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RE: Domestic service - 5/26/2010 6:43:24 PM

Rochsub2009

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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I have never seen one. I have never been in the same room with one. I have never had a woman say, " thank you for the orgasm Jeff" They simply do not exist.

......Jeffffffffff, you actually have to have a woman in the same room...

Exactly!!! i hate to tell you this Jeffff, but the women in the porn videos and nudie magazines that you usually "have sex with" can't have orgasms. They're just images on paper or on film.

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RE: Domestic service - 5/26/2010 6:48:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: cloudboy

I am beginning to see things from your POV.

i'm actually glad to hear that, Cloudboy. While our kinks may be different, it's good to know that you are beginning to understand mine a bit more. While it may never become your kink, it's good to know that you see where i'm coming from and understand why it appeals to me.

But i absolutely understand why some would view being a service sub to be an act of stupidity. That's why i was reluctant to share my story. Service subs are looked down upon, even in the BDSM community.

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RE: Domestic service - 5/26/2010 6:51:53 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

Rochsub, you are amazing. I haven't the faintest need for a service sub, but dang, I wish there were more of you around!

Thank you, Lady Hibiscus. i seldom get a compliment for being a service sub, so i appreciate the love.

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RE: Domestic service - 5/26/2010 7:37:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: SocratesNot

I think you are a very good person littlewonder.
In general, I think subs are very good people. Maybe even too good.
The only thing I am sometimes bothered with is "Do masters deserve subs being so good to them?"
Volunteering is a great thing!
I tend to think that it is a little better place for exercising your good will and giving nature.

LOL! Your questions are comments are delightfully fresh. Like a clean breeze in these musty 10-year-old-sneakers-and-unwashed-gym-shorts forums. Ignore the anti-intellectuals urging you to stop speaking and just brainlessly be; speech is what forums are for. If one wants to brainlessly be, one can go climb a mountain and gaze at the be-yoo-ti-ful white *fluffy* clouds, you know? ;)

Masters deserve subs being so good to them under at least two circumstances (there may be more):

1. If the subs have decided they deserve it.
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2. If such masters are capable of changing their subs' realities so that they are convinced they deserve it.

Same diff, pretty much, but there are always many ways of looking at the same thing, I think. I get cold, dry, and shriveled when I think about volunteering for an abstract cause. I cannot (make that will not) perform service except in the context of doing it personally for another, special human being. The personal is all for me. But I'm a rather extreme version of the anti-group, anti-cause, anti-ideals (or as they once said, anti-establishment) type of personality.

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