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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 3:04:54 PM   
LafayetteLady


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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 3:10:36 PM   
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One of them took the time to read everything and give you the right advice, so I'd recommend thanking Aileen and just rereading her post a few times
Dude...if you agree with Aileens post, by all means, say that... but do you have the intelligence to do so without insulting all other posters?




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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 3:31:39 PM   
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One of them took the time to read everything and give you the right advice, so I'd recommend thanking Aileen and just rereading her post a few times
Dude...if you agree with Aileens post, by all means, say that... but do you have the intelligence to do so without insulting all other posters?






I know, huh?!


Like we're chopped liver, or something.

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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:00:31 PM   
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ORIGINAL: VAcontroldom

OP I think you were right in post 73 about there being smart people here. One of them took the time to read everything and give you the right advice, so I'd recommend thanking Aileen and just rereading her post a few times. Best wishes


Hello Virginia,
Perhaps you did not notice that many of us read all 3 threads about this. While it is true that Aileen is spot on, I don't believe she is saying much more than the rest of us. Is there something you saw in her post that jumped out that wasn't clear in the other posts?

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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:13:36 PM   
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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:17:20 PM   
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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:18:37 PM   
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Cuntier Too.

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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:21:50 PM   
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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:44:22 PM   
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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 4:46:31 PM   
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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 6:42:18 PM   
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No chopped liver implied and I never said anyone else didn't read it or give good advice, I said one person did. No offense intended

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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 6:52:44 PM   
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Hi
No chopped liver implied and I never said anyone else didn't read it or give good advice, I said one person did.
you need a back-hoe or are you just gonna keep digging that hole on your own?


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RE: thanks - 7/4/2010 8:58:19 PM   
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I don't believe she is saying much more than the rest of us.


I just give the Cliffnotes version....

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RE: thanks - 7/5/2010 1:19:54 AM   
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RE: thanks - 7/5/2010 2:25:36 AM   
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but i cant quit these crying jags.
i know ill be fine but ouch it really really hurts.

whats worse is its my fault.

i pushed til he snapped
its all my fault




I haven't read all of your threads, but what I have seen suggests to me that you are better off without him and that no, it is not all your fault.

Doesn't mean you shouldn't be hurting and crying about it though.  It certainly sounded like an intense relationship and it is natural for it to be very painful that it is over.

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RE: thanks - 7/5/2010 2:32:41 AM   
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I am sure you have heard it said, there are three sides to every story, his - hers and the truth, which lays somewhere in the middle


i wish He'd put in His 2 cents....im ok with elizabeth anne.....i do take alot of responsibility in the failure.

obedience will be something i have to work on before next trip out. however i have been a self supporting independent for 20 years.old habits die hard.
i am a bedroom submissive.....and outside too(just a tad)....but slavery kicked it up a notch. His former lady couldn't deal with it either.

but like sunshine said in previous post....i cant learn squat from osmosis.
there has to be training in the flesh....imho
i can read all the links in the world....unless i am doing it ....im not  doing it.

no change   =  no change



Bolded part suggests to me that the problem is not with you (or the former lady)

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RE: thanks - 7/5/2010 2:40:39 AM   
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Status: offline 		I don't know if Aileen's suggestion is quite the right one, but then I have never really been opposed to rebound relationships, so long as people realize that can be a serious challenge to the longevity of the relationship.

I think you definitely want someone to take control of you, as Aileen pointed out the fact you can't pick your own nickname is a strong indicator, however you need someone with your interests at heart.  I'd say stay as far away from Goreans as possible (shit, did I just agree with Domiguy?  yeah, he made a good point) And do find someone who wants you, for you (that'd be blushes advice, I'm a bit more comfortable agreeing with her)  Also make sure that what they want and need from you is something you can give.  Hard to do when you desparately want to please and to be controlled, but hopefully that's the lesson you get from this whole mess.  If someone is treating your needs as something that must be earned then they aren't the right person for you. 

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RE: thanks - 7/9/2010 7:50:44 AM   
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*trust me*...it is *not* you.

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RE: thanks - 7/9/2010 1:31:45 PM   
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Status: offline 		i was this guys former who "couldn't take it" and that is complete crap. *i* dumped *him* (3 times) because he is not man enough for me.

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RE: thanks - 7/9/2010 3:55:45 PM   
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i was this guys former who "couldn't take it" and that is complete crap. *i* dumped *him* (3 times) because he is not man enough for me.


huh?


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