RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress



Message

81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 4:04:53 PM)

Yes Tantrigu that was my point in the 1st post was how for some strange reason it never gave it a thought and found myself laughing at how us males can be so one sided.  Makes one wonder what else is lurking out there? Sometimes I feel I still have a long way to go.



LadyNTrainer -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 4:43:05 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: 81song

While I was hanging out with my subbie friend she told me she really did enjoy watching two men together. And it got me think of course us men enjoy watching two women but I never gave it a thought as to what women and Domme would enjoy at the time. I then thought how self centered us men can be. I have had one Domme tell me she liked this and I had to tell her it was a hard limit for me.
So what is it that Dommes really do enjoy on this subject? Is it the humiliation?


No, it's just fucking hot.  If you can imagine watching two sexy lesbians getting it on and how exciting that might be for many men, the same exact thing applies to a lot of women who enjoy that sort of thing.

Other people's mileage may vary.  Some people may use it for humiliation, or like it for that reason.  Personally I just think it's sexy to see two hot boys expressing their male sexuality in a beautiful way with one another. 



Andalusite -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 5:59:23 PM)

I'm generally not drawn to it as humiliation, and would not push the issue with someone who had it as a limit. If I were dating a submissive man, I wouldn't want him to have casual sex with anyone, regardless of gender. So, unless we were in a poly triad, it wouldn't be likely to happen. A little casual making out or dancing, maybe, if everyone involved was interested. If I were playing more casually with someone who had an intense interest in M-M contact, I might have fun doing that, and I know someone who would be interested and willing to let me take charge. However, I'd be actively uncomfortable with most humiliation play, as it's easy for it to come across as homophobic or gay-bashing. If he were embarrassed by it, or needed me to take charge, that's yummy, but calling him a slut or a cocksucker just isn't my style.



slavekal -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 6:52:29 PM)

My Mistress loves it.  She really wishes that I were bi.  Alas, I am strictly hetero.



laurell3 -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 7:00:25 PM)

I don't know that it's a domme thing as much as a common woman thing/fantasy. Forced bi is also hot as hell.



LPslittleclip -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 8:50:43 PM)

my Mistress really really likes it. male sex does nothing for me but i will do it for my Mistress as She would enjoy it. im not bi but for my Mistress pleasure i will do it.



Marini -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 9:13:11 PM)

I enjoy watching two/or more men together.
[;)]

But, I would not want to be in a relationship with either of them,
let them enjoy each other's company, I will enjoy watching.

[:D]
 



Ligeia72 -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/29/2010 10:28:55 PM)

Haven't had the opportunity to indulge in real life, but I do enjoy watching two men together. I also enjoy watching two females, male and female, different combinations of the same, and so on. For me it's not so much a Dominant/Top thing as a Voyeuristic enjoyment of watching people receive pleasure.



MadameMarque -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 3:26:00 AM)

Until that time that I have some beautiful boys of my own, to realize my own real life answer to this question, I'll have to content myself with the absolute Universe of media out there dedicated to the feminine love of Boys Love. Females loving males loving each other.

You might try searches for the following terms: yaoi, yaoicon - yes, they have conventions-, BL, fan service, slash fiction, seme and uke, shounen ai - those are just to get you started.

The question isn't, do dominant females, specifcally, enjoy males together, it's, what's the latest and what are the current favorites, in the vast culture of females, young and old, kinky and vanilla*, interested in males together?
*although it should be noted, appreciation for the theme of male-on-male dominance and submission and power differential is almost universal.

Oh,...and the only humiliating thing, is really more "humbling," as a female, to wish to be as pretty as some of the boys in question.
Oh, you beauties!



81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 7:46:40 AM)

Thank you all for the input and a  LPslittlelip he is not bi but would do it for his Mistress I could see that and that makes sense.
I guess the reason why I brought up humiliation besides the fact that I do enjoy it, it would in fact be just that for me if the day would ever come.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:21:32 AM)

That you found it personally humiliating but would still do it for her---that will make your dom's heart explode!



81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:45:21 AM)

Yes Lady I guess that is the bridge that the Domme helps with the sub to cross in time. And I think that takes time, trust, and patience, both on the sub and the Domme. 



LadyPact -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:47:22 AM)

I'm just going to sit here and smile.



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:48:38 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I'm just going to sit here and smile.



Feather sticking out of your mouth there, hon! [8D]



LadyPact -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:51:15 AM)

I was going to make that joke about being in the catbird seat.  I thought it might show My age a bit.  [8D]



LadyHibiscus -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:52:12 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyPact

I was going to make that joke about being in the catbird seat.  I thought it might show My age a bit.  [8D]


Um. OUR age! LOL.



RCdc -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:52:42 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

I don't know that it's a domme thing as much as a common woman thing/fantasy.


I agree....[;)] [:D]

I am sure that some people think that the fantasy is a male domain that women don't dig sex between two men who are enjoying each other... and who occasionally may join in herself.*fans

the.dark.



81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 8:55:58 AM)

Lady that was plain funny, I almost spilled  my coffee,"Feather sticking out of your mouth there, hon"



mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 10:19:13 AM)

quote:

Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther?


Spell-Checker must be offline. Last i knew, it was spelled "t.o.g.E.t.h.e.r"

**Edited to demonstrate how easy it is to correct spelling in the topics**



AAkasha -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 12:05:06 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

quote:

Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther?


Spell-Checker must be offline. Last i knew, it was spelled "t.o.g.E.t.h.e.r"

**Edited to demonstrate how easy it is to correct spelling in the topics**


Everyone knows you are using a 'spelling observation' as an excuse to hang out in the guys-doing-guys thread, mikey.  Come on, admit it, you are into gay sex.

Akasha



Page: <<   < prev  1 [2] 3 4 5   next >   >>

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.046875