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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 2:48:07 PM   
mnottertail


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three old southern ladies rockin on a porch at a retirement home, sippin on mint juleps enjoyin the sweet smell of dahlias, and fanning themselves.....

First:  Do you know that there are men that put thier lips on other mens PRIVATE parts?

rocking stops, two together?  What do they call THEM?

First:  HoMoSETuals!!!!!!

fanning-------my goodness my goodness.

Second:  Do you know that there are women who put their lips on other womens private parts?

same gig-----------and --- What do you call THEM?
Second: LEZBIANZ!!!!!!

same gig......

Third:  Do you know ladies, there are men who put their lips on womens private parts?

In unison:  Well what do you call THEM?

Third: fanning wildly, breast heaving, makes a dismissive hand motion----
Why chile!!!! When I get ta catchin my breath-----why-----I just calls them precious!!!!!!

So, yeah......know what I mean?  what I am saying here in the larger sense?

< Message edited by mnottertail -- 5/28/2010 3:02:09 PM >

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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 4:13:41 PM   
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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 4:41:50 PM   
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Curiosity compels me to ask if you've encountered things within BDSM porn or more enticing sources that you're having difficulty reconciling? Does your moral leaning suggest it's wrong to enjoy it? If so, why?

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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 5:58:47 PM   
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Lady Pact, thanks for your answers.

When it comes to human ashtrays, the only thing that I meant was actually eating (and swallowing) ashes and even whole cigarette butts.
Knowing that it is highly toxic, I can't think of it as safe.


Having sex without a condom is often considered unsafe; have you ever done that?

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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 6:01:34 PM   
LadyHibiscus


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Oh, this wasn't a survey?

Sorry...


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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 7:12:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

...I am a factual asshole.

In this instance, you appear to be half right 

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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/28/2010 9:26:11 PM   
Aylee


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I understand that such people would never actually do this, but they still fantasize and still get turned on. What is the part of us that makes us aroused by some
really fucked up shit? I think this is not what THEY do. This is what WE do. All of us are sometimes turned on by the things which, if they became reality,
would have really bad consequences.


Well, frankly because to do some of the things that I fantasize about would be unethical in accordance with my own ethics.  They would also be frowned upon by the human rights beliefs of the society we live in.  And furthermore, it would be a heckuva a mess to UNDO and fix if I actually did them. 

Would I do them if I lived in Caligula's time (about one thousand nine hundred and sixty years ago) and had the social standing to get away with it?  Damn straight.  Is doing so NOW a good idea?  Not so much.

I think that you are having a disconnect between being a sadist and enjoying doing this "fucked up shit" and having a brain to know what may get someone incarcerated in prison or a mental institution. 

Being a sadist does not mean that I cannot differentiate between right and wrong or what is likely to bring criminal charges and what is not. 

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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/30/2010 4:26:09 AM   
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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/30/2010 5:08:11 AM   
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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/30/2010 5:13:26 AM   
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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/30/2010 5:26:59 AM   
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RE: Reality of BDSM porn and fantasy - 5/30/2010 5:34:23 AM   
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I watch Twilight and i get hot and bothered every time edward looks sultry and smoldering, I pretty much cum in my pants when he growls at the would be rapists, its not real and to think it is real would be a little mental but it turns me on, it really doesn't stop it being hot, i fantasise about being bitten by a vampire for a million different reasons but it doesn't mean I want someone to attack me and drain all my blood (I would like a safe vamp scene but thats something else)

There has been times that I have sat down and imagined shooting someone in the head, doesn't mean I would ever do it, our mind is pretty wonderful and if we wrote down every slightly distasteful thought we all had then we would have massive volumes sitting on our shelves.

Fantasies are often the safe venue we have to think about things that we would never actually want to do in real life, often extensions of things that we we actually do.

As to what you think is extreme, you have to remember that not everyone has the same ideas, also a lot of our every day lives are unsafe so I always think its about minimizing risk rather than avoiding being unsafe or else I would never leave the house, and that would be sad, there be people out there

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