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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

You might wnat to check the exposure. I am not sure pussy should be that color?

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

You might wnat to check the exposure. I am not sure pussy should be that color?

I don't know about that...Grey is to submission like Mandals are to domination.

I have had a grey cunt before....The rarest and most sought after of the cunts.

To this day whenever I see a cadaver I often find myself wondering where ol' grey cunt might be today?

Come back to me grey cunt...Please, come back.

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ORIGINAL: commercialbody

well thank you for the welcome.

its nice to meet you all.

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ORIGINAL: ranja

ORIGINAL: laurell3

Your relationship advice is to manipulate him? And if that doesn't work she should go the honest route? haha, how about skipping the bullshit and actually talking to the guy she's fucking?

You misunderstood laurell... If she has an open and honest conversation with the guy to try and get him to fuck her with more umpf, so she gets off nicer... well...she is still manipulating him... and if that works for her, great!
Some people get their partners attention by actions rather than words however... which is handy if you feel shy or embarrassed to talk about stuff... also as mentioned by others any talk about sex in order to try and make things more exiting can be taken as severe criticism and have the total opposite effect of what you might be trying to achieve... many men are very very sensitive about their love making skills... in my opinion more so than females, but i might be wrong.

Then again, I guess I can't understand the OP at all, because in my mind, coming on a public forum and denouncing the guy as being boring in bed without talking to him in person first would never cross my mind as acceptable adult behaviour. Clearly, you disagree and find the approach honorable.

i never said the OP was 'honourable' but i see nothing wrong with coming to a public forum to try and get some advice on how to make things better for her... it is a pity though that some of these people looking for advice might get across a bit rude about their malfunctioning partner and get slated for being disrespectful selfish bitches by 'model' subs roaming these boards...
 
she has been with the guy 3 years, she/they have hit a blip in the excitement department, she is fed up with him being boring... i hope she finds some means to get her selfish way and spice things up a bit... seems to me nicer for him too.

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ORIGINAL: laurell3
However, I'm not suggesting she say "hey you suck ass in bed buddy" of course. But saying I would like to try these things or have you ever thought about this, instead of just biting the dude and hoping he's a mind reader, which ain't likely, isn't manipulation.

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

I misunderstood? You said "manipulate him". It's hard to misunderstand that. Not only that, you teed off on another poster for having a different opinion. There is no misunderstanding.

How is having an honest conversation with him manipulation? I agree, men CAN be sensitive, so can women. However, I'm not suggesting she say "hey you suck ass in bed buddy" of course. But saying I would like to try these things or have you ever thought about this, instead of just biting the dude and hoping he's a mind reader, which ain't likely, isn't manipulation.

No one here is claiming to be the "model" sub, unknot your panties. Do I find it classless to come here first before she honestly talks to him? Yes, but I'm not her and I personally wouldn't be griping about my partner on a public forum to begin with. To me the risk of it coming to light she made this post and hurting him by her public display is SO much greater than any risk of him having hurt feelings by an honest conversation.

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ORIGINAL: spankthesub25
First of all, I HAVE tried talking to him! I have asked him to reveal fantasies, dreams, hot spots, etc and his response is always, "I don't really have any."

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ORIGINAL: spankthesub25

Thank you for understanding ranja! Everyone else on here just desides to jump to conclusions!

First of all, I HAVE tried talking to him! I have asked him to reveal fantasies, dreams, hot spots, etc and his response is always, "I don't really have any." I have even suggested him to be a little more agressive in bed and my suggestions last for the current sex session and then HE FORGETS!

Second!!! The blow job while watch television was actually really hot! I enjoyed completely pleasuring him while he was doing something he loved to do, which in this case was watching TV. I have also give him a blow job while he drives as well! ;)

Maybe dominant was the wrong word...... which I AM SORRY GEEZ! You really didnt have to jump down my throat! ranja was on the right track, I am at my wits end on how to spice up our life! I enjoy serving him, and would love for him to be more aggressive! Our relationship is perfect besides the missing aggression! If it wasnt I wouldn't have stayed with him for three years!

Does this clarification help?

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How is pulling his hair, and biting his neck, going to make him more Dominant? How are your actions in any way submissive?

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yes i promote manipulation... and not mean underhand manipulative bitch type of manipulation, but skillful flirting and pleasantly asking for what you need (it might get you much further)  is manipulating nevertheless

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ORIGINAL: sexyred1

I know nothing about the OP since her profile is hidden. However, I think someone hit it on the head earlier when they said she seemed to be wanting rough or wilder sex rather than have the boyfriend become dominant.

I advocate being open and honest about sharing fantasies; that has always worked for me. But then again, I would not wait till 3 years into a relationship to state what my desires in sex were about.

This is not a Dom/sub thing either; anyone in any relationship can figure out a way to discuss sexual desires and fantasies. I understand what the OP was doing when she bit him, etc. I think she was probably just trying to show him what she liked non verbally and hoped he would just do it without having to broach the subject.

P.S. if you are giving someone a blow job while they are watching TV and they keep watching TV, something is very wrong. :)