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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:35:43 PM   
Glasgow


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Make him promise that you won't get pregnant too!

Sweetie?.. he might not even know he has a disease


I'm on the patch, so no worries about zygotes infecting my uterus. Ahem, just saying it again, 'twas all in jest. Nobody shall get laid tomorrow.


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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:35:56 PM   
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you can simply walk into the health dept. and ask for a brown bag and get a lunch bag full of condoms. Lol




Oooo...like pick and Mix?

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:36:48 PM   
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Status: offline 		Fee fi fo fum I smell... a troll?

No profile... big sis hid condoms... (age?) no money..... I promise I havent got a disease - not even a cold - sniff - is it me or are ALL the red flags waving here?

Yes it COULD be me...

If it IS Me - and this is genuine - have coffee in public - have a phone call with a safeword - walk away after coffee - and think before you act.

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:36:57 PM   
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Status: offline 		All of these people say "take condoms."
WTF?
Are you going to F at Starbuck's?
I doubt it.
...and what if this guy is awful?

No one is that desperate.

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:37:20 PM   
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I agree take condoms just incase. In maryland and California you can simply walk into the health dept. and ask for a brown bag and get a lunch bag full of condoms. Lol


I am indeed in California, but I was under the impression that our local PP chapters charged for condoms. Is there a secret I don't know about?


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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:38:11 PM   
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All of these people say "take condoms."
WTF?
Are you going to F at Starbuck's?
I doubt it.


yeah, but ones doubt is another persons kink, yanno

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:38:18 PM   
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And what starts in starbucks can end anywhere.

How fucking naive are YOU?

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:38:50 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whenready

is it me or are ALL the red flags waving here?


No, it's you. She was being *sarcastic* about the diseases, for god's sake.


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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:39:47 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whenready

Fee fi fo fum I smell... a troll?

No profile... big sis hid condoms... (age?) no money..... I promise I havent got a disease - not even a cold - sniff - is it me or are ALL the red flags waving here?

Yes it COULD be me...

If it IS Me - and this is genuine - have coffee in public - have a phone call with a safeword - walk away after coffee - and think before you act.


  • I do have a profile. A nice one. I hid it, because I was tired of getting messages.
  • She didn't hide them, she took them out of my room and left. She doesn't live with us, and decided that removing my option of having safe sex would definitely make me a safer person.
  • I'm 18, don't have a job, and am going to college while living off of my parents. I have no money.
  • Nobody was talking about me not having a disease. It's the dude I'm meeting.

It's definitely you.

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:40:38 PM   
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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:40:56 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Whenready
If it IS Me - and this is genuine - have coffee in public - have a phone call with a safeword - walk away after coffee - and think before you act.


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Whatever happened to the 60's man and free love and spontanaity.... ( and the just in case scenarios)....

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:41:42 PM   
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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:42:20 PM   
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Status: offline 		Yanno, there could be some people right here on this very thread who know a lot of people in your town, that are active in the local group.  The local group whose leaders come up to our munches and events.  The local group where a bunch of our peeps go road-tripping to meet up with.  The local group who knows who the online peeps are.

Just sayin'.



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PS:  Let someone know where you are???  Most people don't do "safecalls" for a meeting at Starbucks.  Unless you're really truly worried about them running out of espresso... that might warrant a safecall.


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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:44:01 PM   
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ORIGINAL: Glasgow

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

Well where are you meeting and for what purpose?  Bring condoms.

Generally, just be yourself, relax, hang out, use good sense, follow your instincts.


He's a Dom. We're meeting to see if there is any possible future of enslavement. I don't plan to sleep with him as soon as tomorrow - which is probably good, because I am broke and out of condoms.

We are meeting in a very public place, which I am well familiar with. It's a cluster of restaurants, expensive boutiques, a movie theater, and a Starbucks. We will be meeting at the Starbucks.



so whats with the older doms telling you to be careful - sounds like a regular meet up.

like the others have said, relax and enjoy youre time together - if theres chemistry then great - have fun.

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:45:04 PM   
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Rolls a 3 for stupidity. There goes my perfect record....


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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:45:55 PM   
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PS:  Let someone know where you are???  Most people don't do "safecalls" for a meeting at Starbucks.  Unless you're really truly worried about them running out of espresso... that might warrant a safecall.



I'd have a safe call just for meeting at a starbucks.  Don't y'all have somewhere that sells better coffee than there?
Blergh....

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:46:13 PM   
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so whats with the older doms telling you to be careful - sounds like a regular meet up.


I'd estimate that I've received about 20 "be careful" messages from randomers. And as far as I know, it is a regular meet up. But I've never met up before, so I'm trying to glean the wisdom of you experienced people before I go.


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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:46:29 PM   
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ORIGINAL: CalifChick

Yanno, there could be some people right here on this very thread who know a lot of people in your town, that are active in the local group.  The local group whose leaders come up to our munches and events.  The local group where a bunch of our peeps go road-tripping to meet up with.  The local group who knows who the online peeps are.

Just sayin'.



Cali

PS:  Let someone know where you are???  Most people don't do "safecalls" for a meeting at Starbucks.  Unless you're really truly worried about them running out of espresso... that might warrant a safecall.


LOL....nice Cali

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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:46:48 PM   
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RE: Meeting someone from CM tomorrow - need advice - 6/10/2010 3:47:20 PM   
Jeffff


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How is a guy supposed to know if she is true wthout her blowing him?

It can't be done!



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