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lobodomslavery -> Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 11:52:28 AM)

Do Domme Women who look for submissive employment roles strike you as peculiar. In other words are they not really betraying themselves and their nature by doing this even if they are very hard up financially and clients are not coming to them because of the economy. Should Domme Women not go for management roles? Or are Domme Women right? After all a job such as a receptionist or an administrator is a bit low grade, its not managerial but a job is a job. Opinions please people
kevin




Lockit -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 12:12:40 PM)

First you bitch about professional dominants telling them to go out and get a real job because you don't think it's right that they live off you poor, economically depressed submissive men and now you want to pick job's domina's get in vanilla life? This is worse than your every woman wearing heels is a dominant.

Shall the submissives who have power roles in employment change jobs too?

Your god complex has overcome you.







LaTigresse -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 12:15:18 PM)

Kevin..........you and Hunky need to get a room together at the local facility.




myotherself -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 12:24:20 PM)

Wow - in one post you've managed to insult women in general, Dommes, subs, receptionists, administrators....

Did I miss anyone out?

I know I'm going to regret asking this, but... why do you think all dominant women are suffering in today's economic climate because they don't have "clients"?? Or is this a continuation of "all dominas are whores" theory?





VaguelyCurious -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 12:36:40 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

After all a job such as a receptionist or an administrator is a bit low grade
Clearly you have not come across university administrators. Awesome? Totally (or at least the physics ones).

Submissive? Never. Low grade? From the bloke on work experience, this seems rich.

And do they scare the fuck out of me? For sure...




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 12:51:30 PM)

Clearly, he has no idea what a receptionist actually does -- direct traffic, schedule appointments, order supplies, create reports, act as a gatekeeper for the office, etc.  Doesn't sound very submissive, does it?




WyldHrt -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:00:36 PM)

quote:

Opinions please people

Ok- you are an idiot; that is my opinion.

I'm a sub, and have a job that requires me to be quite 'dominant' at times. Are you trying to say that I'm betraying myself because my job description doesn't match my kink orientation? That I should seek low level employment in order to be more subly at work? Should subs not own or run a business, kevvie? [8|]




CarrieO -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:12:16 PM)

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Bless you.....and now you go back to being hidden. 




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:23:26 PM)

No im just positing two possible views. Personallly my opinion is that every job is a job worthwhile, it s money in the pocket and people shouldnt discriminate against others or form views on others depending on what job they are in. But and here's the rub.. people out there DO judge others about what jobs they do, there are class snobs everywhere , Dublin, London, America, UK , Australia everwhere and im just throwing in the opposite view for argument's sake but no i dont agree with people who judge others and know my intention is not to insult Women out there.  And secondly I regard a receptionist position as a worthy role, but some again, out there , perceive these individuals as runners, low grade etc
kevin




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:26:09 PM)

And i only said low grade as compared with top management which every job below top management is, No people who work in these jobs are not lower grade people, no more than i am lower grade for doing work experience unpaid at the moment
kevin




Lockit -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:30:53 PM)

Now that you got called on your bull shit, you are all open minded? It was you who said...

After all a job such as a receptionist or an administrator is a bit low grade, its not managerial but a job is a job.

If you really believe what you said in your last post, you couldn't start a thread like you did with the first post. A job is a job, yes but you look down on certain jobs and can't blame it on someone else. You also place a higher value on things you and only you think are dominant. Admit it kevin, you are hypocritical, judgmental, play the blame game and all to your own benefit or demise.




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:47:04 PM)

Like i say compared to top management positions , a receptionist position is low grade, but no i dont look down on any job, every job is worthwhile because every employee is contributing to the economy. I actually think many people are under paid and jobs such as TV presentation and media jobs are over paid
kevin




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:53:38 PM)

And with respect it is nothing to do with being called on bullshit either. The fact of the matter is that everyone knows someone who is high and mighty and looks down on others because of the job they do. The business executive and there are many around the world, they would be in the minority to be sure, but there is a section in every society all over the world that views people who work in certain jobs, like reception, like fast food, etc as unambitious and low class etc. That is fact Lockit and if you think otherwise You are not living in the world of the real. i only have to listen to my radio at night to hear conversations where certain people say they would not go out with X because of the job they work at, thats not me, i dont see people like that, but some people do and im just throwing out that view if you like to be torn apart and treated with the contempt it deserves.  People who judge people on the work that they do are scum. But the scum does exist
kevin




SylvereApLeanan -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 1:59:38 PM)

When I was a receptionist, it was a choice.  I've been in management positions and don't care for them.  Reception work is often a liason position between several departments, so I got to do a variety of tasks without having to deal with the headaches of payroll issues, employee reviews, or hiring/firing that comes with management.  Whatever the outside perspective of secretarial work may be, I know what the reality entails and there's nothing submissive about it.  Management positions might be paid more, but the attendant stress isn't worth it to me.  Again, nothing submissive about performing a job when I'm in control of my choices.




stef -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 2:01:54 PM)

Interesting questions coming from someone who doesn't even have a job of his own and is living on the dole.

A job is just a job, Kevin.  There is no such thing as a dominant job or a submissive job.  Perhaps one day you'll find one for yourself and see the light.

~stef




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 2:05:55 PM)

Well i hope so. And i 110% agree with You. Why do i posit the opposite view? So that it can be torn apart with the contempt it deserves.
kevin




stef -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 2:07:38 PM)

You're not presenting an "opposite" view, you're being a clueless troll.

~stef




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 2:09:44 PM)

You are entitled to Your opinion. Thats what the world revolves around. It would be crazy if everyone agreed with each other all the time. Like i say this forum is about opinions,  we will agree to disagree
kevin




VaguelyCurious -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 2:32:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: lobodomslavery

im just throwing out that view if you like to be torn apart and treated with the contempt it deserves. 
Kevin: if that was really the reason that you began this thread (rather than just an excuse you made up on the fly), then know that this sort of behaviour is not desirable, it's not mature, it's not a positive addition to the forum.

I would be sarcastic but you don't seem to pick up sarcasm so I'm saying it in black and white, because I think you could do with hearing it: if you want people to like you do not behave like this.

It's irritating, it stresses people out and it gives a bad impression of you-it makes you look difficult, and it seems like you're deliberately wasting people's time.

This isn't craic.




lobodomslavery -> RE: Why would a Domme Woman look for a submissive work role (5/13/2010 2:44:15 PM)

Well what are forums for then only for questioning things and debates. It seems to me without discussions and debates there would be no reason for forums
kevin




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