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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 5/25/2010 3:22:42 PM

porcelaine

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CaringandReal,

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One woman's "immature dom" is another woman's dream master and one woman's "intolerant jerk" is another's perfert Lord.

I think this is what baffles my Lady the most. Sometimes she looks at my choices and wonders what's wrong with me. But for some reason the challenging sort that are hard and strict resonate. I wish I had it in me to go for the cakewalk but I never do.

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I wish I could analyze precisely what that certain something is that makes a dominant "right for me," but I've never been able to do that. All I know is that mysterious gestalt extends beyond stylistic matters such as these. At least for me.

He touches that place within. It's hypnotic and it draws me near. Even when my feet would hasten I can't say no. That's usually the first sign.

~porcelaine

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 5/26/2010 8:32:00 AM

Kana

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"Where have all the good Doms gone?"

Grins.
I'm still here, just been on a small hiatus is all
:-)

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 5/26/2010 9:11:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: LillyoftheVally

Well fist I expected to be informed of the fact that I was in the land of the poofters I mean seriously, and to be fair I am as cute as a button it really shouldn't matter

you are CUTER than any damned button!! and you can fix fire alarms!

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 5/26/2010 9:13:01 AM

GreedyTop

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ORIGINAL: Kana

"Where have all the good Doms gone?"

Grins.
I'm still here, just been on a small hiatus is all
:-)

yeah, but you are spoken for, if I am not mistaken... *sighs*

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 5/26/2010 9:42:51 AM

Kana

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ORIGINAL: GreedyTop

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

"Where have all the good Doms gone?"

Grins.
I'm still here, just been on a small hiatus is all
:-)

yeah, but you are spoken for, if I am not mistaken... *sighs*

~Grins~

One day I'm a gonna figure out how she speaks so much with my her mouth full of my cock.
Slaves got mad talentz.

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/1/2010 7:18:09 PM

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come find me!

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/2/2010 12:52:04 AM

monzetsu

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no more good doms, subs took all the ones that are solid

(inside joke)

Just keep at it on CM and other places. Running through the numbers is work but its worth it.

Don't batters who hit .3 make millions?

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/2/2010 9:02:45 AM

SailingBum

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Upon reading 4 pages Im more confused now than I ever was. But I think 2 are in chicago and one just came back from vacation. And Jesus just left chicago ZZ Top

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/3/2010 8:22:57 PM

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My problem seems to be I am exactly what I say I am.

What pisses me off is that I really am looking for a 24/7 and all I seem to run across here is chickies wanting to milk the fantasy of what i want till it's time to make a move, then poof.

Other than that I had a nice day.

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/3/2010 8:52:32 PM

DarlingSavage

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Good Doms don't cry!
Good Doms don't cry!
They don't cry-aye-aye
They don't cry!

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/3/2010 9:49:38 PM

IronBear

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No but some do cry:

"Aussie! Aussie! Aussie!
Oi! Oi! Oi!"

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 4:13:25 AM

Syrox

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<----- Real Dom here..... Well at least i think so... it was what was on my price lable anyway..

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 6:24:33 AM

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ORIGINAL: osf

My problem seems to be I am exactly what I say I am.

What pisses me off is that I really am looking for a 24/7 and all I seem to run across here is chickies wanting to milk the fantasy of what i want till it's time to make a move, then poof.

Other than that I had a nice day.

Dude...how would you react if you received a c-mail from a submissive that told you she was looking for marriage? You would probably run so fast there would be skid marks on the goose.

24/7 is a commitment, and it takes time and nurturing to get there. Just relax and ease your focus on the commitment so soon...it scares 'em off!!

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 6:26:32 AM

sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: Syrox

<----- Real Dom here..... Well at least i think so... it was what was on my price lable anyway..

Psst...Syrox...there is a 75% off sticker stuck on yer ass.

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 6:38:53 AM

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24/7 is a commitment, and it takes time and nurturing to get there. Just relax and ease your focus on the commitment so soon...it scares 'em off!!

I personally think it runs off those who need to be ran off.

Nothing wrong with stating what you are looking for upfront. If they aren't mature enough or in that frame of mind to handle that then I'll be glad to clock them for speed as they sprint.

osf: Persevere..I'm sure what your looking for will come along..It's just less and less desired these days maybe but the females are out there who want it.

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 6:53:28 AM

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ORIGINAL: SexySea

No matter what I do I can't seem to find a man on here who is really who he says he is and is not married or involved. You talk to a (single) guy for two weeks and then he accidently says he has to get offline because his wife just walked in. You can't hide a wife forever.

As for finding a Dom/Master...... I'm starting to give up hope. Why is it so hard to find a man that wants to be served and loved? Holding out for something better than devotion, play and sex?

Unfortunately, like many have pointed out, this is the state of dating these days. It's just plain hard to find what your looking for..it's complicated at times.

Love your dog!

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 7:01:45 AM

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Seems most times that if you do not show any interest .. then they drift off.. and if you do show interest the run! sort of damned if you do and damned if you don't...i don;'t get it so i just remain true to me and be who i am and make no excuses... its just easiest for me..

just my

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 8:36:48 AM

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ORIGINAL: loverly

Seems most times that if you do not show any interest .. then they drift off.. and if you do show interest the run! sort of damned if you do and damned if you don't...i don;'t get it so i just remain true to me and be who i am and make no excuses... its just easiest for me..

just my

Yes, that's how I feel. I'd rather just be myself, but then sometimes, I can get so excited about a person, I just go off the deep end. I love how I feel when that happens, but I don't like the results I get from it! It's so hard to contain yourself, though, when someone makes you feel so excited, you're literally bouncing off the walls, though. Someday, I will learn though, it's inevitable, and I DO have a couple of brain cells knocking around together in here somewhere.

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 10:02:20 AM

reynardfox

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Every Dom or Domme worth a damn is spoken for or married, period, live with it.
This is not a marriage agency, why on earth would a Dom need to be single in any case? The odds that anyone you meet here would marry you are fairly astronomical, let's be honest, for that you want unattached prospective partners for lifewith no smelly feet.com.
If people on here are lying to you they should be rolled down a hill in a bag of their own shit, pure and simple, but let's be honest, ask yourself what it is that your looking for, and would you hope to find that on any website, realistically.
Best of luck but there are more perverts than paragons on here, or anywhere else.

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RE: Where have all the good Doms gone? - 6/4/2010 11:24:55 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

24/7 is a commitment, and it takes time and nurturing to get there. Just relax and ease your focus on the commitment so soon...it scares 'em off!!

I personally think it runs off those who need to be ran off.

Nothing wrong with stating what you are looking for upfront. If they aren't mature enough or in that frame of mind to handle that then I'll be glad to clock them for speed as they sprint.

osf: Persevere..I'm sure what your looking for will come along..It's just less and less desired these days maybe but the females are out there who want it.

I almost think it's my job to convince them they don't really want me and their job to convince me they do

It really isn't hard to find suitable women, but finding suitable women that are also available can be a bitch

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