Whiplashsmile4
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ORIGINAL: ricken
OK, I got this from a few other posts, and these are things that might be veiwed as submissive act by some, but as the Dom (well maybe Top since we are not 24/7) here are things I require that we do.
The keyword is that you require these things. I tend to be the kind of guy that likes, wants and insists upon things being done my way. That's kind of goes with the territory of D/s. Sort of like the Burger King motto of having it your way. Who cares what other people think. Seriously, it's a good thing you don't buy into Stereotypes. You have to be true to yourself.
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I open her car door (and other doors) she is not allowed to open it herself.
Clearly there is a set in place rule here regarding what she is or is not allowed to do. You are the one in control of this action.
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If we are going someplace where clothes matter, she is required to pick out what I wear. Day to day stuff I'm a t-shirt and jeans or shorts guy.
Clearly she is performing a service for you, because you are not used to dressing up like this and want to make certain you look your best.
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She is to tell me when I need a hair cut, and cut my hair.
Clearly providing you with a reminder service.
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She is to handle social things when we are invited someplace.
Again, she is providing service (sounds pretty service oriented if you ask me).
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I do her toenails.
Clearly, you are taking over this task and doing something you want to do.
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There are a couple of others but I listed enough. When I think of these acts they seem "submissive" to me. Are they submissive acts? Do other Doms have similar acts that might be veiwed as submissive that they do/want done ?
Don't worry so much if an act seems submissive or not, just make certain you are happy and content with the way things are being done. Trying to live up to some stereotype notion of what D/s is or not is, instead of doing WHAT YOU WANT, is a mistake.
Also, sure I'm into things that might be viewed (mistaken) as submissive in nature according to this OP, then again I don't have the time of day to fucking worry about what other people think. If I want to fuck, do toenails, flog 'em, or have them pick out my clothes or pick out their clothes... well, I'm really getting things done according to what I desire regardless of what anybody else might think. lol
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