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LafayetteLady -> RE: friendship.. (7/1/2010 10:33:52 AM)
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
First off i am not looking for just friends or only friends.. Just thought it would be nice to add that part of my experaince here..
Secondly and perhaps because it is my profile and im starting to feel a wee bit attacked about it .. but then again i did ask for it.. Why is it i should change my profile in order to make friendships? why shouldl i stop being who i am in order to attract a friend? is my profile solely based in eroticsm? in some ways yes but its based on the person i am. But thank you everyone for you input and i did take some advice and remove my pics..
I didn't suggest you change your profile in order to make friends. I read your profile, including what you are looking for in a partner. What I suggested is that the kind of man you are looking for isn't going to read your profile and think "Wow, I want to be in a relationship with this woman!" but rather would think "Yea, I wanna tap that" in the no strings approach, she's a nympho so she won't really care kind of attitude.
I'm not a catty bitch, I don't "compete" with my friends and my statements about your profile are made soley based on the fact that when I read it, it appeared to me that you also weren't attracting the kind of guy you want either and gave you a suggestion as to why.
There is a time and place for everything. Do you talk about your need for 12 orgasms a day or love of erotica at a job interview? I certainly hope not. So I simply pointed out that perhaps not making announcement about that part of who you are in your profile (the first impression people are going to get of you) might assist in attracting the type of guy who is going to want to get to know YOU as a person, and then become ridiculously happy to find that side of you is part of the package.
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ORIGINAL: loveydovey
Just because.. He was 9inches long 6 inches around and completely hard at the time..
But yeah its just a fetish not that big of a deal....
Honestly? I don't care what size the guy was, nor do I care or become impressed with deep throating, but then hey, I'm a female and what other females do doesn't hold much interest for me.
But I will say that your "just because" is because you seem to have this need to impress people with your skills. I made a statement that we had no way of knowing what it was in your mouth (as in size). But you need to jump right in with an "Oh it was "this" huge I just have to tell you" statement.
So here is a thought. The average man isn't 9 inches long and 6 inches around. Has it occured to you that they might think you are a bit of a size queen and would find them lacking for not measuring up?
Look, you made a post asking about why you aren't making friends. A lot of people here will read your profile and journal posts to find out something about you before answering. That's a good thing. But you have to be grown up enough to accept that they are going to tell you what their "first impression" of you is based on that profile (coupled with your question). Even in subsequent posts, while you continue to not understand why you aren't making friends, you feel a need to make everything be sexual, needing to boast about the size cock you like to deep throat, trying to get into QSM's "spank bank," and several other sexual statements.
Are you truly looking to make friends? Or are you posting on the boards in an effort to change your "marketing plan" and see if you can't get more people to write to you and talk about sex and erotica with you? Seems a lot more like the latter to me.
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