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sunshinemiss -> Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 6:50:37 PM)
People do stuff 'cause they like it, it feels right or they feel comfortable with it. Too wordy?

ReginaMirus -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 6:52:33 PM)
I think it's POIFECT! Couldn't have said it better myself! [:)]

Rule -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 6:54:53 PM)
Well done!

WyldHrt -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 6:56:34 PM)
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leadership527 -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:00:10 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss People do stuff 'cause they like it, it feels right or they feel comfortable with it. laughs Funny as hell. But in truth, life is more complex than that. One of the things I hated early on was people saying "I do it because it's my nature." That, of course, is a correct statement. But as an analogy, it is lightning's nature to strike tall objects. That is an undeniably true statement. That statement gives you some understanding about lightning. But it doesn't teach you how to construct a lightning rod. Similarly, just because it's true that it is my nature to be dominant doesn't mean that there aren't deeper understandings to be had and those understandings can be hugely beneficial in terms of successfully managing an M/s relationship.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:04:43 PM)
Oh sure, Jeff. And I certainly believe in examining my life. However, in the end... life is about two things - learning and having fun. That's it (Illusions, Richard Bach). I've done a good bit of learning. I'm in the having fun phase of my life. And I think learning is fun! So... I'm back to... doing stuff cause I like it, it feels right or I'm comfy with it... including learning! (ahhhh round and round we go!) best, sunshine

lusciouslips19 -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:07:57 PM)
And lets not forget its because your a hedonistic slut!

SocratesNot -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:09:02 PM)
quote: laughs Funny as hell. But in truth, life is more complex than that. One of the things I hated early on was people saying "I do it because it's my nature." That, of course, is a correct statement. But as an analogy, it is lightning's nature to strike tall objects. That is an undeniably true statement. That statement gives you some understanding about lightning. But it doesn't teach you how to construct a lightning rod. Similarly, just because it's true that it is my nature to be dominant doesn't mean that there aren't deeper understandings to be had and those understandings can be hugely beneficial in terms of successfully managing an M/s relationship. Bravo! Bravo! Bravo! Congratulations on a wonderful thought!

sunshinemiss -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:10:46 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lusciouslips19 And lets not forget its because your a hedonistic slut! What? that doesn't fit in with the theory... I think it may be the fun part... I'm not sure. Must do more research!!! Must examine.... now ... where is the person to help me with this? tick tock tick tock. Time is a-wasting! Ohhhhh lushyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! send me the Cliff Notes, will ya'?

SocratesNot -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:11:10 PM)
The unexamined life is not worth living. - Socrates

WinsomeDefiance -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:11:13 PM)
Hey lushy, speaking of hedonistic sluts, how has your return to the slut life going?

Silence8 -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:12:44 PM)
It's symptomatic of today's excess that the un-reflective (read: stupid) think they have the right not only not to think, but to dictate that others either not think or think exclusively behind closed doors.

sunshinemiss -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:14:19 PM)
Dude, you are not seriously thinking that I'm un-reflective?

Missokyst -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:16:41 PM)
Yeah baby! I enjoyed school. I love learning. Life is too fun to make it so serious you forget to enjoy the scenery because you are too busy putting up the road signs. quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss Oh sure, Jeff. And I certainly believe in examining my life. However, in the end... life is about two things - learning and having fun. That's it (Illusions, Richard Bach). I've done a good bit of learning. I'm in the having fun phase of my life. And I think learning is fun! So... I'm back to... doing stuff cause I like it, it feels right or I'm comfy with it... including learning! (ahhhh round and round we go!) best, sunshine

sunshinemiss -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:16:54 PM)
... or stupid. LOL.... You know there is a difference between not having the capacity to know and not choosing to share.

Missokyst -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:18:36 PM)
Examine it along the way. "I did that?" "OH YEAH.. dang that was GREAT!" quote: ORIGINAL: SocratesNot The unexamined life is not worth living. - Socrates

Level -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:20:00 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Silence8 It's symptomatic of today's excess that the un-reflective (read: stupid) think they have the right not only not to think, but to dictate that others either not think or think exclusively behind closed doors. That's not directed to sunny, right?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:30:09 PM)
Yay for Sunnylicious!! That allows for oh, learning from life experiences, maybe?

BitaTruble -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:35:55 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss People do stuff 'cause they like it, it feels right or they feel comfortable with it. Too wordy? Too wordy? No. Incomplete? Yes. People also do stuff because of obligation, loyalty, sacrifice, challenge and a host of other reasons or for no reason at all or just because they feel they should. Sometimes it's damned uncomfortable, feels really wrong and they hate it, but.. they do it anyway. Such is the nature of the beast called human in a realm known as D/s. [;)]

LadyAngelika -> RE: Sunshine's theory of D/s (5/26/2010 7:39:05 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SocratesNot The unexamined life is not worth living. - Socrates Way to steal my sig line. - LA

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