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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 2:47:28 PM   
leadership527


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The point of my thread are RISKS involved in TPE, not discussion of perfectly healthy relationships.

Fair enough... and let's be clear... no pain, no gain. Whether or not one does any sort of weird, freaky, BDSM-ish sort of thing, intimacy is risk.... the more intimacy, the more risk. I make no bones about it, such things are not safe and they are not for the risk averse. They especially are not for the unwise and/or unwary. It's a high stakes game of poker where the only valid moves are to fold or go all-in.

Here's some risks that nobody's talked to you about yet because everyone (you included) is always so focused on the poor, opressed slave girls.

  • I LOVE Carol. Can you imagine how I would feel if one day Carol turned to me and said, "How could you do this to me?" In such a situation, the word devastated would not even begin to describe how I would feel. You could go ahead and tack on similar words till you ran out of them and it still wouldn't even begin to cover it.
  • For those involved in SM, ANY time the sadist touches the masochist, they are leaving themselves pretty much wide open to criminal charges. Really, the law in the US doesn't countenance such things.
  • How about the risk of being in charge? Whatever happens in our relationship, for better or worse, it is MY doing. If things turn out poorly, then it's my fault. I am the leader and the full burden of responsibility for the plans I've set in motion are mine to shoulder. There's a reason why very few people want to actually step up to leadership positions and that is it. It's a freakin risky place to be out here on the pointy end of the stick. There's a reason the phrase "It's lonely at the top" is true.


I could go on. What I'm pointing out is that ALL great endeavors carry with them significant risk. Some of us choose to dream and reach even with the risk of falling to our doom. It's a mistake to think that it is only the slave who is at risk. As is always true, it is the leadership position which is far riskier than those who follow the leader.

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 2:55:47 PM   
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Here's some risks that nobody's talked to you about yet because everyone (you included) is always so focused on the poor, opressed slave girls


Don't forget the cost of maintenance either. Being an owner doesn't come cheap. :)

~porcelaine


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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 2:57:30 PM   
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The point of my thread are RISKS involved in TPE, not discussion of perfectly healthy relationships.


TPE itself can either be perfectly healthy or a non-healthy relationship, just as some people have perfectly healthy or unheathly relationships that are not TPE.

The risks are centered upon the individual people involved and things they are or are not doing.

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:08:54 PM   
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ORIGINAL: porcelaine

leadership527,

quote:

Here's some risks that nobody's talked to you about yet because everyone (you included) is always so focused on the poor, opressed slave girls


Don't forget the cost of maintenance either. Being an owner doesn't come cheap. :)

~porcelaine



Ahhh.. man, now he's going to start up a thread about Masters being slaves to thier slaves.

Wait a minute too late, there was a recent thread about two slaves being in a relationship together.

Will somebody turn the Laundry Dryer off and get me out of this thing...

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:11:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		today on this board and topic have been so educational!!!i am more aware of who i am....and the 'risks' jeff explained hit home.
anything worth having is worth the risks of heart mind and body....imho
the ladies of the board feel like family to me.....it has to be kindred spirits......is there a club president?LOL

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:15:05 PM   
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Status: offline 		SocratesNot, chuckles, yeah slaves never are allowed to think. Its comments like this that MAKE YOU A RISK, to me.

I will say anyone is a risk when they speak out of ignorance on a topic -- especially ADMITTED ignorance mind you. But i guess you think people ignorant of a topic should advise people about the topic. Okay then.

angel

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:16:23 PM   
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Status: offline 		There are Risks for both people in the relationship. This includes both sides of the coin in a D/s TPE or internal enslavement relationship. Again, seriously think about it for a moment.



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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:17:31 PM   
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anything worth having is worth the risks of heart mind and body....imho


Absolutely true. We have a proverb in Serbian language about that " Ko ne riskira ne profitira" - "Who doesn't risk, doesn't profit."

There's just one little question: Is this worthy? And is this really worthy for you?

If not, better leave him.


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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:18:45 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

Will somebody turn the Laundry Dryer off and get me out of this thing...


Only if you use the safe word!

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:18:54 PM   
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Status: offline 		By far the largest risk a Master faces with internally enslaved gash it that they may get woozy over your mastery and stab you inadvertently in the tonsil with a fork causing you to bleed to death as they feed you all dreamy and hormone washed like, and too oogly eyed to call the EMT.

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:23:46 PM   
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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

SocratesNot, chuckles, yeah slaves never are allowed to think. Its comments like this that MAKE YOU A RISK, to me.

I will say anyone is a risk when they speak out of ignorance on a topic -- especially ADMITTED ignorance mind you. But i guess you think people ignorant of a topic should advise people about the topic. Okay then.

angel


Now Now, every fuckdoll has had their cerebral cortex removed and all neuro pathways rewired to the clit. You're giving out top secret information before he's gone through our secret society hazing rituals.

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:28:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		SN..the reason i had any question at ALL is because this Master is the most REMARKABLE , HONORABLE man i have ever met. i am used to controlling everything that effects me. this is a different relationship. i am happier than ever...the freak out was indeed from the unknown. trust me SN.... im cool:)

and i thank heavens for angel,porcelaine,jeff,kyra,bitatrouble,daddysprop,ect....those who have experience and wisdom of living the life i have recently chosen....and to be honest i think the life chose me.


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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:29:13 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4
Will somebody turn the Laundry Dryer off and get me out of this thing...

Only if you use the safe word!

Safe words are for Wuzzies... I would threaten to spank your ass senseless but I'm afraid you'd only keep me in here longer.

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:34:51 PM   
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Status: offline 		Everything I do I do it for you - Hymn of Internal Enslavement

Look into my eyes - you will see
What you mean to me
Search your heart - search your soul
And when you find me there you'll search no more

Don't tell me it's not worth tryin' for
You can't tell me it's not worth dyin' for
You know it's true
Everything I do - I do it for you

Look into your heart - you will find
There's nothin' there to hide
Take me as I am - take my life
I would give it all - I would sacrifice

Don't tell me it's not worth fightin' for
I can't help it - there's nothin' I want more
Ya know it's true
Everything I do - I do it for you

There's no love - like your love
And no other - could give more love
There's nowhere - unless you're there
All the time - all the way

Oh - you can't tell me it's not worth tryin' for
I can't help it - there's nothin' I want more
I would fight for you - I'd lie for you
Walk the wire for you - ya I'd die for you

Ya know it's true
Everything I do - I do it for you

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:37:56 PM   
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...the freak out was indeed from the unknown.


Not to stir off topic too far, but this can be an issue on both sides of the coin. Personally, I have a hard time dealing with unknowns at times. I might freak out
for a little while. Then again, this is all part of "human nature" and it does and can
and will occur from time to time. (depending upon what involved or at stake with the unkown).

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:39:18 PM   
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Safe words are for Wuzzies... I would threaten to spank your ass senseless but I'm afraid you'd only keep me in here longer.


Yes you are now punished to that thread only for a week!

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:40:41 PM   
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By far the largest risk a Master faces with internally enslaved gash it that they may get woozy over your mastery and stab you inadvertently in the tonsil with a fork causing you to bleed to death as they feed you all dreamy and hormone washed like, and too oogly eyed to call the EMT.

Ron, you allow forks?

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:42:39 PM   
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Status: offline 		im a spazz anyhoo.....sometimes i just get extra spazzy:)

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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:42:56 PM   
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Safe words are for Wuzzies... I would threaten to spank your ass senseless but I'm afraid you'd only keep me in here longer.


Yes you are now punished to that thread only for a week!


You realize my masochistic side fuels and drives my sadistic side right? :-)



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RE: Risks of internal enslavement aka TPE - 5/27/2010 3:45:33 PM   
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Status: offline 		THAT goes way beyond masochism and yes, I am also both a masochist and sadist.

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