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coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:26:45 PM   
pahunkboy


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Status: offline 		I have an unlucky contestant.

You guys know me well.

Any tips?

Does or donts?

I have to let him see some of me with out scaring the poor guy away.  (and no this is not the neighbor)
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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:35:23 PM   
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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:37:30 PM   
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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:38:00 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VirginPotty

Don't


as in don't get attached?

or dont do it at all.

I messed up in the past by not letting us "go steady"  men can use 100 ways to express the idea.  I was too dumb to pick up on it.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:38:33 PM   
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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:39:17 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3

Stop worrying, have fun!


If I talk about investing or politics I am finished. So I sent pics of my yard green thumb.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:41:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		ugh....PA definitely do NOT talk about politics! and don't drink! wait...maybe that's me that can't drink without being a total fool....ok...I'm sure you can find something you have in common to laugh about. Laughter is a fantastic ice breaker.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 4:54:12 PM   
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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:01:16 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3

and uh...definitely no blow jobs until that tooth heals


LOL. I was thinking that too.  I told him why .... we cant meet just now. 

I gather the gay thing is new to him and you know how very few guys WANT a LTR... but that is fine because a ball and chain can work the other way too.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:03:10 PM   
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Alex Jones.   LOL.   It kills me to be "good",  and most take aback at my "style" or method of madness.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:07:01 PM   
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I gather the gay thing is new to him


Talk about that....something that's probably a bit confusing to him right now..that you have in common...but not paternalistic, try to keep it light and wait, isn't this a first date? I wouldn't even worry about the whole LTR or not thing yet.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:10:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: laurell3


quote:

ORIGINAL: pahunkboy

I gather the gay thing is new to him


Talk about that....something that's probably a bit confusing to him right now..that you have in common...but not paternalistic, try to keep it light and wait, isn't this a first date? I wouldn't even worry about the whole LTR or not thing yet.


it is.  I guess that is premature.   You know how men are tho. One wrong question or even a key word sends them to the door. Wouldn't it be wild if I had to not let him see another guy who I fling with???

Jim used to say I was too "easy" -- as in available.  he managed to chase a guy all the while the guy thinks it is HIS idea- but it isnt.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:12:11 PM   
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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:13:49 PM   
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Don't just sit and talk, do something active. Take a walk, go miniature golfing or whatever. Something that's fun and will generate it's own conversation.


A walk at the river sounds good.   We have some nice spots.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:15:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		don't overthink it ya goofball.....just have fun...and ffs don't talk about other dudes or have any around...that's ick...

it's a first date, you're trying to see if there's chemistry right? I mean what is your goal? Don't worry so much about his reaction, if he's an ass it's going to happen anyway, better sooner eh?

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 5:31:49 PM   
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is this a date or a trick?

if a date, behave appropriately.

curb your wanton sluttiness for a few hours and see if you can be friends first, before you become friends with benefits.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 6:02:11 PM   
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ORIGINAL: purepleasure


is this a date or a trick?

if a date, behave appropriately.

curb your wanton sluttiness for a few hours and see if you can be friends first, before you become friends with benefits.


He likes woman.

If I may sound pompous- a lay only goes so far. I can live with out it. I have a regular fling for that- and I know he is safe.  (but very not available)

So - fling is what the bacon sizzles.   But why sell short.

On the other hand- at a certain age- I mean- a guy has to be able to talk to me. other wise- -- I mean I can get a cheap quicky ... we all can.  But after a certain age- the "chase" is not really worth the lay.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 6:28:25 PM   
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Just teasing; relax, get to know him, and have some fun.

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 6:32:15 PM   
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"does this tin foil make my ass look big?"





LOL you're killing me Level

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RE: coach me on dating-- - 5/20/2010 6:32:31 PM   
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Like you and laurell have mentioned... do NOT talk about politics, the Illuminati, Alex Jones; do NOT ask him "does this tin foil make my ass look big?"

Just teasing; relax, get to know him, and have some fun.



Level, your pimp hand is strong!

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