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NuevaVida -> RE: The Image that is Given (6/30/2010 6:26:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael


Having met the "new" you and having pissed off the "old" you, I think you have become a really really cool woman!



Aw, Thanks, Michael.  And  yes, you sure did piss me off!  [:)]




BossyShoeBitch -> RE: The Image that is Given (6/30/2010 8:08:15 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I like you find these kind of approaches "manipulate, insincere... and most importantly... Weak!


Not everyone that does this is weak...Hell I forget who said this just days ago but it's a well known poster...She mentioned that she emailed a Dom when she first started posting because she was afraid of how the Dom tore people to shreds(I'm sure it was DG)...Maybe she WAS weak but she doesn't come off that way now.




Ummmm..Wrong on both counts.  Was NOT Domi!!  Never been weak.  




laurell3 -> RE: The Image that is Given (6/30/2010 8:13:45 PM)

Icarys,

One would hope that most rational adults are asking for a different perspective, not asking literally for someone to tell them what to be or do. Having an opinion by someone you know only helps further or expand your own, not replace it.




Whiplashsmile4 -> RE: The Image that is Given (6/30/2010 8:38:33 PM)

What I treasure is learning things is when I'm least expecting it.




Ligeia72 -> RE: The Image that is Given (6/30/2010 8:49:55 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Whiplashsmile4

What I treasure is learning things is when I'm least expecting it.


Yes, definitely. Me too. It's why I try not to talk in terms of dictatorial absolute's, but prefer a more free flow exchange of opinions, and ideas. You never know when someone's going to say something that makes you go 'Hey wow, I never thought of it like that before'. [:)]




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 6:31:49 AM)

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I like you find these kind of approaches "manipulate, insincere... and most importantly... Weak!


Not everyone that does this is weak...Hell I forget who said this just days ago but it's a well known poster...She mentioned that she emailed a Dom when she first started posting because she was afraid of how the Dom tore people to shreds(I'm sure it was DG)...Maybe she WAS weak but she doesn't come off that way now.




Ummmm..Wrong on both counts.  Was NOT Domi!!  Never been weak.  


Well welll...Uhh the first one was a bit of a jest...The second I did mispeak..What I should have said is "Maybe she WAS in your mind weak but she doesn't come off that way now." Though we do all have weak moments I suppose thats not being weak in general..So your moment was weak...Surely  being a tough cookie didn't come to you straight outta the womb.

I don't usually see people as weak not in the way most do..The term is used in as a way to put another down..I think I've been pretty clear on that since I really hate when people use the term doormat in that same way to diminish a persons worth because they may have a harder time saying no to a multitude.




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 6:37:51 AM)

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

Icarys,

One would hope that most rational adults are asking for a different perspective, not asking literally for someone to tell them what to be or do. Having an opinion by someone you know only helps further or expand your own, not replace it.

I didn't think they were coming for that..(well, 99% of them anyway)

Sure I know they'll read what I say as well as what others say and in that sense...I don't mind...but I aint here for them, ya know? I try not to give advice..I have done it when I felt it could be a good thing but for me..I tend to look for the answers in different ways I guess and don't rely on others to give them to me as much.

I get what your saying though.

I wanted to add this one thing and then I have work to do.

I don't care what image other people form of me because of what I said earlier and for the simple fact that I just don't care what they perceive(Negative ways). I know already that I have some extreme views..I expect to be seen differently when those who are looking have "mainstream" eyes.

People will gravitate to things for a grand amount of reasons..based on their natural inclinations/likes/dislikes...

I'd say most people come here through sex..therefor...They are more apt to go for anything that's sexual based and more apt to appreciate that type of poster..and so on and so on.

Hell I'm probably not on topic but I love enjoy the idea of perceptions and how people come to those conclusions or places in life..The workings behind the scene that brings them there. People are complex and it's fun to try and figure out why they do things.




RCdc -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 6:49:00 AM)

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 I've had more than a few people try to(what I call) get a rile out of me in all sorts of ways but the funniest to me is with the icon thing. I mean it's just one of my favorite science movies..why? because the concept is cool and I'm geeky..What self-respecting geek doesn't like the Matrix?


Yeah, but you're better looking than Keanu.
(do I get the suck up prize?)[;)]

the.dark.
(.swooning.)




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 7:33:59 AM)

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ORIGINAL: RCdc

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 I've had more than a few people try to(what I call) get a rile out of me in all sorts of ways but the funniest to me is with the icon thing. I mean it's just one of my favorite science movies..why? because the concept is cool and I'm geeky..What self-respecting geek doesn't like the Matrix?


Yeah, but you're better looking than Keanu.
(do I get the suck up prize?)[;)]

the.dark.
(.swooning.)

No suck up prize but how about a night of dancing for being a sweetheart just cause.[sm=dance.gif]






RCdc -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 7:51:25 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Icarys
No suck up prize but how about a night of dancing for being a sweetheart just cause.[sm=dance.gif]


Now see - you know me too well and going for my weak spot...[:)]

the.dark.




SimplyMichael -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 8:22:29 AM)

Grabs a chair, a cold beer, and settles in to watch, hoping to catch a glimpse of that most glorious creature in action.




domiguy -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 8:29:30 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch

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ORIGINAL: Icarys

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I like you find these kind of approaches "manipulate, insincere... and most importantly... Weak!


Not everyone that does this is weak...Hell I forget who said this just days ago but it's a well known poster...She mentioned that she emailed a Dom when she first started posting because she was afraid of how the Dom tore people to shreds(I'm sure it was DG)...Maybe she WAS weak but she doesn't come off that way now.




Ummmm..Wrong on both counts.  Was NOT Domi!!  Never been weak.  



She contacted me and begged for my collar.




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 9:13:51 AM)

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She contacted me and begged for my collar.

You are the Man about town after all.[:D]




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 9:18:40 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Grabs a chair, a cold beer, and settles in to watch, hoping to catch a glimpse of that most glorious creature in action.

Look Michael, How about we squash all of this petty going back and forth with one another or at the very least choose to ignore? It's evident that neither one of us "like" the other but the constant bickering..Although, yes fun at times, isn't a good thing and really doesn't show well on either of us.





LaTigresse -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 9:24:47 AM)

Be careful!! That would require the both of you behaving like mature adults and all...




Jeffff -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 9:25:34 AM)

Now you have gone TOO far!!!!!!




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 9:28:39 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Be careful!! That would require the both of you behaving like mature adults and all...

It's a task for sure but I'm willing to tryyyyy[:D].




Jeffff -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 9:33:29 AM)

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ORIGINAL: domiguy

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ORIGINAL: BossyShoeBitch
Ummmm..Wrong on both counts.  Was NOT Domi!!  Never been weak.  

She contacted me and begged for my collar.



I don't know, she seems pretty emphatic there!




SimplyMichael -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 10:00:07 AM)

Grabs another beer, knowing patience has its own rewards.




Icarys -> RE: The Image that is Given (7/1/2010 10:14:19 AM)

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ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

Grabs another beer, knowing patience has its own rewards.

All I can do is offer the olive branch. Your the other side of this. You have to be willing to take it.




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