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LadyAngelika -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/5/2010 1:40:43 PM)


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ORIGINAL: ElanSubdued

LA,

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LadyAngelika:
I'm wondering actually, based on our OP's recent posting pattern, why he feels the need to validate everything his Domme says to him with the CM community.  Isn't her authority enough?


Silly girlie.  The DBH (Definitive BDSM Handbook) says every action of a dominant must be validated with at least ten people who are external to the situation and who have no idea what is actually going on.  Geesh.  I'm gonna' revoke your Domme card if you keep posting like this.

E.


Meh, I was never really a real twue card carrying Domme anyways.

- LA




ElanSubdued -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/5/2010 2:07:56 PM)

Peon,

--- I think you need a *cackle* rather than a *chortle* for that.

When you're swinging a big-ass sword, does it really matter?

--- PS: You have cmail, matey!

Ah, noted.  I'll go grab and read.

E.




MistressOfGa -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 1:17:31 AM)


*Fast Reply*


This is one of those MKINYK, because I happen to like baby talk. It's amazing how many put this kink down without a thought that there may be some of us who enjoy it. But like I said, My kink, not yours *Shrugs*

As far as the OP is concerned, I will just come out and give you my own personal opinion of you, since you seem to think so highly as to other's opinions of your every move, action and thought.

You are not a slave or sub. You are a manipulating brat that has hissy fits when he doesn't get his way. Heaven knows I have had some just like you in my past and I don't think MistressXbox has the patience of a saint, I think that she enables you and ends up allowing you to be the Top in the relationship.

You want to know if talking baby talk to her toes would be annoying to us? I think that YOU would be annoying to most of us on here, simply because you are such a narcistic idiot who believes that you are owed something, that the world evolves around you and you do not have to show responsiblity or accountablity for any of your actions or non actions as the case may be. You have no faith in your Mistress (As she has said that she is your Domina) and even less trust in the woman who calls you her friend.


It is a good thing that there are some really impressive submissives and slaves on this message forum to give excellent examples to new subs as to how to treat their Dominants, because if you were the only example of what the s is supposed to be like in a D/s dynamic, then there would be no submissives/slaves on here, as they would all be like you [:'(]

You could learn A LOT by checking your petty ego at the door and actually reading what some of the articulate, intelligent men and women have written when they speak so highly about the Dominants in their lives. They would never even think about shaming, embarrassing or humiliating them on a public forum, the way that you have done MistressXbox.

Shame on you. Put some big boy panties on and grow the fuck up.


MoGa




Toppingfrmbottom -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 2:11:03 AM)

I love it when Daddy talks baby talk to me, I find it funny and amusing, an sometimes if I am really crabby a well placed mockery of being crabby, by saying who's a fussy baby, You are, yes you are, can actually make me laugh. Sometimes it back fires, but mostly makes me laugh.

I also think it's funny and cute, when he talks to me in that silly sing song sweet way some would  talk to a pet.

And not just because we're age play, but because I honestly find it funny and amusing, in doses.

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ORIGINAL: LadyCimarron
I don't know any woman that likes a man to talk to her like that.




lurch999 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 5:54:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa


*Fast Reply*


This is one of those MKINYK, because I happen to like baby talk. It's amazing how many put this kink down without a thought that there may be some of us who enjoy it. But like I said, My kink, not yours *Shrugs*

As far as the OP is concerned, I will just come out and give you my own personal opinion of you, since you seem to think so highly as to other's opinions of your every move, action and thought.

You are not a slave or sub. You are a manipulating brat that has hissy fits when he doesn't get his way. Heaven knows I have had some just like you in my past and I don't think MistressXbox has the patience of a saint, I think that she enables you and ends up allowing you to be the Top in the relationship.

You want to know if talking baby talk to her toes would be annoying to us? I think that YOU would be annoying to most of us on here, simply because you are such a narcistic idiot who believes that you are owed something, that the world evolves around you and you do not have to show responsiblity or accountablity for any of your actions or non actions as the case may be. You have no faith in your Mistress (As she has said that she is your Domina) and even less trust in the woman who calls you her friend.


It is a good thing that there are some really impressive submissives and slaves on this message forum to give excellent examples to new subs as to how to treat their Dominants, because if you were the only example of what the s is supposed to be like in a D/s dynamic, then there would be no submissives/slaves on here, as they would all be like you [:'(]

You could learn A LOT by checking your petty ego at the door and actually reading what some of the articulate, intelligent men and women have written when they speak so highly about the Dominants in their lives. They would never even think about shaming, embarrassing or humiliating them on a public forum, the way that you have done MistressXbox.

Shame on you. Put some big boy panties on and grow the fuck up.


MoGa



i don't think i'm narcistic(sic) though.




lurch999 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 6:08:13 AM)

Also the world does not "evolve" around me, or maybe it does i guess but thanks for the laugh.




sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 6:26:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: lurch999

i don't think i'm narcistic(sic) though.


A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.

Now...read what you wrote in another thread...
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ORIGINAL: lurch999

i tend to lose the thread and direct attention back toward myself after 2 minutes and i have asked Ma'am one personal question about Herself in 7 months.

Also, you feel that if your Mistress released you it would not be long before she came running back to you, having realized you are the best one out there. In all fairness, the following quote was written by your Mistress, but she is extremely believable.
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I have since released lurch -- this is not because I don't care about him, but because I do care. His response to this was that I can't possibly find a better submissive, and that I will regret my decision to release someone of his caliber. He's confident that if by some miracle anyone else will ever deign to serve me, they will be of such inferior quality and treat me so poorly that I will miss lurch and appreciate him more in his absence.


A diagnosis either for or against narcissism will only be of benefit to you in future relationships.




PeonForHer -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 7:11:04 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.




sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 7:29:20 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.
i can see your point, Peon, but in my opinion it would make for a very obnoxious dominant.[:)]




blackpearl81 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 7:41:36 AM)


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ORIGINAL: RedMagic1

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ORIGINAL: blackpearl81
Obvious troll is obvious.

I lost my trollbait virginity, but I still have the xBox it came in.




I c whut u did thur.




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 8:27:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

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ORIGINAL: lurch999

i don't think i'm narcistic(sic) though.


A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.

Now...read what you wrote in another thread...
quote:

ORIGINAL: lurch999

i tend to lose the thread and direct attention back toward myself after 2 minutes and i have asked Ma'am one personal question about Herself in 7 months.

Also, you feel that if your Mistress released you it would not be long before she came running back to you, having realized you are the best one out there. In all fairness, the following quote was written by your Mistress, but she is extremely believable.
quote:


I have since released lurch -- this is not because I don't care about him, but because I do care. His response to this was that I can't possibly find a better submissive, and that I will regret my decision to release someone of his caliber. He's confident that if by some miracle anyone else will ever deign to serve me, they will be of such inferior quality and treat me so poorly that I will miss lurch and appreciate him more in his absence.


A diagnosis either for or against narcissism will only be of benefit to you in future relationships.


my vote is for narcissism.

~sweetsub~




SweetDommes -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 8:35:57 AM)

Why are we still giving him the attention that he so obviously craves? Seriously ... I'm way past done with him. I decided that he was a manipulative terror ages ago and moved on. He's certainly manipulating people on the boards well enough ...




sweetsub1957 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 8:42:10 AM)


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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

Why are we still giving him the attention that he so obviously craves? Seriously ... I'm way past done with him. I decided that he was a manipulative terror ages ago and moved on. He's certainly manipulating people on the boards well enough ...

Thank You for bringing that to my attention. You are so right. Now i feel like a fool that's been had & i am through with lurch. lol How could i have not seen it coming........

~sweetsub~




LadyNTrainer -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 9:13:27 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.


Honestly, no.  There's a lot of people who identify as "submissive" (but whom most dominants would probably not agree are actually all that submissive) who would definitely qualify for at least a pre-diagnosis in this ballpark.




blackpearl81 -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 9:20:46 AM)


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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.


Honestly, no.  There's a lot of people who identify as "submissive" (but whom most dominants would probably not agree are actually all that submissive) who would definitely qualify for at least a pre-diagnosis in this ballpark.




Do you charge for those? [:)]




sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 9:27:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

quote:

ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.


Honestly, no.  There's a lot of people who identify as "submissive" (but whom most dominants would probably not agree are actually all that submissive) who would definitely qualify for at least a pre-diagnosis in this ballpark.

Sure..but it is very easy for me to think that a manipulative, self-centered narcissist may switch to the other side of the kneel when he realizes he will have little or no success as a submissive (And you just KNOW it is the fault of the Dommes..damnit!!)[:)]




PeonForHer -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 9:44:46 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.


Honestly, no.  There's a lot of people who identify as "submissive" (but whom most dominants would probably not agree are actually all that submissive) who would definitely qualify for at least a pre-diagnosis in this ballpark.



No.  I'm sorry, but this is a description of a common fault of dominants.  I've seen it all too frequently on CM.  Both femsubs and femdommes have commented on it with regard to doms rather than femdommes, but it's there, nonetheless.  If dominants can't see that, then I'd say that this might well be because it's yet another symptom of a narcissistic 'denial of personal faults'. 

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

(And you just KNOW it is the fault of the Dommes..damnit!!)[:)]



Ummm, no, not on this board, it isn't . . . .

My root feeling is that it isn't the malesub who's childish.  It's the relationship that's childish.  What's more, I have a growing sense that they both like it childish, too.




sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 9:53:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly

(And you just KNOW it is the fault of the Dommes..damnit!!)


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Ummm, no, not on this board, it isn't . . . .
i meant in the eyes of the narcissist




sirsholly -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 9:57:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

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ORIGINAL: LadyNTrainer

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

quote:

ORIGINAL: sirsholly

A narcissist is excessively preoccupied with thoughts of power, prestige, personal adequacy, denial of personal faults. The narcissistic personality disorder is associated with gross self-centeredness.


I have to say that is much more likely to be a description applied to dominants than submissives, Holly.


Honestly, no.  There's a lot of people who identify as "submissive" (but whom most dominants would probably not agree are actually all that submissive) who would definitely qualify for at least a pre-diagnosis in this ballpark.



No.  I'm sorry, but this is a description of a common fault of dominants.  I've seen it all too frequently on CM.  Both femsubs and femdommes have commented on it with regard to doms rather than femdommes, but it's there, nonetheless.  If dominants can't see that, then I'd say that this might well be because it's yet another symptom of a narcissistic 'denial of personal faults'. 


i would argue that a personality disorder such as narcissism is more prevalent to one orientation, Peon.




PeonForHer -> RE: Would this be annoying to you? (6/6/2010 10:05:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sirsholly
i would argue that a personality disorder such as narcissism is more prevalent to one orientation, Peon.


Intuitively, I might agree - but, narcissism is more likely to be accepted and even admired amongst dominants. 




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