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JstAnotherSub -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 10:47:06 AM)

I am afraid to even know what mandals are!  I am not yet done bleaching my mind from the mankini with the whip dude.....

I need mental health advice!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Make it go awayyyyyyyyyyyyy




juliaoceania -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 10:54:12 AM)


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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

I read the OP. I would say it is her nature to try to help anyone.

Knowing her from her posts only I would say folks could do worse.


I second this




angelikaJ -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 10:54:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Even when someone is toting themselves to BE a certain profession Jeff and they utilize same to attempt to get credibility to discount someone?

I mean the OP herself says -- as a mental health professional i have a duty.   You don't believe clarification of that should be questioned IF they are using same to indicate their information is MORE correct?




First,  that isn't what she said.

This is what she said in the OP:
"When there are threads with blatant inaccurate information being touted, I have often felt it was my duty as a mental health professional to clarify if no one else did. I have thought of it as people being in harms way."

How do you see any harm if she is presenting correct information whether or not she is a mental health professional?

I don't think that one necessarily needs to be a degreed professional anything to present accurate information with the intention of presenting a clarification.
Knowledge of facts and a way of clearly communicating them are usually adequate criteria, don't you think?

Second, I don't think on an anonymous board anyone has the right to expect people to reveal personal information on demand.
Certainly they can request it privately, but demanding it?

barelyngel,

I can only speak for me.
It is my perception that you often come across as hostile.
I don't know if my perception is correct, and if it is something you are even aware of.

I find it likewise interesting that to me it seems like you are frequently defensive in your responses.

My perception does not make it so.

I think you are bright and very knowledgeable and I am feeling very limited by being puzzled by something that is frankly none of my business and yet is present so often on these forums.

Why do you seem so pissed off?




domiguy -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 11:00:56 AM)


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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Even when someone is toting themselves to BE a certain profession Jeff and they utilize same to attempt to get credibility to discount someone?

I mean the OP herself says -- as a mental health professional i have a duty.   You don't believe clarification of that should be questioned IF they are using same to indicate their information is MORE correct?

Sorry, i disagree, while yes i do agree its stupid for people to take any advise regarding things like mental health and medical and legal online from anonymous nicknames, i believe when someone uses the statement i am a mental health professional or i am a medical professional or i am a legal professional to make a point can be questioned because THEY are opening it for further examination.  Professional how and in what capacity?  IF people don't want to open themselves up for further examination of their credentials then they shouldn't USE a vague concept to support whatever they say unless they are ready for further examination into same.

If they are posting as simply an anonymous nickname then they aren't opening themselves up for same. 
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Barely, you should question virtually everything you read. What transpires out here should be heavily if not entirely discounted.

You can request anything and everything from the folks out here. That is why my Domiguy mailbox is currently packed to the gills with gash....And my subbygal mailbox is currently overburdened with a serious overload of monstrous cock shots.

But this is not a court of law....

Domiguy: I am a health professional

barely: What kind of health professional are you?

Domiguy: I specialize in mental health and in treating mental health disorders.

barely: Where did you go to school?

Domiguy: I attended John Hopkins University which is widely held to be one of the top schools of psychiatry in the country.

I completed my residency at McLean Hospital in Boston, Ma. Anything else you would like to know?

barely: Wow. You are so smart!!!

Domiguy: Yes, it's a burden that only I can bear.





NuevaVida -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 11:09:31 AM)

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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss

Hello all,

My question was where do you draw the line about information when you have experience, knowledge, etc. in a field. Holly has done an excellent job expressing her own professional line in the sand, and for that I am grateful. *You get a big gold star for staying on topic! [:D]

I'm not posting my private, educational, or professional information. As many know, there is more than one person who stalks me on this website. I must keep that in mind for safety's sake.

Thank you Julia for speaking so eloquently about privacy issues. If someone would like to approach me personally, I'd be happy to refer them in the areas that I have some knowledge in (including things like self-defense, dance workshops, self-help groups, teaching certifications, 12 step programs, etc.).

At the end of the day, we all can put out the information that we choose to share. It is of course up to the reader to do their own research and decide whether they want to believe a bunch of yahoos on a message board (including myself).

best,
sunshine



Hi sunshine,

It's not so much a "line" that I draw, but, in all honesty, what I'm in the mood to engage in.  I'm in the medical field (and for those concerned about credentials out there, I am not a practitioner, I work in the IT side, on electronic medical records).  In recent weeks I saw inaccurate information posted about HIPAA laws and, while I am not an expert on HIPAA laws, I do know the legal standards I am required to meet, regarding Patient Health Information (PHI), so I corrected what was posted.

I'm not a HIPAA expert, a medical practitioner, licensed, a lawyer....but I do have knowledge based on my own profession.  So yes, I will happily share that knowledge when I see someone writing something contrary to it.

I will also post "corrections" based on personal life experiences, on any topic.  For example, I've recently lost 60 pounds, and I sometimes see people doling out weight loss advice that contradicts my own education and experience about weight loss, only to find they are overweight and have not been able to lose, despite their own efforts.  So I will sometimes interject my own successful experiences.

Sunshine, kudos to you for keeping dignity in this thread.

Holly, I loved your posts here, thank you for sharing your knowledge.




angelikaJ -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 11:17:59 AM)

Sunshine,

I am not much of a professional anything, but in the course of my employment and just in living [:D] as well as my insatiable curiosity I am well read on a variety of subjects and if I don't know something I will look it up with cross references.

I spent 10 years in the medical field and another 10 working in group homes working with different populations in various capacities.

Inaccurate information is a pet peeve of mine and my determination to provide correct facts is proportional with how subjectively important I view it to be.

Thank you for the question, sunshine.





LadyPact -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 11:23:39 AM)

It seems to Me that people are wound too tightly when it comes to the subject of mental health.  Oh Heavens!  Don't possibly give advice on that subject!  You might offend someone, make an incorrect diagnosis, or <gasp> call them mentally ill.  It doesn't matter that you didn't really diagnose them or you've noticed their prior postings where they say outright that they are mentally ill.  If somebody's cracker jacks aren't all in the box, chances are, it isn't just the medical professional who diagnosed them knows it.

Honestly, sunny, I think your heart is in the right place.  I don't think anybody would have protested anything about your train of thought had it been about any other subject.  If somebody came on this site and said it was safe to tie somebody up with rope until the bottom lost all sensation in their hands and it was cool not to untie them until two hours later, people would absolutely step up to the plate to say it wasn't the case.  Nobody would be drilling them to verify what kind of degrees they had to counter the bad information.  There wouldn't be any challenges of how the people saying that it wasn't cool shouldn't be saying it because they didn't attend medical school.

Don't get Me wrong.  I'm not saying that you can save anyone from themselves over discussions on a written forum.  Still, if you see what you perceive as inaccurate info, there's no reason that you can't offer your own opinion and provide additional information.




zephyroftheNorth -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 11:25:26 AM)

Hi Sunnyone

I have been a medical secretary for 17 years or so the last 6 doing all correspondence for the Hematology/Medical Oncology dept in a hospital. When I see information which I know without a doubt is wrong and someone could get hurt by believing it, I'll post the correct info, not only for that person but for anyone else who might believe it to be true. If I'm not sure I'll ask one of my doctors first.




girlygurl -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 11:57:07 AM)


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ORIGINAL: angelikaJ

quote:

ORIGINAL: barelynangel

Even when someone is toting themselves to BE a certain profession Jeff and they utilize same to attempt to get credibility to discount someone?

I mean the OP herself says -- as a mental health professional i have a duty.   You don't believe clarification of that should be questioned IF they are using same to indicate their information is MORE correct?




First,  that isn't what she said.

This is what she said in the OP:
"When there are threads with blatant inaccurate information being touted, I have often felt it was my duty as a mental health professional to clarify if no one else did. I have thought of it as people being in harms way."

How do you see any harm if she is presenting correct information whether or not she is a mental health professional?

I don't think that one necessarily needs to be a degreed professional anything to present accurate information with the intention of presenting a clarification.
Knowledge of facts and a way of clearly communicating them are usually adequate criteria, don't you think?

Second, I don't think on an anonymous board anyone has the right to expect people to reveal personal information on demand.
Certainly they can request it privately, but demanding it?

barelyngel,

I can only speak for me.
It is my perception that you often come across as hostile.
I don't know if my perception is correct, and if it is something you are even aware of.

I find it likewise interesting that to me it seems like you are frequently defensive in your responses.

My perception does not make it so.

I think you are bright and very knowledgeable and I am feeling very limited by being puzzled by something that is frankly none of my business and yet is present so often on these forums.

Why do you seem so pissed off?


I have to agree. Why do you seem so pissed off angel?




barelynangel -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 1:14:09 PM)

shakes my head you people are way to intent to find my questions as an attack or hostile.  yes i know you al want to make this all about me questioning sunshine as to what exactly her profession is or was in the very vague mental heath professions. I don't have to use a thread to attack her and i also asked Holly the same question and no one seems to be whining i am hostile or such because of my questions to her-- jumping into to attack people in threads is the agenda of many of the people on these boards but its not mine because i have no issue with telling people what i think of them, but i usually do it in private and i usually do it when they message me. 

Same question to two people and i have a negative motive towards one and an informational interest motive in another?  Come on folks, you are tryng to hard here.

Opps i deleted this part but please explain to me the different between:
"I have often felt it was my duty as a mental health professional "
and "as a mental health professional i have a duty"

The REASON i was asking for specifics is different levels of professions have different professional standards and ethics.  I could care less what her profession actually was, however, KNOWING it helps distinguish exactly what her duty would be to the general public as to advise etc.  Her education, the level of same, and the type of same, and whether or not she is licensed would have an weight to duty. 

There are some professions that if you are on the street and someone say faints and you say i am a medical professional and you indicate what someone else is doing or saying or such and negative consequences come out of your doing so -- you can be sued under medical malpractice and depending on what actually is your profession you could be put up on criminal charges. 

I know many people only want to see my posts as some huge negative concept or i am just hostile etc, and i am sure some people know that i have rejected friendships with sunshine in the past, but sorry i am not like most people i don't use posts to convey an attack simply becaue i don't care for someone.  I do attack yes, but i try and attack the topic and when someone uses themselves as part of that topic it may seem like i am attacking them, but i have no need to do so.   Take it or leave it i am sure most of yo will feel better leaving it because you want to think what you want.  smiles, its okay.  i understand.



angel




kdsub -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 1:19:05 PM)


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ORIGINAL: sunshinemiss


My question was where do you draw the line about information when you have experience, knowledge, etc. in a field.



I sort of got this thread going on the wrong foot so I will try again without expressing my opinions on mental illness and the net.

I see no problem with using your professional knowledge when you believe someone is making a mistake as long as it is done in the correct spirit. I've done it myself but I don't try to convince anyone of my qualifications to give advice. They either take it or don't. It is hard to give professional advice in a message broad because you will have many "internet search engine experts" that think they have the true knowledge. Now if they ask me how I know I will be glad to tell them in private.

This is really not the place for advice...but... I do see where caring people may fear for another’s health and try to intervene...I just believe it should be done in private...I guess I am just a private person.

So my bottom line is I would most likely send an email rather than give professional advice in a public format.

Butch




dreamerdreaming -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 1:36:12 PM)

You can't save everyone. OP, if you're a rescuer: choose your battles. Some people can't be saved, and some don't want to. The internet is full of loonies, and time wasters.

  Set some limits that protect your own health and sanity first, and then do whatever you're comfy doing that fits within your scope of practice. Myself, I wouldn't waste my time. Proper diagnosis needs to be done in person. If it were me I'd concentrate on what I know I can accomplish in person, and let the crazies all roam the web as usual.




ModTwentyOne -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 2:46:56 PM)

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I could care less what her profession actually was, however, KNOWING it helps distinguish exactly what her duty would be to the general public as to advise etc. 



Let's stick to the topic at hand.  The topic is "what would YOU do", not "please evaluate what I do".

Thank you.




JstAnotherSub -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 3:02:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: barelynangel

shakes my head you people are way to intent to find my questions as an attack or hostile.  yes i know you al want to make this all about me questioning sunshine as to what exactly her profession is or was in the very vague mental heath professions. I don't have to use a thread to attack her and i also asked Holly the same question and no one seems to be whining i am hostile or such because of my questions to her-- jumping into to attack people in threads is the agenda of many of the people on these boards but its not mine because i have no issue with telling people what i think of them, but i usually do it in private and i usually do it when they message me. 

Same question to two people and i have a negative motive towards one and an informational interest motive in another?  Come on folks, you are tryng to hard here.

Opps i deleted this part but please explain to me the different between:
"I have often felt it was my duty as a mental health professional "
and "as a mental health professional i have a duty"

The REASON i was asking for specifics is different levels of professions have different professional standards and ethics.  I could care less what her profession actually was, however, KNOWING it helps distinguish exactly what her duty would be to the general public as to advise etc.  Her education, the level of same, and the type of same, and whether or not she is licensed would have an weight to duty. 

There are some professions that if you are on the street and someone say faints and you say i am a medical professional and you indicate what someone else is doing or saying or such and negative consequences come out of your doing so -- you can be sued under medical malpractice and depending on what actually is your profession you could be put up on criminal charges. 

I know many people only want to see my posts as some huge negative concept or i am just hostile etc, and i am sure some people know that i have rejected friendships with sunshine in the past, but sorry i am not like most people i don't use posts to convey an attack simply becaue i don't care for someone.  I do attack yes, but i try and attack the topic and when someone uses themselves as part of that topic it may seem like i am attacking them, but i have no need to do so.   Take it or leave it i am sure most of yo will feel better leaving it because you want to think what you want.  smiles, its okay.  i understand.



angel
We are not on the street.

This is some incorrect info, if ever I saw any.  I feel the need to correct it based on my expertise in smelling bullshit.




DesFIP -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 5:20:54 PM)

It isn't just a matter of licensed or unlicensed. Someone said that to her a social worker is the same as a clinical psychologist. That's wrong. There is no way someone who gets a bachelors in social work is equal to someone with a PhD who has also done training in a psych hospital. One is much more competent than the other.




juliaoceania -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 5:23:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: DesFIP

It isn't just a matter of licensed or unlicensed. Someone said that to her a social worker is the same as a clinical psychologist. That's wrong. There is no way someone who gets a bachelors in social work is equal to someone with a PhD who has also done training in a psych hospital. One is much more competent than the other.


Let me say, I have known a lot of people with PhDs, and there is no magical event that happens when they are awarded with such a degree that makes them superior to anyone... just because you have the degree does not make you special... some of the biggest idiot I know are "doctors"...

At the same time, I wouldn't let some premed student operate on me either[:D]




Zevar -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/20/2010 8:03:17 PM)

Greetings Sunshine:

In response to your question
quote:

“Where is the line for you as far as clearing up inaccurate information? Is there a line? “


For myself the line or rather boundary line is when I recognize that my words or facts were misunderstood. I know that my motive in clarifying inaccurate information is always given with an understanding that not everyone chooses to deal with what is accurately spoken or factually presented. Nonetheless the potential harm that misinformation can produce is a primary motivating factor in my relentless willingness to clarify inaccuracies.

However there are times when to say anymore in certain situations only lends itself to fuel a flame that does not serve toward the higher good. In situations such as this I tend to simply be calm and quiet with the knowledge that some things are better left unsaid.

Clearly there is a boundary line for myself that has become more precise over the many years of simply living life daily and also in combination with my education and work as a professional, which IMO comes with related ethical obligations associated with the responsibilities of living life daily and doing the right thing.

I am fully aware that my boundary line regarding my choice to clarify inaccuracies is not going to match everyone. If I waited for my boundary line to match others I would cease to do what is right in my own mindfulness. When I know I need to take action I do or else I cease to feel comfortable with my own manhood i.e.: sense of integrity.

Regarding your question
quote:

“Am I the only one who thinks about this stuff? “


No! I do and quite often to be clear.

Thank you for the posting, Sunshine.




wandersalone -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/21/2010 4:55:17 AM)

I must admit to being a bit wary of stepping into mental health discussions mainly because all I have to go on are words on a screen.  People seem to throw around diagnoses and judgments so quickly ...apparently every second person had a dom who was a sociopath...who knew they were so common? [8|]

If I feel someone is struggling through what they have written I will google for a 24 hour free helpline and also see if there are any KAP near them and send them the links to those.  If it is someone whom I know a little I will send them a c mail offering support.

I will sometimes a little talk about my experiences in working with people with particular disorders (eg. the pro ana/mia thread you mentioned Sunny) if only to add some balance to what is generally such negative comments and outlooks.  You know...to add some balance to the omg omg they are going to die comments.

I don't know though, I come here for my down time, not so that I can feel like I am at work so I admit to often leaving the deep stuff to others.  I find that I have to switch off the work part of me at times otherwise I will end up burnt out if I am constantly on. It may sound callous however it is what I have realised I need after working in this area for many years.

Angel - as a fyi, from the 1st of July Australia will have one national registration Board  for psychologists rather than the current individual state based Boards.  What a great step forward for us. [:)]




Louve00 -> RE: Inaccurate Info (6/21/2010 5:25:11 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Anyone who comes to this web site looking for in depth advice on any topic except bdsm is stupid.

Anyone who questions the advice or qualifications of the folks here is unaware.

It should ALL be questioned. With regards to mental health any adivce other than. "seek professional help" should be ignored.

Anyone who demands evidence of qualifications can go fuck themselves.


I think this is the best advice yet.  Its nice that people want to help and all, but everything you learn on a forum board, thru a chat room, and even from some health sites on the internet has to be taken with a grain of salt.  If you're really concerned.. GO TO A DR.  If you're just looking for attention, you'll be certain to get plenty in places like these.  If you genuinely need help and came to a place like this for a serious solution....all I can say is you get what you pay for. 




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