domiguy
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ORIGINAL: LadyPact I really don't want to turn this into some kind of 'to munch or not to munch' thread. Like it or not folks, any person that you even go so far as to meet from this site, it was the commonality of some interest in BDSM that brought you together. Whether you went to a munch, an event, or just because you happened to run into each other for the first time here, it's because something that revolves around this site is something that you're both interested in. You didn't meet each other for the first time because of your book club or quilting bee. It's called a starting point. That doesn't make it the only point. It doesn't mean that, the people that you happen to have that in common with aren't interested in going to the movies, watch the football game with you, (or in My own personal, sometimes embarrassing fun) go out for karaoke. (Don't let that one get around. It isn't always pretty.) It's great to be blessed with good instincts. I tend to think that I have them, too. (Most of the time.) Still, that isn't the case for everyone. We're kind of talking about that here if, in two weeks, even after spending three years as a pro-domme, there's not a better filter going on. Literally, this OP has had more first meet issues than I've had in over two years. (Probably longer, since I can't recall having these kinds of issues.) She needs help in this area. If that help comes to her in the version of meeting people at National events, where their are volunteers and security around, it might be the answer. If it's going to clubs where a person's information are on record in case there is some sort of harassment problem (including their real name and address from photo ID on file) it might help her assist with the radar that she may be lacking. You don't get to take the stance that all folks that enjoy the public scene are one dimentional or not well rounded, and at the same time say, but I'd love to meet LP. Oh silly cute, lil Pacty. What the op needs to do is release her "inner sub." Elmo think that the OP lady is pretty. Elmo thinks it would be sooooo fun to put Elmo's wiener in her butt. Elmo is tired.
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