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lurch999 -> Domme Bonus Points (5/27/2010 8:07:28 PM)
i am looking for tips from the Ladies here. What are things that subs have done that you really appreciated, could be a gift or just a nice gesture. i am trying to stay firmly on Ma'ams good side as sometimes i can be a bit of an annoyance to Her.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/27/2010 8:12:02 PM)
Listen to her and obey here. Listen for cues about what she needs and be proactive. Listen to what she has to say and interact with her. Did I mention, listen? - LA

DommeKeliDallas -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/27/2010 9:13:26 PM)
Go grocery shopping for her...without her asking you. Or... stop by one of her favorite dining places and get take-out for her. Gift cards to Bed, Bath and Beyond will also score points with her.

doormat1975 -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/27/2010 9:20:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Listen to her and obey here. Listen for cues about what she needs and be proactive. Listen to what she has to say and interact with her. Did I mention, listen? - LA LadyAngelika est une dominante qui sait ce qu'elle dit - LadyAngelika is a Domme who knows what she's talking about [;)] _doormat1975

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/27/2010 11:17:16 PM)
If you KNOW you are annoying her, STOP IT!!

Venatrix -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/27/2010 11:47:31 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus If you KNOW you are annoying her, STOP IT!! Lady Hib, he's a bloke. I don't think they can stop it. [:D]

LadyAngelika -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 5:02:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: doormat1975 quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Listen to her and obey here. Listen for cues about what she needs and be proactive. Listen to what she has to say and interact with her. Did I mention, listen? - LA LadyAngelika est une dominante qui sait ce qu'elle dit - LadyAngelika is a Domme who knows what she's talking about [;)] _doormat1975 Why thank you for the vote of confidence doormat! - LA

PeonForHer -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 9:25:31 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Listen to her . . . Jeez. Nothing in life comes easy, does it?

LadyHibiscus -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 10:53:20 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Venatrix quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus If you KNOW you are annoying her, STOP IT!! Lady Hib, he's a bloke. I don't think they can stop it. [:D] Good point, V! [:D] Maybe he should just go detail her car when the urge to annoy arises...

subrob1967 -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 10:55:27 AM)
Learn what she likes and have it done before she asks, learn to anticipate her, and provide what she desires without her having to ask.

lurch999 -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 4:47:53 PM)
Ma'am is the one who knows how to cook (really well). If i shopped for Her i'd end up buying a few frozen dinners and ten cans of tuna fish.

LadyAngelika -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 4:57:48 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: PeonForHer quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika Listen to her . . . Jeez. Nothing in life comes easy, does it? Gosh Peon, if only you knew the rewards obedience comes with ;-) - LA

SweetDommes -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 9:01:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lurch999 Ma'am is the one who knows how to cook (really well). If i shopped for Her i'd end up buying a few frozen dinners and ten cans of tuna fish. Then you need to learn what ingredients she uses, what brands she prefers, etc. Shopping for her IS NOT buying her the same things you would buy yourself. That should be perfectly obvious - and goes along with listening to her preferences.

slavekal -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 10:10:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus If you KNOW you are annoying her, STOP IT!! That is a good one. I can be really annoying.

Aylee -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/28/2010 10:19:12 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lurch999 Ma'am is the one who knows how to cook (really well). If i shopped for Her i'd end up buying a few frozen dinners and ten cans of tuna fish. Oh for fuck's sake! What does she like to cook/eat? Use your powers of "Google-Fu" to look up a damn recipe for it. Buy those ingredients. Idiot.

Ladynslave -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/29/2010 3:22:41 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: lurch999 Ma'am is the one who knows how to cook (really well). If i shopped for Her i'd end up buying a few frozen dinners and ten cans of tuna fish. Such eloquent proof of not listening to her preferences here. Now try to pay attention... Make a list of items and exact brands that she buys. Simply look in the pantry and fridge. Add to that list anytime something new appears. Take that list with you whenever you go shopping for her. DO NOT SUBSTITUTE OR DEVIATE FROM THE LIST!

PeonForHer -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/29/2010 4:26:50 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyAngelikaGosh Peon, if only you knew the rewards obedience comes with ;-) - LA I can grasp that obedience=rewards principle, LA, it's just that I'm struggling with your advice to the OP to 'listen to her'. What proportion of what a woman says do you think would be a realistic aim for a man to listen to? Would, say, 20% be OK?

bighappygoth39 -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/29/2010 4:47:57 PM)
If you've listened well enough, like it says above, during your conversations then you will know the sort of thing she'd love to be surprised with. If she has a birthday coming up, or just for the sake of it, buy her something you know she will enjoy. Find something she might have mentioned she hasn't seen in ages, or can't find in the shops, then she'll know you put a lot of thought into it too, and as said above, the rewards will be tremendous.

joether -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/29/2010 11:48:24 PM)
Yes, buying things, and cooking is good, in moderation. Things that are special to her, ocassions or groups she likes, and even paying on things that break. I once paid the plumber, as my Domme was 'at her limit' on things hitting her that day. A nice mystery tour that also involves a relaxing lunch or dinner together. Find out what her favorite flower is. Then, if possible, grow one. If she ever visits, she might see it, and tell how well its cared for. Scrapbook a page, devoted to her. Could even make it 'vanilla'-ish. Pictures of her being happy, with shapes and objects (again, vanillia-ish) that remind you of her. Help on a room she wants to rearrange, change, or simply touch up. If all else fails give her a hug!

CarrieO -> RE: Domme Bonus Points (5/30/2010 7:44:14 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: joether Help on a room she wants to rearrange, change, or simply touch up. Ohhhh.....you are one very smart man!

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