juliaoceania
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Joined: 4/19/2006 From: Somewhere Over the Rainbow Status: offline
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but really it seems difficult to not find "ongoing neglect" with parents who are sleeping those kinds of hours with small children in the house. I had a 4 yr old, the only job I could find that I knew I would have childcare was a cocktail server. I wanted my mom with him when I couldn't be, she worked days, so I had to work nights. I would get home anywhere from 3 to 5 AM 4 days a week. I would jump right in bed and try to get a couple of hours sleep before my son woke up at 7 am. I did this for 6 months before I could find another job with early evening hours. I would lock my son in my room with me, turn on the TV, and then catnap. I was a mess when I finally quit doing that job, emotionally wrought, and completely sleep deprived... Not everyone is blessed with 9 to 5 work.... Like I said, judging without all the facts again....
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