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SocratesNot -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/13/2010 2:40:52 PM)
quote: If a woman can give me a boner for at least some of the time, I'll be happy for her to lead me for at least some of the time. LOL, I pretty much think the same, but this "some of the time" clause is very important. I wouldn't let someone lead me all the time just because she gives me boners. Though, I must admit, in this situation my judgment would be quite impaired, so if the boners are strong and frequent enough - I might let her lead me all the time, without even realizing it.

IronBear -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/13/2010 3:02:27 PM)
Got A News Break For You SNot!!! Any woman with the smarts to use her female wiles who can lead any man from erection to erection is in the driving seat to dominate him subliminally (i.e. without his being aware of it and if he does realise it he may not care) depending how strong and dominating his libido is compared to his large head. I've used this time and time again to gather intelligence, lead someone to their destruction, destroy companies and to set up the destruction of the odd banana republic or political party. But old lad, if you believe you are good enough to over come such feminine wiles then go for it and enjoy a life of being led by the cock, humiliated and ultimately destroyed. Arrogance can do this for you.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/13/2010 3:08:17 PM)
Ah, Iron Bear laddie, it's a true fact that your wisdom is being ignored! But you are right as usual![:)]

SocratesNot -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/13/2010 3:09:29 PM)
quote: But old lad, if you believe you are good enough to over come such feminine wiles then go for it and enjoy a life of being led by the cock, humiliated and ultimately destroyed. Arrogance can do this for you. Actually, my intention will always be to think with my large head and to act primarily according to reason, and not according to libido. But, sometimes libido is too strong and has stronger influence on a man then reason. And I fully agree that acting only upon libido can lead to humiliation and destruction, because, the cock is not a smart guy.

IronBear -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/13/2010 3:22:38 PM)
The smart man my old chum, knows how to sublimate his libido so it can not interfere and lead him astray. The choice is yours if you prefer vulnerability and openness to destruction or safety where you take control and never allow anyone to get that close where they can influence you. Study the history of your own country and society even from WW2 onwards and you will see the lessons to be learned.

IronBear -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/13/2010 4:28:29 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LadyHibiscus Ah, Iron Bear laddie, it's a true fact that your wisdom is being ignored! But you are right as usual![:)] M'Lady you are one person I hold in both awe and reverence. You are the wise one, not me. I never see myself as being a fount of any wisdom just memories and knowledge based on observation and experience. I like nthe Laddie, haven't been addressed like that for decades it is a nice touch, very clannish too. I'm used to being ignored which is good for the ego anyway because somewhere what I say will hopefully act as a key for someone to see something from another perspective.

LadyHibiscus -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/14/2010 9:13:43 AM)
Iron Bear!! Are you sure you were talking about ME?? <blushes> Thank you very much, dear man!

Andalusite -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/14/2010 6:42:52 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SocratesNot quote: If a woman can give me a boner for at least some of the time, I'll be happy for her to lead me for at least some of the time. I pretty much think the same, but this "some of the time" clause is very important. I wouldn't let someone lead me all the time just because she gives me boners. Though, I must admit, in this situation my judgment would be quite impaired, so if the boners are strong and frequent enough - I might let her lead me all the time, without even realizing it. SN and Peon, I wouldn't want to date any guy who had this approach to submission. It would feel very crass and objectifying, like if he'd said, "Sure, I'll follow you! I can watch your ass better that way." I want the men I date to be attracted to me, and aroused by me, but if that is their primary motivation for submission, I figure that they're likely to only submit when they are in the mood. I have no problem with someone bottoming, or submitting only in the bedroom, but I won't call someone my submissive if I don't have any actual authority over him. I also figure that if they are that led by their libido, that other women will have the same effect on him while we were involved.

submale4u2spank -> RE: M/s and IQ and wisdom (6/14/2010 7:03:47 PM)
My god, I'm pretty darn smart and since there are already so few real dommes, if from that list only the ones that were smarter than me could be my domme, I'd be in a predicament. Luckily, I'd submit due to that being my nature, I may very well know better and be smarter, but my nature is to submit.

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