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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 7:05:49 AM   
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Actually, I am an observant Jew and part of that involves me bowing to the Torah as a symbol of G_d. If a submissive isn't comfortable seeing me bow to my G_d, it ain't going nowhere.
Exactly, and it works both ways. It is not a matter of approval of the others beliefs, but rather respect and acceptance.

Jim has a religion and a belief. I have a belief but do not believe in organized religion. That can be a big difference for some. If either of us were to not accept the choices of the other, it would show a potentially deal breaking lack of respect.


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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 7:41:59 AM   
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A question Andalusite old chap, am I correct in believing that your reference to male humans using the term "Lord", "Earl" or "Duke" and I would imagine you'd add "Count" too, refers only to their use within the  BDSM area? I mean, those titles are both legal and are used in areas of society where they have real meaning pertaining to someone (mostly) hereditary status.

I've never been called "old chap" before! I guess that's what I get for hiding my profile/picture. I don't personally know anyone who has earned any of those titles outside of Ren Fair or SCA, so I was speaking of people who get them that way, or who choose them as terms of endearment in their dynamic/relationship. Of course, anyone who has actually earned them is entitled to them! I just don't run in those circles, so if someone did introduce themselves that way, out of context and without explaining that they were hereditary nobility, my first assumption/inclination would be that they were involved in historical reenactment. I'd probably use the title, depending on the context, but not take it seriously unless I were specifically informed. I personally don't use Mistress for exactly the same reason. It calls to mind the days when someone would say something along the lines of, "Mistress, wilt ye hither with me to yonder privy?" rather than power exchange dynamics at first blush.

Aswad, I would say that the Jews demonize rather than deify Hitler, but even so, from talking with my father, and friends who are Jewish, he wasn't regarded as more than human, rather the focus of hate and fear. He certainly hasn't had his name invoked at any temple or synagogue I've visited, unlike the way Satan is frequently mentioned in Christian services.

I agree that "goddess" isn't used in a religious way by the submissives in question, but I still feel it is very inappropriate and disrespectful, not just to my faith, but to ones which do revere actual goddesses. I would be angry if someone called me that (whereas I might not particularly care for some other titles, but wouldn't be especially offended by them), and it is something that I have refused potential partners over, when I was looking in the past.

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 9:00:47 AM   
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Thank you Andalusite, come to think of it, I can only think of one member of the Peerage who would introduce himself as Lord (name with held), but then he is both very young and as arrogant person as I have ever met. You would come across this mode of address at a state function when such persons were attending where you'd either hear them being formally announced or introduced to you formally. Much the same with me, only at formal State or Military functions does the mouthful of rank and titles get tagged to my name, other wise I'm usually referred to as IB, Bear, That Bloody Bear, reverent and with some Colonel. With the minor Royalty,members of the Peerage and the knights of whom I know reasonable well, we are on either first name basis or nicknames for those I know even better. For all others, I'll address them by their titles unless informed of a preferred alternative, all depending on the circumstances. On the other side of that coin, here Judges are always referred (in court) as "My Lord (M'lord)". 'Tis all a matter of protocols and tradition.

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 10:01:15 AM   
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Aswad, I would say that the Jews demonize rather than deify Hitler, but even so, from talking with my father, and friends who are Jewish, he wasn't regarded as more than human, rather the focus of hate and fear. He certainly hasn't had his name invoked at any temple or synagogue I've visited, unlike the way Satan is frequently mentioned in Christian services.

I agree that "goddess" isn't used in a religious way by the submissives in question, but I still feel it is very inappropriate and disrespectful, not just to my faith, but to ones which do revere actual goddesses. I would be angry if someone called me that (whereas I might not particularly care for some other titles, but wouldn't be especially offended by them), and it is something that I have refused potential partners over, when I was looking in the past.


Demonization and deification are one and the same, just with a difference in how one relates to the deified figure: the demonic is that of which we do not approve, while the divine is that of which we do approve, with the caveat that the approval usually has to be ratified by a large body of people. In any case, the fact that they vilify, rather than venerate, does not change the fact that a man has become a legend that is invoked in a wide range of contexts for effect, frequently in a rather ritualistic manner, and that his legend is part of the mythology by now. His name and deeds are invoked as justification for the 'chosen people' to be entitled to special considerations that are not afforded others (including the Romani, who tend to be forgotten in the context of the Holocaust). The same is done these days with regard to Palestinians, except the Bible is what is invoked there.

Don't get me wrong, I am quite aware that the Jewish people (going with the self-designation as a people) are as diverse as any other group of similar size, if not more so. A specific subset are recognizably described by what I say, though, so please just pretend I've added the appropriate qualifiers to the generic name, and I shall in turn pretend that you have qualified the term 'Christian' appropriately before ascribing the frequent invocation of Satan during services. There is indeed such a set of Christians, among the various people under that denomination (which also describes a larger and more diverse group where Satan plays a very variable part).

As for taking offense at being treated as a god/dess, my take on it is simple:

A god/dess is that which is worshiped by one or more people.


If someone worships me, that makes me a god, albeit a small, insignificant and fallible one. This is no different from how the god-kings of old were worshiped by their people, or how the idolu of Hollywood are worshiped by teenagers around the world, or how the genius loci of various cities or people have been the object of worship by populations over the ages (nowadays, for instance, the idea of the United States of America is worshiped by many, with the flag serving the same purpose as the cross does for Christians- one of the reasons the Jesuits objected to its use).

Godhood does not imply infallibility, and indeed the lowest common denominator is worship.

For that matter, I haven't seen anything to indicate that god/desses are unable to worship greater ones. In the time of the Babylonian king Hammurabi, it was still common practice to regard the king as a god, much like with the pharaos of Egypt. Nonetheless, Hammurabi himself worshipped greater gods than himself, including Marduk, who can be seen as the prelude to Jesus, occupying that place in that pantheon, just as Enki (who became EAL, and later the אל of Judaism- cf. אלוהאימ and יהבה, the Hebrew name for Enki, though they may have mixed in Enlil) and Ninlil (who became Aššera, then was banned by- I think- Jeremiah) and Enlil. The coincidence of the Babylonian exile of the Jews at this time is interesting, of course, given the contemporary and later parallells.

So, while desiring elevation to godhood by way of worship may be vain and narcissistic, accepting the status if worship occurs is little more than acknowledging a reality which is of little to no consequence. As far as I know, being worshipped is not known to confer or bestow anything on a mortal that was not already there, nor to prevent said mortal from any sort of worship. Indeed, Saul suggests that slaves should accept their masters as proxies for their god, which you can look up in any ordinary copy of the 'New Testament'.

As such, ridiculing anyone who is worshipped might be seen as blasphemy or sacrilege.

Whether one extends such considerations to all belief, is a personal choice.

Just a thought.

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P.S.: I am not, as far as I am aware, being worshipped by anyone. Just to clarify that.

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 12:19:37 PM   
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Yes, it's going to be a long summer and yes, it seems to have started early.

I look at this from a very simple and realistic perspective.   I know for a fact that I am not God.  (People can debate the existence of God, or whatever Higher Power pleases them to death without Me.  I seriously have no interest in challenging anyone's faith.)  There are references in several religions to what constitutes attributing how to obey more than one ruler of a person's life.  (I said "ruler" not multiple "Gods" so let's not go there either.)  The very distinction is that each has a specific position in regard to whom is being ruled.

If someone wants to attempt to be a person's God, if it's working for you, more power to you.  It just isn't a policy that I could undertake until such time as I actual become an omnipotent being.



I have been known to scream... OH GOD!!!.. at certain moments. Does that count?

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 12:50:01 PM   
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I have been known to scream... OH GOD!!!.. at certain moments. Does that count?
If that makes your hubby a God, i better stop bellowing "Oh shit!!"

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 12:50:01 PM   
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I'd be curious to hear how the OP feels about panantheism which is my personal belief system.
Seeing that to me, "God" and the Universe are nearly the same thing, and all matter and energy is just an extension of "God" I'd have no problem worshipping my Dom if it wasn't for the fact that I consider myself to be "God" as much as I would consider him to be "God".




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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 2:05:49 PM   
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"O secret of secrets that art hidden in the being of all that lives, not Thee do we adore, for that which adoreth is also Thou. Thou art That, and That am I.

I am the flame that burns in every heart of man, and in the core of every star. I am Life, and the giver of Life; yet therefore is the knowledge of me the knowledge of death. I am alone; there is no God where I am!"

An Excerpt from:

Gnostic Mass which I have often performed and used as a basis to write various masses although much of the rites are in Latin as my choice of language due to the beauty of the cadences.

Liber XV
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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 5:35:31 PM   
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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 7:17:48 PM   
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Aswad, perhaps "vilify" rather than "demonize" would be a more accurate term for what I meant. Stalin is viewed similarly, and neither of them are attributed to have supernatural powers. If someone chooses to call a human being "god" or "goddess" I can't control that. I just personally won't date people who do it, and it makes me uncomfortable for religious reasons. I still think it is disrespectful to actual religions, usually. If they were using it in a pantheistic sense such as "Stranger In A Strange Land" or as Ishtarr describes, it wouldn't come across as actively disrespectful to believers (not just in Christianity, but other faiths as well). Choosing to use it as a relationship designation is something that I personally find offensive, but I don't expect everyone to agree with me.

I assume the reference to Paul is from Ephesians 6:5 or Hebrews 13:17, since those were the only reference that seemed remotely similar. Both are talking about striving to do your best, for the glory of God, not saying that we should worship individual people.


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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/4/2010 10:07:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Andalusite

Aswad, perhaps "vilify" rather than "demonize" would be a more accurate term for what I meant.


Perhaps for what you meant. Not so for what I meant.

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Stalin is viewed similarly, and neither of them are attributed to have supernatural powers.


I have yet to see Stalin remembered with anywhere near as well, nor as much for his deeds, as Hitler, by any substantial fraction of any majority group I have encountered. I will assume that Finland, Estonia and the East Bloc are exceptions to this, seeing as they felt his hand more directly. Finland had to cede about 10% of their territory in the winter war, after all.

Incidentally, that war saw a 3:1 casualty rating in favor of Finland, despite being grossly outmanned and outgunned. With crowbars and molotov cocktails, they took out 3500 tanks, and the highest individual number of confirmed kills was in the 500s, with about 300 more unconfirmed. Somehow, this valiant effort never made it to the school books here in Norway, despite our sharing a border with them. But I digress.

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I still think it is disrespectful to actual religions, usually.


I think you were just disrespectful to a series of real world religions, modern and ancient, that do not call for a non-corporeal being with supernatural powers in order to qualify for godhood. While mine calls for a non-corporeal entity, per se, I am not about to dismiss the faiths of diverse people around the world as not being 'actual' religions on account of theirs not being the same as mine. That's almost like when an American tourist asked, regarding the price of a souvenir, "how much is that in real money?"

How many animistic religions call for a man and a woman to be proxies or vessels for the gods in a ritual intercourse as part of fertility rites or rites pertaining to the turning of the seasons in the hopes of a bountiful harvest? While that obviously does not have the same connotations as personal godhood, it does involve other people relating to a mortal in the capacity of a god/dess, which makes it more than comparable, and establishes the validity of the practice.

And that's 'actual' religion.

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Choosing to use it as a relationship designation is something that I personally find offensive, but I don't expect everyone to agree with me.


I would submit that any worship is per definition a relationship. The ability to have a physical relationship with the object of one's worship does not seem invalidating to me. You might want to read Raven Kaldera's book on spiritual BDSM, where sie covers hir own relationships, with hir submissive and Kali, respectively, and how sie takes on the role of proxy in rituals of worship, etc.

quote:

I assume the reference to Paul is from Ephesians 6:5 or Hebrews 13:17, since those were the only reference that seemed remotely similar. Both are talking about striving to do your best, for the glory of God, not saying that we should worship individual people.


Actually, one is talking about resignation to slavehood and being obedient to god by way of obedience to the master. I agree that this is not the same as personal godhood, but it does entail an element of acting as a proxy for God. Which is certainly a comparable thing, though arguably not the same. If one subscribes to the notion that the minimum requirement of godhood is worship, however, then it is more than just comparable: it's the same way of relating, and the difference is the absence of a proxy and the reverence of another godhead.

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 3:54:44 AM   
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First I have never thought that I am a god. Of course…!

Secondly I think that it would be boring for me if my slave was showing me a reverent attitude permanently.

Thirdly my little text was for me only an invitation to know the way of thinking of most slaves here…

Fourthly my slave adopted to place my image in her mind as her god. She doesn’t need to go beyond my image. She thinks that it is hierarchically satisfactory. I never interfere in her practices. I am scarcely at the base of her way of thinking on this point.
So I can read your replies with a smile in the corner of my eyes because …

I am innocent Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury!

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 4:45:22 AM   
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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 6:11:58 AM   
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I am innocent Ladies and Gentlemen of the jury!

its more fun to have a lil guilt under your belt!

I mean..that's what I've heard....no first hand knowledge. Nope.



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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 12:08:10 PM   
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Aswad, if you could clarify that we are speaking of the same passage (I'm assuming the one in Ephesians), that would be helpful. While I personally do have some issues with someone setting themselves up as a personification of the Divine, that isn't really what I'm objecting to here. I'm speaking more of the male submissives who use "Seeking goddess to worship" as synonymous with "I want to lick a woman's pussy/feet/etc. a lot." It comes across as wankerish, not reverent in the slightest. I generally don't seek to control other people's behaviour or spiritual lives, just explaining that this is the way I personally feel about it. Of course, I don't get any say in other people's spiritual, power exchange, or sex lives, and if it works for them, it just does. I just don't want to be involved. By contacting me with an e-mail or profile that says such things, they are seeking me out, not the other way around. I felt it made it immediately obvious that they hadn't read my profile, as I had specifically listed it as something not to address me by, and why, when I was looking at the time.

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 4:17:14 PM   
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My test of someone's position as deity or ultimate power is the IRS.  If your Dom/me fills out a 1040.......he/she AIN'T a god!

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 4:27:55 PM   
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Of course the assuming of the personification of a Deity is well established in for one example Wicca with the "Drawing Down the Moon" for the Full Moon where the Great Mother is INVOKED into the living priestess as part of the worship. Similarly in Initiation Rites either the Horned God or the Goddess is invoked into either the Priest or Priestess for the transference of power. On the other hand, Similar rites are used in the various Voudun Rites in which the God "rides" the Priest or Priestess in which the deity for a period is indwelling at this time. This as I see it, is completely different to a person assuming the position of a deity for personal worship (being worshipped as a deity).

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 4:38:25 PM   
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All of you submissives will be gratified to know that I am founding a religion (the Order of the Kinky Jew) which you are required to join or else be thought of as fake.


More for my mother to make me feel guilty about?

I feel shamed.

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RE: SLAVE AND RELIGION - 6/5/2010 4:43:31 PM   
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