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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 5:49:34 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: MOMistress

I agree with Lady Pact. Mere words alone will never be able to describe the depth or intensity of a situation without having the actual experience to pull the feelings and knowledge from.

For me the entire experience is taken in my all of my senses. Watching the storm of desire and wide-eyed wonder of the unknown cross his face as I take complete control of him. Hearing his moans and whimpers as I use his body for my pleasure. Feeling his body tremble and shudder beneath me. Knowing that he trusts me implicitly with his vulnerabilities. The total orgasmic rush of power that I feel in knowing that all this is freely given in his willingness to please Me!

MO,

I don't know.  You seemed to do a pretty good job.  At least to Me.

I'm glad you joined the conversation.


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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 6:32:02 PM   
catize


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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: kiwisub12

The apprehension as i wait for my Sir , when i know he is going to cane me.  This feeling has occurred several times since, where i needed more to feel complete.

Hello kiwi,

Apprehension is such a wonderful thing!  Fear, anticipation, yearning, and so much more wrapped into one!

Quite some time ago, I read a paper on the study of apprehension.  It involved a synopsis of folks who were having blood drawn.  They were actually having a greater reaction to the apprehension and fear of the event, rather than the event itself.  Now there's a yummy playground for a sadist if there ever was one.

Thank you for you thoughts here.  My best to you, and to your Sir.


Interesting because I have worked very hard to learn not to anticipate when it is time for pain play. I studiously ignore the huge bag he carries in or the toys that have been laid out. I don't ask questions because I don't want to know the answers! It goes much better for me if I accept the fact that he will do whatever he wants, with whatever he wants. I don't allow myself to feel any anxiety. That acceptance keeps me relaxed so that I absorb the pain rather than fight against it and we are able to play longer at a more intense level.
Now I'm wondering if they would like to see me nervous! I am not sure that I should ask them!

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 6:56:12 PM   
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ORIGINAL: OrpheusAgonistes

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So, since this is supposed to be a discussion where everyone can participate, I'm going to let you fine folks do what I feel I am lacking. Pick something in the world of BDSM and/or your dynamic, and discuss what it feels like. It can be anything from how your skin feels when it is impacted by a cane, what stirs inside you when you look into the eyes of your submissive, or any other thing that has to do with your world of BDSM. The only thing that I ask for in your contribution is that it be, not what you think it feels like, but what you know it feels like.


Great question, and I've loved the responses so far.

One thing that sends tiny earthquakes through my nerves every time is when a partner pauses during a beating to reflect on her work and decide where to go from there.  The early stages of being bound and beaten tend to whiz past in a euphoric flux.  The point when she pauses, looks over her work on my body, and starts toying around deciding how she wants to hurt me next is like a still point in the middle of a beautiful and violent storm.  This is when emotions coalesce and I start to babble.  I babble elegantly, but I do babble.   If the dynamic is right, this is when the most urgent need I have is to show my devotion to her.  It's a feeling I never understood until I'd had the experience, and can never recapture in contemplation but only in real time, when it's really happening.  The feeling is too slippery to get a grasp on to explain in words--it's just that right at that moment it becomes blindingly apparent that the thing she wants to be doing most is hurting me and that she understands the degree to which suffering for her is an expression of devotion and adoration.



Very, very hot.

And I would say that for me it is the flip side. I feed off the energy, off the reactions, off the feedback, off the intensity of the moment. I feel like a sculptor with an uncarved block that I chisel at (not literally). I take my time, I savour, I am methodical. Nothing else exists in that moment other than me and the one before me (which is why I cannot do public play) and nothing else in the world matters. I like to push things, I like to see what I can get away with, I want to see how much he can take for me, is willing to try and take for me, his discomfort and vulnerability bringing out a very cruel and lustful, yet paradoxically very, very loving, creature in me.

There is also in that moment this feeling that there are no more masks, no more facades, no more acting cool or aloof, but pure rawness which leads to a much deeper and honest understanding of one another.

It's truly beautiful and powerful.

- LA


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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 7:23:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: catize

The following is an excerpt from a journal entry:


catize,

Thank you for sharing something so personal.  I enjoyed reading it so much.


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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 7:59:14 PM   
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ORIGINAL: caelestis
That moment is my utopia.

caelestis,

Welcome to the discussion.  I loved every word and want to thank you for joining.


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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 8:03:55 PM   
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ORIGINAL: DomImus

On a crisp autumn evening in 1978 when I was barely eighteen I remember the first time I realized that I was not alone in all of this and maybe I wasn't such a deviant after all.

Sometimes life's simplest moments have the most impact on us.

Imus,

I'm glad to see you.  I just brought up this very point on another thread recently.  Those 'firsts' absolutely can be memorable.  You actually reminded Me of a story or two of 'firsts' of My own.  Thank you.


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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 8:13:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: lucylucy

When Master puts his hand on my throat and looks right into my eyes and starts pushing me wherever he wants me to be.

Thanks for asking, LP.

lucy,

You are quite welcome, and thank you as well.

How cool this is to hear from the other side.  I'm sure it might sound funny to some folks, but this house is no stranger to what you describe.  Genders reversed, of course, but I don't think that matters.  When 5'2" Me grabs 6'3" him by the throat, he just melts into it and I can toss him about like a rag doll.

Which reminds Me, I really do need to tell him to fix that towel rack that I pushed him into.  Whoops. 


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 8:31:14 PM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: allthatjaz

That little bite he she does on her lower lip as she concentrates on the pain.
When I reach out and touch those exquisite beads of perspiration on her skin, our canvas.
When she flinches in anticipation of our power over her.
When her eyes glaze and that gentle smile crosses her lips.
When I see her flying and I want to reach out and touch those delicate wings.
When she lays in our arms and sighs that satisfied sigh.


Maria,

Where would we be without those little things that our bottoms do?  I think that is why they are so dear to Me.  Thank you.  My best to you and your clan.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 9:30:32 PM   
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~sorry~ nevermind

< Message edited by subtee -- 5/27/2010 9:51:11 PM >

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 10:17:41 PM   
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Status: offline 		What exactly is 'grounding'? Is that supposed to hurt? So what, do the parents lock the kids up in the house all day and don't let them outside? That's a reward, how is that supposed to hurt?

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 11:12:50 PM   
GreedyTop


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I remember those rooms quite well... :)

LadyP.. I recall the first time I topped a guy.. the rush I got from feeling the POWER as I applied crop, cane and clothes pins (especially to the tender bits *evil grin*) and watched him squirm, heard his whimpers and moans.. and those cute yelps as I released the pins.. hehehehehe.. and knowing that he WANTED me to do it..

*purr*

(reminds me, I should email him... )

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/27/2010 11:19:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		The silence. Those absolutely perfect moments of complete silence, when nothing needs to be said and nothing needs to be asked, because we both just know. We think as one, we feel as one, wherever she moves I'm already there waiting for her to move against me, and not a word passes between us - sometimes for hours.

What it feels like is perfect synchronicity, like two people truly joined at the soul, like time has stopped and will not start again until we decide to let it. It feels like nothing else exists in the entire universe but her... and... me. 

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 12:22:52 AM   
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Status: offline 		The sheer thrill and satisfaction of knowing that the food served was good, appreciated by everyone, and that the Domme I did the cooking for was pleased and well compensated for my work. I've cooked for other groups and enjoyed it but doing the cooking for a large group as an act of submission to a Dominant friend, that's totally different. I *know* that tug inside me is the dominant pulling my best skills out for their pleasure, enjoyment, and, in some cases, their financial benefit. To serve by laying all of my knowledge and skills and work out for someone...it's a marvelous feeling.

While I love providing service, there is also something very special about being bound, blindfolded, and giving myself totally over to another's control. I sink into the comfort of just being available for whatever they want to do knowing that I will please them simply because I exist for their use. It soothes my mind and heart every time.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 5:34:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		I love to manipulate flesh. The sound of a crop whizzing through air then landing like lightening in it's targeted spot brings me to a place of serenity. I like it when they squirm a bit against their ties. When I have reached the edge of what they can take then pull back just enough for them to catch their breath then surprise them with another blow building their tolerance and feeding my sadism with every delicious stroke. I love the power as well as the responsibility of their surrender to my whims.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 8:01:05 AM   
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Status: offline 		the thing i loved came about in many ways, but it was the feeling of being alive.  every molecule in my body, every part of me, aching for what would, or would not, come next.

that, and haaving a cock to suck after a bad day at work is a better stress reliever than, uh, herbal therapy.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 8:19:48 AM   
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Status: offline 		LadyPact,
In response to your OP, I would have to state for me it is in the sounds of his toys especially dragon tails, whips, flogger etc. The sound seduces me lulling me into another reality. The thumping feeling also contributes to this lulling, and intensifies my floating into another space. Peering out from my eyes and seeing Master's look of intensity and enjoymet adds to the overall melting within my body. All in all it is a slow seduction to ecstasy for me and a grateful feeling that He is receiving such pleasure in every move he does.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 8:36:23 AM   
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Power is sexy.

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 9:24:08 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: lizi

The moment when we catch each other's eyes during some heavy play and we can't help it, we smile at each other - then it's back to business. During those oasis moments I see what I mean to him and how his eyes soften when he looks at me, and and my heart feels like bursting.

lizi,

This sounds like a beautiful moment of the connection between the two of you.  Thank you for sharing it with us.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

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Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 9:30:11 AM   
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Status: offline 		I know LP has been thanking everyone individually, but I just wanted to say that this is a lovely thread and I am *really* glad to read what everyone has to say, and to add my voice to those thanking LP herself for starting it.

So thank you everyone and thank you Lady Pact.




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RE: I Don't Think They Intended THIS - 5/28/2010 9:35:04 AM   
LadyPact


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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
But if I didn't have all the experiences I do offline, I'd never progress on cyberland.


LA,

I appreciate you coming back to extend on the topic a little more. 

I think there are some things in life that I will never know.  The question of just how many folks fall into the category of reaching out on the net, but really would rather being doing things in the physical world is one of these.  I have to admit, I think some people cheat themselves out of opportunities.  They stand in their own way of something that they might really want to experience.  Yep, I'm even admitting to being judgmental enough to think that might even be a little sad.


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Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

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