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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Hmm.  I've just been contemplating one of your earlier points, Lady Hib, and have concluded that you may have been talking bollocks.  I do think it's possible for a sub to enjoy dominating - because, thinking back on it, I did, with those ex GFs who pressured me into topping.  Simple, really - you get vicarious fun.  I'd get 'her' to do whatever it was that *I'd* enjoy if I were in her position.  The only trouble was that I'd become resentful, natch.  However, I'd probably have been a tad less resentful if said ex GFs coughed up some money for my efforts. 

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ORIGINAL: sweetsub1957

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ORIGINAL: submale4u2spank

From what I've seen, women that work as professional dominatrices often aren't dominant in their personal relationship.  Is this accurate and if so why?

i'm sure Some are and Some aren't. But does that make a difference if They're good at what They do? It's a job, and one is very lucky if they have a job they also love and it pays good (if it does). Are ditch diggers ditch diggers in their personal lives? i'm sure not, but they can still be good ditch diggers and they and ProDommes both work very hard at what they do.

~sweetsub~