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AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: friendship.. (7/1/2010 6:42:20 AM)
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
First off i am not looking for just friends or only friends.. Just thought it would be nice to add that part of my experaince here..
Ahhhh but your Post implies that you are not getting enough people who are only interested in being friends, and you were wondering why, I suggest you read your profile because on the other side that is the foot you put forward. I basically walked up to you and before I got to say anything to you, I got to see you deepthroat a cock, Talk about being a Nympho, tell me you need to orgasm 12 times a day and then tell me this really hot fantasy from your journal. All this before I ever even got to say "Hi, Nice to meet you.
You need to see your Profile as how you say hello to all of CollarMe, just like your first post is often how you will say hello to Most of CollarChat which is here, Your and even in your first post here you suggested that I spank you if you posted in the wrong place. Hun the reason you have a problem making friends is because it doesn't really look like you are wanting friends it looks like you are a Horny Nympo seeking someone to fulfil your Orgasmic Needs.
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
Secondly and perhaps because it is my profile and im starting to feel a wee bit attacked about it .. but then again i did ask for it..
No you really didn't ask me to view and then critique you on your Profile and Journal, however you should be aware that things like this are how some people operate here. I never saw your profile until you posted about being friends. Before I posted back to this thread I took a look at your profile, mind you the way I saw you AFTER I looked at your profile, I have to admit, I was arroused, and intrigued, and NOT wanting to get to know you as JUST A FRIEND, I was wanting to get to know the Nympho of wants to deepthroat my cock (Much easier to do on me than that guy apparently, but I'm less Wokkieish) My View of you changed completely from the view of your profile. Now Personally I can look beyond the sexuality and go "Yeah she'e too far away, and well I can't make just one woman orgasm 12 times a day, let alone two women... even if I Hydrate, so lets go the friend angle." but my ability to do that is not always typical of Males on this site, and you should know there are also a LOT of Catty Bitches here, some of them will feel threatened by your overt sexuality and see your profile and instead do nothing but talk about what a whore you are. Like I said those are just the Catty Bitches.
There are lots of people here who JUST want to be friends.... TRUST ME ON THIS, I'M POLY LOOKING FOR A PARTNER, There are TONS of women who JUST WANT TO BE FRIENDS... So maybe try looking on the Poly Forum... I found LOTS of friends there.
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
Why is it i should change my profile in order to make friendships?
Because just like with any friendship the foot you put forward is what attracts them to you, The foot you put forward is that as a friend you will often be Throating a Dude, Orgasming, or on some erotic fantasy.... how is a friend going to compete with that kinda life when all I do is maybe watch a Second Episode of Supernatural and make Rice Crispy Treats? I would feel that friendship was way unbalanced.
Truth be told the Internet isn't always the best place to make friends. Personally I make the majority of my friends in person... face to face, I do this because at the end of the day, I want a friend to be able to be there for me, and that isn't always possible when all the can muster is 0's and 1's.
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
why shouldl i stop being who i am in order to attract a friend?
Well this one I am going to have to question. Because the foot you put forward in your profile is that you are a Nympho that likes to Deep Throat, and wants to life in a Fantasy. SO far I don't know anything about who you are. I know what gets you HOT. Your Profile that foot you put forward to me basically says all YOU are is a walking wet dream for an erection. Not Much else Beyond that.
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
is my profile solely based in eroticsm? in some ways yes but its based on the person i am.
And here is where your problem is. I am not looking to be erotic with my friends... That is why they are friends. I don't fuck them (Although I have), I don't want them Blowing Me (Although they have) I don't want my attraction to them to outweight my frienship with the (Althought it has happened)
(It should be known that in all these cases it RUINED the firendship, so I try to draw a thicker line today)
The point is, I got to admit, your profile makes me ATTRACTED to you, and because of this I really don't just wanna be your friend, I wanna be your Wookie.
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
But thank you everyone for you input and i did take some advice and remove my pics..
Removing all your pics will certainly stop you getting the millions of messages from Horny Guys all 1,000,000 posts of "Wow the way you suck cock is HOT" but it also makes you (IN MY OPINION) no longer genuine. I don't personally want to be friends with someone cannot see.
Some of you who have perved my profile and know all you get is the Wal-Mart Smilie Face, will be scratching your head, Personally I'm not here to make friends. I'm here to Make Blunt and at times asshole like comments and then defend them as they get attacked.
QSM
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