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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:17:00 PM   
maggieg


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Status: offline 		Wow! You are all mad! Only shut up when you nod off! I am British, not that you would understand that! 

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:20:23 PM   
Jeffff


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Status: offline 		The Sun never Sets on the British Empire!

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:23:00 PM   
Aileen1968


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quote:

ORIGINAL: maggieg

Wow! You are all mad! Only shut up when you nod off! I am British, not that you would understand that! 


British people can't be loons???? Seriously though.....If this is your profile and if it's about the guy in the OP then he made the best decision of his life
quote:

I am a submissive woman.
I am not weak,

nor I am worthless.
I am a submissive woman.
I am intelligent,

and possess a strength

and perseverence that withstands

the trials of life.

This strength which i possess

and cherish

is my gift to You.

When life breaks You down

and makes You

question the man

you were intended to be...

allow me to allow You

to suck my strength from me.

Make it Your own.
I do not

nor will I ever

give my submission to a man

just because he claims dominance.

But to You,

i give all of me...

and Your ownership

completely

sets me free.

i trust in You to cherish the gift,

embrace my trust in You...

to protect me.
I
have opened up my heart

and my mind...

the very core of my soul to You...

and invited You in.
I
have

given You the book

entitled "Me"...

and invited You to read.

You know i have suffered

and

You know i am scared

but You...

You have endeavored

to erase the memories

and

replace the pain.

You are my Master

and

i am Your slave.



i am not to be degraded

nor ever dishonored

yet

i recognize

i am not Your equal,

nor will i ever be.

i was created

to compliment You...

i was created to make You whole...

for without the portion of Your heart

that contains my soul...

You would not be complete.

Thankyou, for all the compliments, she smiles ;-)


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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:24:59 PM   
myotherself


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Status: offline 		Jefffff...as a British citizen myself, I will marry you and you can be my little British hubby. It's only a few bits of paper to fill in, and you can be an honorary Britisher.

I'll buy you a cardigan and slippers and train you to smoke a pipe and read the tabloid press.

Will you marry me, oh hairy-snouted one?

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:41:52 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: maggieg

Wow! You are all mad! Only shut up when you nod off! I am British, not that you would understand that! 


You know that the Bunny is a Brit right?

Again, if you are attempting to communicate it's your job to make it clear. Evidently this is a task you do not excell in. Instead of insults, you would probably be better served in all aspects of your life by attempting to improve.

quote:


ORIGINAL: thishereboi

Sure, knock me up next time you are in Detroit and I will deliver it in person


Don't tempt me. I'm going stir crazy where I am and I have folks I could stay with near there!

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:46:43 PM   
myotherself


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen1968



British people can't be loons????


We certainly can...I think I'm a rabbit, for crying out loud!

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RE: what is happening? - 5/8/2010 3:54:45 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		Maggie.....ignore them, they're playing....it's fun...see? not personal...they don't know you...see it's the internet?

I think this guy was correct, you are insecure, but also there are many idiots on these sites looking for easy sex or that aren't really someone you should be jumping over hurdles for. Remember this, and work on the esteem thing....you are looking for someone that is good for you..I know you are excited, it's new and all and man that's cool and you want it all RIGHT NOW, but slow down, the brick wall is going to give you a concussion if you don't stop and think about what you are doing and take care of you and value YOU more. Nothing is more unattractive than needy and clingy, and if you don't work on your radar a bit, you may get yourself hurt. Not every guy here is worth your time or worry, you deserve someone that's good for you...try it from that approach...you might see better results.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 8:22:06 AM   
daddysliloneds


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Status: offline 		most men who want to see you more than once, won't if you put out on the first date; and, if they don't make definate plans to see you again before the first date ends, you probably will never see them again.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 11:05:48 AM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Funny... all the men I've slept with on the first date have wanted to see me again.

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It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 12:10:35 PM   
reynardfox


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Status: offline 		I started to read this, then it was no longer possible as the words, Needy and keyboard happy  were flashing in the foreground of my head.
How long did it take to write this?
You could have been out looking for a life.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 3:48:04 PM   
Firebirdseeking


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Status: offline 		Maggie, you need to calm down. You put a post here and you can't turn it off. What others are saying is that you came across here, and so also likely to this man, as way to eager, and way too emotional. You did not see the red flags that this man was flying; the most obvious being his hesitancy to meet you. A red flag means STOP, it does not mean proceed with caution, orr bulldoze ahead, which is what you did. I see you are new to all this, or at least new to posting, or new to the internet; maybe you are new to "dating", who knows. But, you need to understand that many people are not who they appear to be. And you need to be more careful, and more controlled emotionally.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 3:49:16 PM   
marylynn


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Status: offline 		This sucks, and I'm sorry that it happened to you. Unfortunately, if there is no relationship set before the meet, then you're likely the candidate of Use and Discard. Try not to obsess too much, you will drive yourself crazy.

Good luck in the future

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 5:27:04 PM   
lucylucy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
Funny... all the men I've slept with on the first date have wanted to see me again.

Same here. I think if you sleep with a man on the first date and he likes you, he'll want to see you again. If you sleep with a man on a first date and he doesn't like you, he won't want to see you again. If a man isn't sure if he likes you and you don't sleep with him on the first date, he may want to see you again (in hopes of getting laid on date #2 and/or determining whether he likes you or not).

Apparently, though, the OP didn't sleep with him on the first date, so I'm guessing he doesn't want to see her again because he doesn't feel any chemistry.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/9/2010 5:45:19 PM   
Andalusite


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quote:

ORIGINAL: marylynn
Unfortunately, if there is no relationship set before the meet, then you're likely the candidate of Use and Discard.

Wow, I know some online-based relationships that have worked out, but if anything, most people suggest meeting before making a formal commitment. My Master and I dated for about a month and a half before I became his girlfriend and his slave. We used that time to get to know each other, spend time around each others' pets and friends, go on dates, talk, and so forth.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/11/2010 3:11:47 PM   
maggieg


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Status: offline 		Ok lets get something straight.........we kissed! i NEVER PAID OUT! clear??????????????????????????????????????? Jesus! Get over yourselves. I made a mistake on coming on here, on thinking you would understand. I am not a bunny boiler, nor desperate for a man. I  have read all this tonight.....I am a very busy woman, maybe it is a class/ foreign thing who knows?
I am sure you are all lovely, and thankyou I am sure. I think this thread is over and gone. The man in question is very much in touch........and I have no need of him.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/11/2010 4:15:50 PM   
AquaticSub


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Status: offline 		Or maybe you are extremely emotional and react to things too strongly? By the way, do you really think adding additional question marks makes a stronger point?

Hopefully you learn from this experience that you need to write more clearly in order to be understood. People simply can't read your mind.

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Without my dominance you cannot submit. Without your submission I cannot dominate. You are my equal in this, though our roles are different.-Val

It was ok for him to beat me but then he tried to cuddle me! - Me

Member:Clan of the Scarlet O'Hair

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RE: what is happening? - 5/11/2010 4:41:58 PM   
maggieg


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Status: offline 		Well yes the ??????????????? means in my halfof the globe......DO YOU UNDERSTAND WHAT i SAID! No doubt my phone will start going off in the night telling me some saddo wrote on this pathetic thread again!

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RE: what is happening? - 5/11/2010 4:44:03 PM   
WinsomeDefiance


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

Funny... all the men I've slept with on the first date have wanted to see me again.


I was gonna say,  last guy I slept with seemed to never freaking go home.  Men are like dogs.  If you feed them, they won't leave. 

Pfft, don't mind me.  I'm still sore at him for stealing the remote and hogging my side of the bed.  Bastard.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/11/2010 4:44:39 PM   
laurell3


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Status: offline 		psst...you're encouraging it with your silly responses....you got some legitimate advice that was meant to be helpful...read it again....consider it if you want, or not....stop with the drama already. We were all new once, we have all made mistakes as well. Stick around, READ, stop insulting and take the advice you can find here and discard the rest, it really is that simple.

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When you fail to consider that I am the best judge for what is right for me, all of your opinions become suspect to me.

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RE: what is happening? - 5/11/2010 4:54:21 PM   
maggieg


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Status: offline 		Advice you are kidding....it was an insult hurling at me, and a pathetic discussion between yourselves! God job, 1 I don't care and 2 I am strong!

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