.......do feel free to carry on. I would be questioning my own sanity if I where you, for trying to hurt other people with negative words!!!!




Wait a minute, let me get this straight......your rabbit....sent you a text???

< Message edited by windchymes -- 5/8/2010 7:58:46 AM >

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 7:56:26 AM   
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Thanks Icarys!

Despite your rather worrying avatar, I guessed you were on the side of da bunny

Sanity dropped it on an OP and it was so cute I couldn't help myself. I'll change it back in a bit(I'm so weak..I gave into you)


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 8:00:25 AM   
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I think they should also be banned for not using paragraphs....


I did try to be helpful in that regard but Domi didn't seem to like it much.



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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 8:02:22 AM   
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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 8:07:02 AM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: myotherself

hehehe - da bunny is da boss!!!

How could one get all ape shit over that comment when da bunny is so damn cute.




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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 8:23:57 AM   
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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ


quote:

ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I think they should also be banned for not using paragraphs....


I did try to be helpful in that regard but Domi didn't seem to like it much.




It is hard to read the added text when it is in the quotey box thingy rather than separate like here.


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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

I think they should also be banned for not using paragraphs....
>> hard to hunt for the added text



I did try to be helpful in that regard but Domi didn't seem to like it much.
>> you are very good at being helpful but this formatting is difficult espesh when it is a long line of text




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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 8:52:10 AM   
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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

If wish your profile was still up. Would have loved to read that.


Well...if you insist:

I am a submissive woman.
I am not weak,

nor I am worthless.
I am a submissive woman.
I am intelligent,

and possess a strength

and perseverence that withstands

the trials of life.

This strength which i possess

and cherish

is my gift to You.

When life breaks You down

and makes You

question the man

you were intended to be...

allow me to allow You

to suck my strength from me.

Make it Your own.
I do not

nor will I ever

give my submission to a man

just because he claims dominance.

But to You,

i give all of me...

and Your ownership

completely

sets me free.

i trust in You to cherish the gift,

embrace my trust in You...

to protect me.
I
have opened up my heart

and my mind...

the very core of my soul to You...

and invited You in.
I
have

given You the book

entitled "Me"...

and invited You to read.

You know i have suffered

and

You know i am scared

but You...

You have endeavored

to erase the memories

and

replace the pain.

You are my Master

and

i am Your slave.



i am not to be degraded

nor ever dishonored

yet

i recognize

i am not Your equal,

nor will i ever be.

i was created

to compliment You...

i was created to make You whole...

for without the portion of Your heart

that contains my soul...

You would not be complete.

Thankyou, for all the compliments, she smiles ;-)

Looking for the long term, not here to play. Not 24/7 Ds but vanilla/ds mix. I would like good looking, and smart! intelligent, and wise enough not to play games. I want a man who wants me, aswell as my submission. There has to be a very strong mental connection, without that it won't work. So if you think what I have described is you please get in touch........and I do mean the whole package. I won't take one without the other. Please don't write to me to complain I have written a shopping list, I just have a preference like in the real world. I will know if you just want to play mind and control games, thats not me either. I am not desperate, nor ready to jump for the first man that shows me attention. Yes before you ask I have offers, but none I feel are right for me.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 9:28:49 AM   
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I have not explained myself well enough, thankyou for all the advice! I am not velcro, but will not hang around on the hope something might happen. Actually lady ange!!!! You make some sort of sence! You don't know my circumstances, but you have opened my eyes slightly! infact massivly thankyou very much.


I'm glad it was some help. I'll be honest with you, as you've seen, these boards are't the best place for relationship advice. That is something only professionals or people you trust should give you. You did get a few good bits of info, but mostly, you'll have people who mean well (most of the time) but who don't understand you.

Other than seeking professional help to deal with such issues, a book I give to friends who are working through dependancy and other relationship issues is The Mastery of Love: A Practical Guide to the Art of Relationship. It isn't a perfect book, but I have found very few that attack the core issues so well.

- LA

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 9:34:38 AM   
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Status: offline 		On the other hand, based on the last 3 pages (which I obviously didn't read before reponding to the OP) maybe a trip to a professional should be the first step. The issues seem much deeper. Two profiles and friends? DID perhaps? Who ever knows here...

- LA

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 11:41:42 AM   
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ORIGINAL: thishereboi

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ORIGINAL: maggieg

No point me getting into this, you have formed a whole scene in your head! I will not change it! Like I said to few words, can lead to this. Sorry to have bothered, I don't need any more advice thanks.


If you were communicating with him, like you are on this thread, then I am not a bit surprised he ran. Maybe you should slow down a bit and get to know someone before you swear undying devotion.



As an alternative, if you present yourself as a Domme, then you get to chain the guy and tie him up.  Might be handy to prevent the next guy from bolting and running.


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 11:56:03 AM   
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Status: offline 		Your rush to belong to this master was too much too soon. Looking at the statements HE made below, it is clear he was not in a rush to commit, it is only in your head that things were a done deal.
Slow down.

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ORIGINAL: maggieg

He hesitated as he does not like to rush things, fair enough but we did anyway.

I thought it was my first "Master" that on it's own blew my mind to bits.

We went our seperate ways, to be in touch.

The texts have been a lot fewer

Then when I say this he says.......there is no us! nothing has started!

what have I done wrong? all we are doing is communicating!!!!!

Oh maybe it's just me!



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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 12:03:36 PM   
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GIRL, YOU WAS SPIKED!

Must have been on SOMETHIG because no right minded person behaves that way on a first meeting.  I'd have run too!


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 12:45:43 PM   
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I just gotta say, it's threads like this that remind me how awesome my life is and cause me to wonder if being slaveless isn't a blessing in disguise.

It does make for some VERY entertaining reading though!!

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 1:16:22 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Using fast reply.....

I just gotta say, it's threads like this that remind me how awesome my life is and cause me to wonder if being slaveless isn't a blessing in disguise.

It does make for some VERY entertaining reading though!!


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