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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:15:14 PM

caelestis

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To me there is nothing better than when its nearly too much. When your body moves into the strikes of the cane, paddle, etc and you have absolutely no control of this movement. When all is said and done and you're teary eyed and your body aches and its hard to stay standing... you kneel and rest against them and it feels as if there is no where else in the world you could be at that moment and feel so completely and wholly content. That moment is my utopia.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:16:59 PM

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Beautifully written! Thanks for giving me a glimpse of how it must look and feel from the other side!

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:17:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I was a bit concerned that I had written the OP in such a way that, maybe, only tops would identify it. I appreciate you showing Me that My fears were unfounded.

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Haha when has THAT ever stopped me? And you're welcome, thank you for the opportunity to read all these wonderful responses.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:19:46 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron

OTK is my favorite thing in the BDSM world. The feeling of anticipation when a sub knows whats to come. the moment when you pull him over your lap and you can feel him trembling from both fear and excitement. OMG just the feel of bare flesh under my hand and the sounds of loud smacks I hear when my hand finally makes contact with his ass. And the feeling of completion when its over and I can pull him into my arms and just feel that connection with each other. I can't even explain the feelings and the energy that flow between two people who truly connect not just physically, but mentally and emotionally too. Sorry, but you just can't get that same effect online.

Like Marvin Gaye said...... Ain't NOTHING like the real thing.

LadyC,

Oh, you hit a wonderful spot. Energy! Literally the electric connection that you share. Even though you can't touch it or necessarily see it, there's no denying that it exists. All one need ever do, is to feel it.

Thank you for contributing.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:19:47 PM

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On a crisp autumn evening in 1978 when I was barely eighteen I remember the first time I realized that I was not alone in all of this and maybe I wasn't such a deviant after all. In the midst of some fairly heavy petting my companion reached into the front seat (as we were aft) and produced a pair of handcuffs from her purse. My world would change forever that evening and it was the single most profound kinky experience I have ever had although in real terms it was very tame in comparison to what I pursue today. Sometimes life's simplest moments have the most impact on us.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:26:04 PM

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When Master puts his hand on my throat and looks right into my eyes and starts pushing me wherever he wants me to be. It makes me feel like he knows and accepts everything that I am. There's no judgment. In his grip and his gaze I feel like he knows everything I am and yet none of it matters because in that moment nothing I am matters because I am 100% his and we both know that in our guts. Any stress or tiredness or distraction I feel fades away and he is my entire world and I am his. I feel completely at his mercy, weightless, so completely in the present. My body, the sounds it makes, the pain it feels, the pleasure it feels . . . it's all his. It feels like the most intense giving and receiving rolled into one.

Thanks for asking, LP.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:27:43 PM

leadership527

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Sheez, LnT: I'm not even a sadist and that moved me. Harlequin romance prose maybe, but absolutely not bad.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:38:28 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Well for a spin on it, I'm a cyber forum junkie. I love posting, I feel vital and warm and excited when I'm really engaged in a good discussion.

LA,

I've said this before on the boards, but I think you missed it. I'm glad to see you back. It's always good to have folks around who will keep us on our toes.

Never let it be said that I can't get swept up in reading the written word. I can. That can happen either through reading, or by writing, depending on My mood. Yet, I have to wonder if I would be capable of doing so without the experiences that have touched My life. Would it really impact Me in the same way had I never lived any of it?

I tend to think no, though of course, I only have the one reference. I can say I wouldn't have traded it.

Thank you for adding to the discussion.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:40:58 PM

allthatjaz

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That little bite he she does on her lower lip as she concentrates on the pain.
When I reach out and touch those exquisite beads of perspiration on her skin, our canvas.
When she flinches in anticipation of our power over her.
When her eyes glaze and that gentle smile crosses her lips.
When I see her flying and I want to reach out and touch those delicate wings.
When she lays in our arms and sighs that satisfied sigh.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:42:07 PM

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The frustration and envy I feel after reading these posts... I don't have words.

But I loved reading yours.

< Message edited by jbcurious -- 5/27/2010 4:55:02 PM >

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:44:21 PM

laurell3

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But you will, because you are beautiful and fantastic and I adore you as do many here.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:53:25 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

The apprehension as i wait for my Sir , when i know he is going to cane me. This feeling has occurred several times since, where i needed more to feel complete.

Hello kiwi,

Apprehension is such a wonderful thing! Fear, anticipation, yearning, and so much more wrapped into one!

Quite some time ago, I read a paper on the study of apprehension. It involved a synopsis of folks who were having blood drawn. They were actually having a greater reaction to the apprehension and fear of the event, rather than the event itself. Now there's a yummy playground for a sadist if there ever was one.

Thank you for you thoughts here. My best to you, and to your Sir.

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 4:54:20 PM

leadership527

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quote:

ORIGINAL: jbcurious
The frustration and envy I feel after reading these posts... I don't have words.

You know, when I met Carol, I was travelling on business. We talked at length. In her case, she talked about the difficulty of finding a partner because she was introverted and seldom "got out of her basement" (referring to doing woodworking and art).

In about the first 3 hours, I came to conclude that every single male in Kansas City was genetically defective. I mean seriously, it's our JOB to be the hunter to her prey and they utterly, totally, and completely failed. Whether or not she ever left her house was irrelevant... it was their job to find her and they didn't. It only makes me more smug now that she is my freakin slave to think, "I'll bet a lot of them would've liked to have a slave girl"

In many ways, I feel similarly about you. Honestly, I'm beginning to question the viability of the male genetic pool in your neck of the woods also. How someone like you could be searching for more than about 3 days or so is a mystery to me. Take heart, I can't imagine that it'll be all that long before some truly dominant personality with a liberal dash of kink catches your scent.

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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:10:29 PM

laurell3

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Agreed!

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:11:13 PM

lizi

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The moment when we catch each other's eyes during some heavy play and we can't help it, we smile at each other - then it's back to business. During those oasis moments I see what I mean to him and how his eyes soften when he looks at me, and and my heart feels like bursting.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:12:27 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

But you will, because you are beautiful and fantastic and I adore you as do many here.

*HUGZ*

Jeff, you can't blame it all on the men...I don't exactley make it easy...

I mean I did turn down that kennel offer...

< Message edited by jbcurious -- 5/27/2010 5:14:16 PM >

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:17:46 PM

leadership527

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ORIGINAL: jbcurious
Jeff, you can't blame it all on the men...I don't exactley mske it easy...

OK, I hate derailing LP's very excellent thread any further, but I just can't let this go.

Sure I can. Carol said the same thing. She said, "But honestly, nobody can find me if I never go anywhere." My response was blunt. Whether or not you make it hard doesn't matter. The bottom line inescapable conclusion is that a lot of men would LIKE to have you and they do not. The hunters are supposed to be hunting and catching the prey -- even if the prey is sneaky or, in your case, has it's own long teeth to bite with *chuckles*

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I didn't so much "enslave" Carol as I did "enlove" her. - Me
I want a joyous, loving, respectful relationship where the male is in charge and deserves to be. - DavanKael

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:18:56 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: lally2

hey LA - i was on those AOL boards back then, only im sure the one i was on was called Dominance and Submission -

Hello lally,

I'm thinking you, in fact, might be My target audience.

Would you be willing to discuss, in more detail, what it was like for you in your transition from the internet to experiencing these things in real life?

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Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:29:05 PM

LuckyAlbatross

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Like most things, it's a cycle. Information informs the experience which informs the information, back and forth, in and out.

I made all the mistakes a novice can make and within three weeks, meeting dorks offline, having scenes, wearing collars that I actually thought meant something. Luckily I always had a quick learning curve and figured out after three weeks that what I was reading and what I was experiencing really didn't match up. So I took some real time to THINK about what I was doing and what other people were doing.

It helped that I'd always been "the outsider" so observing behavior was second nature to me by then.

I'm much more balanced now- my cyber life is vital, but only in terms of intellectual stimulation and remaining connected to the greater scene life. But if I didn't have all the experiences I do offline, I'd never progress on cyberland.

Which is what I saw when I occasionally went back to that chatroom in 2003 or later- I saw some of the exact same screen names repeating the exact same relationship cycles. They didn't want to move away from the screen, they either didn't know how or just felt more secure in that arena.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:45:22 PM

LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: OrpheusAgonistes
Great question, and I've loved the responses so far.

One thing that sends tiny earthquakes through my nerves every time is when a partner pauses during a beating to reflect on her work and decide where to go from there. The early stages of being bound and beaten tend to whiz past in a euphoric flux. The point when she pauses, looks over her work on my body, and starts toying around deciding how she wants to hurt me next is like a still point in the middle of a beautiful and violent storm. This is when emotions coalesce and I start to babble. I babble elegantly, but I do babble. If the dynamic is right, this is when the most urgent need I have is to show my devotion to her. It's a feeling I never understood until I'd had the experience, and can never recapture in contemplation but only in real time, when it's really happening. The feeling is too slippery to get a grasp on to explain in words--it's just that right at that moment it becomes blindingly apparent that the thing she wants to be doing most is hurting me and that she understands the degree to which suffering for her is an expression of devotion and adoration.

OA,

WOW! Have you, perhaps, been peeking in My windows?

I know this feeling! I know it well.

Being one who indulges in public play, I have heard this comment on many occasions. At some point during the scene, I will pause and tilt My head to the side. Something is not right. Something is not finished. My hands are reaching for something that isn't yet placed. My fingers, yearning for the right implement, will touch at the tips. Rubbing frantically trying to feel what I need. Almost like an artist, looking for the right brush. People might step up, offering Me this thing or that. No. NO! It must be right. It must be My vision. Inside of Me, I know how this proceeds. Only the perfect note will sing this harmony.

Then, without explanation, there it is. This is what I want. Oh yes. This. THIS! This is taking Me, taking us, where I really want us to go.

I might have to take a shower after this thread.

Thank you for your contribution.

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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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