SirPumpy -> RE: Are you mentally ill ? (5/30/2010 3:27:05 AM)
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I think im in luuuurv! The short version of this (My favourite) is usually along the lines of "Harden the fuck up".... You've obviously been there a fair bit to have the insight you've displayed in your post and it pretty much mirrors my own. Kudos quote:
ORIGINAL: Termyn8or When someone sits here exhibiting the nigh fly zone of borderline manic deprssion, I tell them I don't want to fucking hear it becuse they will be here next week crying, whether or not conditions have changed significantly. When someone with ADD or ADHD interrupts me I perplex them by conveniently forgetting the answer to their question, and I will leave them hanging. Multiple DUIs, you just stop bailing them out of jail. Consequences teach. In no case is professional help needed. Been there done that. Trade the manic depression for a mind altering drug, trade the ADHD for ritalin, trade the alcohol for anabuse or who the hell knows. That is not our way. Someone shows up ready to kill themselves I'll get my gun out. If and when they can convince ME that it is time for them to check out for good, I'll hand them the implement. Yes, I contemplated suicide, years ago. I told noone, I did not issue a plea for help. I backed out at the last minute and had my moment, my realization that things could be worse. The main problem is that people can't handle life, and when you run into that, and it is real, the last thing you want to do is to attack someone's sanity. The simple fact is that if someone expresses the desire to commit suicide they don't really want to do it, they are crying out because they can't handle life. Locking them up where they can't do it is no solution. And it is rare that you can improve their life. They must do that or deal with it. When I stuck it up their ass at the track, and my gambling dojo went nuts over my newly invented "system", I stood there stoicly, as he hugged me and jumped around in celebration. And the races I lost, I didn't cry, I remained stoic and figured out how to bet the next race. It is that kind of calm, cool and collected thinking that solves problems. It solves problems THE RIGHT WAY by attacking the root of the cause. This trait is exhibited in I would estimate about 1% of the population to which I've been exposed. I've learned to accept people's exagerations and whoops and hollers, and tears and fears. They do not have the self control. Is it my job to help them overcome that ? You tell me. And oh yes, I have given up on some. One has gone to a shrink because they got mad at their Mother. Now they are on some kind of drug. They are not themselves. Fuck, it is hard enoung to break through people's normal defense mechanism, I have no time to fight the hardeneing properties of a drug on top of it. And he still has all the problems he had before, he just doesn't care now. Shit, some good weed would've had about the same effect. Latest news, someone I know had to do a little bit of coke. Of course that is not cheap. Guess what, they have no food now. Guess what, I am not feeding them. This does not qualify as an intervention, but I think it is pretty damn close to what is called tough love. If anyone thinks that a mind altering drug differs from a drug of abuse just because it is prescribed, I believe that they are sadly mistaken. Stop by anytime for your grain of naturally harvested unrefined sea salt to go with that. (BTW, how many grams are in a grain ? ) T
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