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ORIGINAL: auditguy

Wow, I am a little surprised by the selflessness here.  I guess I'll have to be the selfish,  self-centered punk and say that my partners orgasm is not important to me at all.  Orgasm denial is one of my kinks; although so is a girl that squirts.  Is that wrong?

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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ORIGINAL: ranja

For someone who does not care you do seem to have a bit of a bee in your bonnet about the subject... dare i say it... maybe a good o would relieve the tension?

since there is nothing physically wrong with you and you say you do get as aroused as any of us, the lack of orgasms is a mental block, probably control related...
or a crap lover.

but fortunately you are happy with the situation so there is no need to take any action

Actually ranja, it seems as though you have the bee in your bonnet over this, I have been here for a few years also and in all that time I have never read anything from Daddy'sProp that would make me think she isn't anything but genuine and I don't get your really hostile attitude towards her.

DaddysProp, I get what you are saying and even though we have very different experiences, that doesn't mean I can't be open minded enough to understand someone's else's.  

Agreed. She's never been anything but completely kind, polite and honest in my years on this forum and these posts are completely consistent with what she has been posting for years. Her thing is hers, leave her alone and do yours.


and yeah I agree on the hitachis, jackhammering my way to an orgasm with an overly bulky power tool ain't really something I'm interested in.

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ORIGINAL: daddysprop247

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ORIGINAL: auditguy

Wow, I am a little surprised by the selflessness here.  I guess I'll have to be the selfish,  self-centered punk and say that my partners orgasm is not important to me at all.  Orgasm denial is one of my kinks; although so is a girl that squirts.  Is that wrong?

actually if your thing is orgasm denial, then your partner's orgasm is VERY important to you, as you must first have a partner who 1. has the ability to orgasm, and 2. has the desire to orgasm.

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ORIGINAL: divi

Using a hitachi is like rubbing your clit with a belt sander

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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What if I give them a brand new Hitachi but rewire it with the wrong plug so they can't use it?

personally...this slave would be grateful!!! (not a hitachi fan)[:)]

I hate the fucking things to, personally, the moment a dom takes one out he goes down a notch in my book.

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

Tahoe?

(I was the one who asked but I distinctly remember you admitting that perhaps you may have rushed to judgement on the Hitachi).

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ORIGINAL: TimrehIX

When you are having sex how important is your partners’ orgasm to you? If it was just obvious that your partner wasn’t going to cum would you be upset? Could you still have an enjoyable sexual encounter if your partner didn’t cum?

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

Laurell thanks. I wasn't trying to get into an argument with ranja, it's just that for years I have read with interest a few of the more devoted slave/subs posts here, and daddysprop is one of them, as well as Bethm even though Merc and I are wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy far apart politically[;)] and they are 2 women that I have always found to be most sincere and honest in their posts.

Oh, and no jackhammering for me either, unless it is being done a human. That buzzy buzzy shit just ain't my thing either. [:-]

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ORIGINAL: ranja
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ladies ladies are we forming little groups who stick up for eachother now?
i have read a few post of daddiesprop too, and not all of them strike me as believable at all... not that i think she lies, but i am pretty sure some denial is going on (how appropriate)
i agree with the notion that she always seems pretty polite, i think it is very amusing she comes out with what i consider some very strange notions in such a very polite way. 
i do not mean to be rude either i just suffer from weird sense of humour at times

Joking aside i think it is sad and a waste not to have some fun with orgasms. i said all along orgasms are not always a necessity and it is not advisable to sulk if it does not always happen, but if you are physically able to orgasm i think it is not more than honouring nature (your duty in a way) to achieve some a little more regular than 1 every 3 years really... no, i do not buy it that this situation does not bother her at all... but everybody to their own.

and anybody never being interested in the orgasm of their other half is a totally strange notion to me as well...it seems to me that if you love someone you will want to give them nice things, you will want them to feel as nice as you can make them feel... some of the time at least, if someone really could not give a rats arse about their partners orgasms ever, not even feel it as a loss that it does not ever happen they are either totally insensitive crap lovers or in complete denial or both.

And to daddysprop... the empathy thing you feel when a man orgasms with you... it is referred to as riding anotherones cum... it is incredibly hot, but with a bit of practise your own orgasms would top it.

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

This thread is about your partner's orgasm, not pillow-talk exhibitionism.

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

This thread is about your partner's orgasm, not pillow-talk exhibitionism.

Cloudboy, trust me, Bossyshoebitch and I know all about each other's orgasms and as for pillow-talk exhibitionism, there are plenty here who have orgasms just thinking about us having orgasms so I am pretty sure this is all gloriously on topic!