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MissJana -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 12:15:39 PM)

I personally find two guys together to be really hot. I have had the pleasure on a few occasions of having boys of mine play. It's quite HOTT having them put on a show for me and then have them turn all their attention to pleasing me. [;)] But as far as the humiliating aspect and forced bi. I'm not into that at all. My current boyfriend is totally straight and unless he was curious about it I wouldn't force the issue. 




BitaTruble -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 12:15:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: 81song

While I was hanging out with my subbie friend she told me she really did enjoy watching two men together. And it got me think of course us men enjoy watching two women but I never gave it a thought as to what women and Domme would enjoy at the time. I then thought how self centered us men can be. I have had one Domme tell me she liked this and I had to tell her it was a hard limit for me.
So what is it that Dommes really do enjoy on this subject? Is it the humiliation?




I top and not a dominant at all, but male on male is the *only* porn that actually turns me on and I prefer prison porn to gym rat porn but that just goes hand in hand with my arrest fantasy.




AAkasha -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 12:53:23 PM)



It's a bit complicated for me because it depends on the situation, but in summary --

* I like sensualism between men more than blatant sex -- ie, kissing is hotter than anal sex
* I like bondage between men THE MOST -- Men topping other men? HOTTER than HELL!
* As far as *humiliation* goes, I like forced oral -- this is highly erotic to me as a participant/observer (in other words, I enjoy vids of guys kissing way more than guys giving each other blow jobs, unless that act is an act of S&M with a femdom slant).

Akasha




WestBaySlave -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 12:53:28 PM)

I must say I get a laugh out of this thread, given that I used to be part of a group that wrote gay BDSM stories, and it seemed to be almost entirely made up of women.

I still remember one incident from there, with a person who I co-wrote a few things with. We only knew each other on this group from screen names, but one time an off-topic "post a picture of yourself" thread came up, and both me and my co-author posted.

"Wow, you're a woman?" I responded to her picture.

"What!? You're a guy!?" She responded to mine.

[:D]






81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 1:00:32 PM)

Yes of course if you are gay one would enjoy it but I was just I guess showing myself  how centered some of us males can be. I  know I learned a lesson in that and from the sounds of it Domme think it is hot.




mikeyOfGeorgia -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 2:18:33 PM)

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

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Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther?


Spell-Checker must be offline. Last i knew, it was spelled "t.o.g.E.t.h.e.r"

**Edited to demonstrate how easy it is to correct spelling in the topics**


Everyone knows you are using a 'spelling observation' as an excuse to hang out in the guys-doing-guys thread, mikey.  Come on, admit it, you are into gay sex.

Akasha



i am NOT. i just happen to notice just how may dumb people there are on here when such an easily fixable misspelling goes for so long without being corrected. must be from American schools' education system. they seem NOT to teach spelling in America any more.




LaTigresse -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 2:28:09 PM)

Excuses excuses....




LadyPact -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 2:42:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia

i am NOT. i just happen to notice just how may dumb people there are on here when such an easily fixable misspelling goes for so long without being corrected. must be from American schools' education system. they seem NOT to teach spelling in America any more.


I was more interested in the subject than the spelling in the subject line.  Who could blame Me?  Really.  The last thing I'm thinking about when a topic turns Me on this much is the proper spelling of "together".

You run along and have your fun, mikey.  We'll stay here and have ours.




tornaway -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 2:47:49 PM)

  I enjoy watching two men , two women , or any combination thereof !

Along with cats, snakes, horses , elephants ...  oh,  you get the idea !      [;)]




MadameMarque -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 3:18:40 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

I must say I get a laugh out of this thread, given that I used to be part of a group that wrote gay BDSM stories, and it seemed to be almost entirely made up of women.

I still remember one incident from there, with a person who I co-wrote a few things with. We only knew each other on this group from screen names, but one time an off-topic "post a picture of yourself" thread came up, and both me and my co-author posted.

"Wow, you're a woman?" I responded to her picture.

"What!? You're a guy!?" She responded to mine.

[:D]



WestBay, XD ! Truly.

At one of the anime cons, late in the evening, after underage attendees are away, they have held a panel, which I believe is the most successful panel discussion of the weekend. I don't recall the euphemistic title of the event, but it is, in fact, about the love of all things male-male love.

Yes, there we all are, literally about 200 women and 5 guys, sharing how we first discovered our interest, what sort of material we like best, women whipping out hundreds of dollars worth of doujinshi, anime DVD's, and the like, editorializing on fanfiction and original fiction of the genre, on and on. Some of it's romantic, some of it's explicit, most of it includes a seme/uke component and an insistence upon some sort of emotional content, characters, and a story. Gay BDSM porn, for girls. It's a strange and subtle world, isn't it?




Ligeia72 -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 4:06:45 PM)


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ORIGINAL: WestBaySlave

I must say I get a laugh out of this thread, given that I used to be part of a group that wrote gay BDSM stories, and it seemed to be almost entirely made up of women.

I still remember one incident from there, with a person who I co-wrote a few things with. We only knew each other on this group from screen names, but one time an off-topic "post a picture of yourself" thread came up, and both me and my co-author posted.

"Wow, you're a woman?" I responded to her picture.

"What!? You're a guy!?" She responded to mine.

[:D]





Slightly Off Topic, but yes, I've had a very similar experience myself. I write Slash (Fan) Fiction based on a TV show called 'Moonlight'. The Fandom is primarily female, and when I first started posting/publishing my stuff to the different fan communities it confused the hell out of a lot of people. They had assumed I was a girl, and then they couldn't work out if I was actually a guy or not. I got a lot of messages along the lines of 'Umm, excuse me, are you male or female' or 'Wow, I thought you were a girl, are you really a guy?'

(just for the record, I'm female). [:)]




WestBaySlave -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (6/30/2010 6:09:16 PM)


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ORIGINAL: MadameMarque
WestBay, XD ! Truly.

At one of the anime cons, late in the evening, after underage attendees are away, they have held a panel, which I believe is the most successful panel discussion of the weekend. I don't recall the euphemistic title of the event, but it is, in fact, about the love of all things male-male love.

Yes, there we all are, literally about 200 women and 5 guys, sharing how we first discovered our interest, what sort of material we like best, women whipping out hundreds of dollars worth of doujinshi, anime DVD's, and the like, editorializing on fanfiction and original fiction of the genre, on and on. Some of it's romantic, some of it's explicit, most of it includes a seme/uke component and an insistence upon some sort of emotional content, characters, and a story. Gay BDSM porn, for girls. It's a strange and subtle world, isn't it?


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ORIGINAL: Ligeia72

Slightly Off Topic, but yes, I've had a very similar experience myself. I write Slash (Fan) Fiction based on a TV show called 'Moonlight'. The Fandom is primarily female, and when I first started posting/publishing my stuff to the different fan communities it confused the hell out of a lot of people. They had assumed I was a girl, and then they couldn't work out if I was actually a guy or not. I got a lot of messages along the lines of 'Umm, excuse me, are you male or female' or 'Wow, I thought you were a girl, are you really a guy?'

(just for the record, I'm female). [:)]


I love that both responses to my post mention fanfiction. I almost want to put my hands up and yell "busted!", because as it happens, it was a fanfiction group. ( And yeah, I'm pretty sure I might have been the only guy there. [:D] )

Though I'm straying a little off-topic, a woman who wrote gay BDSM fanfic on one of these groups actually became a close friend, and helped me through coming out of the closet and through my first steps into real time BDSM ( she was involved in a real-time hetrosexual D/s relationship herself ).

Women don't just consume gay porn, a few write some of the most kinky and imaginative gay BDSM-themed literature out there. MadameMarque's point about storyline, characters, and emotional content is something that I find makes a lot of female-written slashfic and erotica more appealing than the gay-guy equivalents for me ( which tend to be mostly bump and grind ).




BitaTruble -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 6:23:46 PM)


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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia


i am NOT. i just happen to notice just how may dumb people there are on here when such an easily fixable misspelling goes for so long without being corrected. must be from American schools' education system. they seem NOT to teach spelling in America any more.



Are you planning to correct the grammar, capitalization, punctuation and misspelling in your own post or would you like someone to take care of it for you?





bisub4play -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (6/30/2010 7:11:18 PM)

The Dommes I have served previously have required it as part of my service to Them.




gedienstig -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (7/1/2010 2:30:54 AM)

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ORIGINAL: mikeyOfGeorgia
i am NOT. i just happen to notice just how may dumb people there are on here when such an easily fixable misspelling goes for so long without being corrected. must be from American schools' education system. they seem NOT to teach spelling in America any more.


1. Not everyone on here is American

2. Some people use English as a second language (or in my case third language) and I don't think a spelling mistake or typo classifies someone as dumb.

3. Many is written with an "n", "anymore" in this context is in one word and "I" is usually capitalized, but maybe you're a slave and sometimes they prefer to not use a capital to describe themselves, so I'd understand that. [8|]

And 81song, thanks for making this topic, I always wondered whether this statement from the documentary was true, that women are also turned on by gay porn, and you helped me solve the question. [;)]




MissCake -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (7/1/2010 5:51:15 AM)

I love to watch two men fuck, but only if they both love to fuck each other.  I have no interest in watching forced, humiliating sex, no matter what kind of genitals are involved.




81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togEther? (7/1/2010 5:59:31 AM)

Interesting point WestBay Slave that women have a very different way of writing and energy whereas us males always want to go for the goal and in doing so might miss a lot. Maybe that is why I enjoy for now being a sub. 




Marini -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (7/1/2010 7:22:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: MissCake

I love to watch two men fuck, but only if they both love to fuck each other.  I have no interest in watching forced, humiliating sex, no matter what kind of genitals are involved.


This is how I feel also, I may "force" you to do many things, but I will never force any type of sexual contact.
It just does nothing for me.

I also refuse to cater to the millions of men on-line, begging for me to force them into bisexual activity.

Did I say millions?
Ladies is it millions or BILLIONS on here begging for it?

 
Now, if they both want to have at each other?
I will enjoy watching them, a lot.

[;)]




81song -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (7/1/2010 10:05:12 AM)

Wow, I never knew it was millions so maybe at the end of the day we re all in this world bi? For myself I see love to watch women and if I see a Domme in real at times and I do not know why I just melt. 




ReginaMirus -> RE: Do Dommes enjoy watching two men togather? (7/1/2010 10:58:08 AM)


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ORIGINAL: 81song

Wow, I never knew it was millions so maybe at the end of the day we re all in this world bi? For myself I see love to watch women and if I see a Domme in real at times and I do not know why I just melt. 


That's funny. [:D] And how do you generally recognize said Dommes in real public? Is the leather corset, fishnet stockings and thigh high stiletto boots strutting down in the middle of the mall a dead giveaway?

[;)]




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