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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 2:51:16 PM   
Icarys


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As odd as this concept may seem to you Icarys, it ain't about you.


I Missed the memo....



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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 2:52:27 PM   
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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 2:55:48 PM   
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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 2:56:24 PM   
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want me to stamp it on your forehead?

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 2:57:24 PM   
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grins

want me to stamp it on your forehead?

If you think you can..Although it might wind up the other way around


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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 2:58:42 PM   
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Now that I could totally understand... I'm direct and honest with people, I appreciate the same in return.

I said something good..I win cake!

(Red Velvet with sweet icing on it like grandma use to make)


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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:01:04 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

grins

want me to stamp it on your forehead?

If you think you can..Although it might wind up the other way around



Wanna bet? I'll give ya even odds due to gender only! I'm sneaky though, be forewarned.

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:01:50 PM   
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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:03:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		That makes a lot of sense to me... I had a similar thought but more like it started as a bit of fun and fantasy for them as all of the dynamics in these "potential relationships" has been fairly extreme on the control aspects and when they realize I'm actually willing to follow through and make fantasy a reality...they realize they may have bitten off more then they can chew...

< Message edited by jbcurious -- 6/4/2010 3:06:57 PM >

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:03:46 PM   
Icarys


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ORIGINAL: laurell3


quote:

ORIGINAL: Icarys

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

grins

want me to stamp it on your forehead?

If you think you can..Although it might wind up the other way around



Wanna bet? I'll give ya even odds due to gender only! I'm sneaky though, be forewarned.

Sneaky is good..Viciousness tops that..You wouldn't last 1 minute..One pop and your ego would deflate faster than a tire driven in nail factory.


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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:07:21 PM   
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Status: offline 		*coughs* my ego ain't that big and I can be plenty viscious...but....

back to the topic. I'll kick Icarys' ass another time.

Jb,

The distance thing could be a valid point, but I'm not sure there's much you can do about it. However, I think that most guys that are genuine would just say that, not string you along and vanish. There's a disconnect going on here, and it isn't you.

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:08:15 PM   
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*coughs* my ego ain't that big and I can be plenty viscious...but....

back to the topic. I'll kick Icarys' ass another time.

You better run

< Message edited by Icarys -- 6/4/2010 3:09:03 PM >

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:11:12 PM   
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Status: offline 		I hold no animosity...I will agree with laurel on the disconnect even if I want to bop her eye and make her tear up for fun..

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:14:03 PM   
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Status: offline 		I've been busy making you beef jerky and granola for your in the woods experience... I thought it would be more appropriate then cake... I can't have my other half starving in the woods...

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:15:07 PM   
Icarys


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I've been busy making you beef jerky and granola for your in the woods experience... I thought it would be more appropriate then cake... I can't have my other half starving in the woods...

Your so thoughtful..those guys were idiots!


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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:17:40 PM   
January


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One was in Spain, 2 in England...that's about as localish as it gets for me.


Okay. So you've had three potentials in less than three months. Two out of the country. One in your country (Spain is big, no?).

And yet you assume it's something in your profile that's chasing them off?

Your profile may be lovely. Perhaps you are a marvelous, intelligent person. But you are impatient. And strangely unsympathetic toward your potentials' travel difficulty.

The only way you're going to figure out if these Doms fear committing to reality over fantasy, or have real travel difficulties is this:

You offer to visit them.

January


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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:31:47 PM   
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Status: offline 		I do understand what you're saying and if the subject came up as a problem then it would be addressed... but all of these men have had no issue with calling me 2 or 3 times a day...I'm sure any of their phone bills cost more then the price of a flight.

We discuss everything else, I would think this would be open for discussion as well.

As regards to my profile... It's not about chasing them off... it's about attracting the wrong type...is there some underlying message that says "come fantasize with me"?

< Message edited by jbcurious -- 6/4/2010 3:35:44 PM >

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:33:21 PM   
Icarys


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You offer to visit them.


This part always works for me whether or not you go there or they come to you..

I don't do LDR's and prefer to stay local when I am searching but the meet is a sure way of knowing if they are somewhat serious...of course you may find some who'll drive half way around the world for a gash shot so you can't weed them all out..It does help though.


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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:43:11 PM   
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Status: offline 		That's possible Nov through April... I only work 6 months a year...but May through Oct I'm 7 days a week, not a possibility.

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RE: I'm so confused... - 6/4/2010 3:47:50 PM   
Icarys


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That's possible Nov through April... I only work 6 months a year...but May through Oct I'm 7 days a week, not a possibility.

You work with what you can.


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