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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 8:21:07 PM

PeonForHer

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No, no - hang on - you could be right. She could have been calling me 'Fudgemuffins'. That doesn't somehow seem like her, though. Well, whichever way she meant it, it was definitely a girlsblousy word to use.

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 8:22:47 PM

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Peon,

Fer fuck's sake! Talk about needin' to hit a boy with a sledgehammer.

Do you wanna' suck my cock while watching the LP/LaT match or not?

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 8:28:41 PM

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Jeez, Elan, sounds a bit like multi-tasking to me. But let me contemplate that.

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 8:33:40 PM

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PeonForHer,

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Jeez, Elan, sounds a bit like multi-tasking to me.

Not really. It's simply providing fan energy and appreciation. I've no desire to usurp the main event. :-)

E.

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 8:35:13 PM

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I usually address my correspondence with,

Dear Heavenly Goddess of Earth, Moon, Stars, and Sea

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 8:58:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: VaguelyCurious

My first name. I hate most other things with a fiery fiery passion.

I'm with the cute, vague girl on this one ;-)

However, until I tell them my first name here, they can call me LadyAngelika, Angelika, LadyA or LA really...

*edited to add that when involved with someone, they have special privileges to use sweet names, I do retain veto power though*

- LA

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 9:29:11 PM

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quote:

*edited to add that when involved with someone, they have special privileges to use sweet names, I do retain veto power though*

But do they get to say them to your feetsies?

*ducks and runs from the lady with the cane*

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 10:33:59 PM

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

I don't think that LNT was calling me 'Fudgemuffins' Elan. I think that was her way of turning a naughty word into something acceptable. She's a bit of a girl's blouse under those toned muscles, I think.

Watch your fucking language, dammit!

And alas, it looks like you have a new nickname on these forums.

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/7/2010 11:21:50 PM

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As long as You dont call me too early in the morning i dont mind
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RE: What should they call you? - 6/8/2010 3:35:47 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

You know it's funny... I've been actually thinking about this a bit. I rarely call people "Lady" or "Miss" or whatever on here even though they may have that in their name. (Same with the men - NOBODY gets a"Master" or "Sir" out of me). The only exception I've noticed is Lady Pact. (I think I must lurve her). I just can't bring myself to call her "Pact" Maybe "ImPaction"? Hmmm... must think on this.

Meanwhile.... Queen Uber Goddess of the Known World Sexy Thang would be my personal favorite for the winner of the LaT / LP fantasy round.

I am prepared! Come on divi, we can at least sit and fantasize together!

Which is ok, because I lurve you, too.

I actually feel honored when folks tell Me these things. When I come across as the exception to the rule. It really does make Me smile.

LadyPact lurves me!!!!!!!!!!!!

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/8/2010 5:05:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

quote:

*edited to add that when involved with someone, they have special privileges to use sweet names, I do retain veto power though*

But do they get to say them to your feetsies?
*ducks and runs from the lady with the cane*

WyldHrt, you know, one of these days I'm going to be in San Diego, and I will have a cane ;-)

- LA

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 1:21:43 AM

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Promise?

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 1:42:20 AM

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Promise?

And you told me ... you ran fast, too! ROFL

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 1:45:54 AM

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I do. I just occasionally change direction.

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 4:36:21 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus

My name is Francine. That works fine. Ma'am is okay, because it's a courtesy. Otherwise, I am not one for titles, mainly because they indicate a relationship that IS NOT THERE. If I say, Please don't call me Mistress, and get an argument? It's a good sign of a fantasy wank.

I like using names, I don't really do pet names much, aside from the usual baby honey kind of thing. (I call all my male pals "baby"! horrible habit!)

Couldn't agree more. Mistress is a title that one woman gets from me. So I just call any Domme I would write on here just by their user name, and that's how they also usually sign their mails (if they sign diferently, I call them by the name they signed themselves). Dommes that are not your mistress are just normal people in my view. I treat them with respect, but I treat anyone I address (dom, sub or random person in the street) with the same respect though.

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 4:49:32 AM

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ORIGINAL: MistressWriter

If you're chatting with someone online, that you just met, what would you prefer they call you?

<------------*points to Her screen name* Call me that until I tell you my given name.

Also, do you like certain titles, such as Mistress, used ONLY by those you've either met in person or have actually collared?

Funny, I had a conversation about this last night. Honorifics or pet names can/will happen once there's some kind of dynamic in place.

Edited to add.....When I first read the title of this thread, I thought of the poem by Thich Nhat Hanh "Call Me by My True Names http://www.poetry-chaikhana.com/H/HanhThichNha/PleaseCallMe.htm

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 8:30:18 AM

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They should ask before assigning a title or name, how I (or other women, for that matter) wish to be addressed. My femsub playpartner calls me "Milady," but I wouldn't welcome that from someone I wasn't involved with and hadn't even met yet. I'm ok with Ma'am or Miss in that context, but I prefer "Anda." I also use that nickname at playparties, when I attend, since my first name is unusual. When I dated my former male submissive for 5 years, he usually used my first name or Milady. He occasionally used "Ma'am" or "Mistress," if it suited the scene, or we were joking around with "Thank you, Mistress, may I have another."

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 3:24:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo

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ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Promise?

And you told me ... you ran fast, too! ROFL

s02, she knows when to run away from, and when it's good to run too ;-)

- LA

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 8:41:48 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyAngelika

quote:

ORIGINAL: seekingOwnertoo

quote:

ORIGINAL: WyldHrt

Promise?

And you told me ... you ran fast, too! ROFL

s02, she knows when to run away from, and when it's good to run too ;-)

- LA

Smart Lady ... :) ...

Yet ... she runs the change of direction play ... really well! ;-)

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RE: What should they call you? - 6/9/2010 8:51:52 PM

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I would like to propose a new question:

As Ds, what do you usually end up calling subs or slaves? I assume that in many cases, there is a difference between public, private, and play situations.

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