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subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 7:14:47 PM   
masterulrich


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Status: offline 		I got a couple woman who want to be slaves. I suggested we start online to evaluate there talents, give me a chance to know them better & So they can decide if this is what they realy want. Before you ask these woman dont know each other & not bi.

I'm seeking advice on how to proceed with there training. The idea is to work them up to a point in a couple weeks where we'd be meeting in real life if everything works out. I know one girl very well as see is an ex girlfriend. The other I dont know as well, but is a friend of a friend.
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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 7:23:41 PM   
theRose4U


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Status: offline 		Well your first step would be to have educated yourself as a Dom. Knowing your own requirements, standards and protocols. Coming on the net and asking everyone else how to make your rag-tag 3 some magically blessed as kinky is begging for trouble from the rafters.

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 7:31:37 PM   
MistressDiane


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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterulrich

I got a couple woman who want to be slaves. I suggested we start online to evaluate there talents, give me a chance to know them better & So they can decide if this is what they realy want. Before you ask these woman dont know each other & not bi.

I'm seeking advice on how to proceed with there training. The idea is to work them up to a point in a couple weeks where we'd be meeting in real life if everything works out. I know one girl very well as see is an ex girlfriend. The other I dont know as well, but is a friend of a friend.



...........ummmm....I ain't gonna say it.

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 7:52:17 PM   
Kinkypupper


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Status: offline 		OH go on "SAY IT"  :-)

but to the topic and question. First off meet them both for dinner at a public place at the same time. introduce them to each other and explain what YOU would like to do and how do they feel about it. Also remind them that as a "SLAVE" they are giving up all their privelages ( no i did not say rights ) and that they are willing and eager to do what YOU feel is best for them, and you. And that you have plans on becoming a happy threesome. or heck if you want the same reaction tell them both that they will become whores for you and you expect them both to bring in $500. a night and give it to you.
Please note I said a public place as when the BOTH turn on you you have the ability to run. (there is a small chance that they will accept it if so then Great.But I wil not bet money on it).

Yes such a relationship is possable and they do exist I am in a Master-slave relationship  she has near complete trust in me that I will not harm her or require her to do something that could harm her also that the trust level is complete with both of us. 
For you to even consider starting a relationship as you propose by hiding one from the other is WRONG.  You must give total honesty and trust to earn it.

Get involved with your local bdsm scene find out where the local "MAST" group meets and go there, ASK questions,do some reading on some web sites that are fairly truthful. Educate yourself and when the time is right it will happen if it is ment to.
Phil



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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 8:02:44 PM   
Focus50


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Status: offline 		Train them to do what?
 
You're gonna find it very difficult to train any sub/slave to serve your needs when you apparently have no idea what *your needs* are....  If you're unable to lead, don't be surprised if no-one's following.  Good luck with that!
 
I've owned slaves but I never had to train them on how to meet - we sorta went with the like-minded, mature adults with common goals method....
 
Focus.

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 8:56:46 PM   
Arpig


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Status: offline 		If you had no idea how to proceed with their online training, then why in God's name did you suggest it?

You are supposed to be the master and they the slaves...so presumably they are expecting you to have at lleast a vague idea as to what it is you want......I am afraid they are likely to be sadly disappointed.

However, on the bright side, you are in the running for the prestigious HNG of the Week award.

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:02:26 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		Let me get this straight, you need the chance to evaluate and get to know someone better over the net who is an ex girlfriend?  If you are this clueless with someone who you would claim was a former girlfriend it is no wonder she is an "ex".  Don't understand the "I know her very well statement", I can't reconcile that with the part about getting to know one another.

The friend of a friend, should bitch slap the friend who introduced you two.

So which are you a fool or an idiot?

K

edited to add

     Arpig, I think he might just be the leader for the award, and what would the trophy be for a busted ego?



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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:06:49 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		At the risk of qualifying for the award, what does HNG mean?

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:17:12 PM   
akisha


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Arpig.... how many awards to You give out a week? so far i've seem some interesting ones mentioned *grins* just want to be sure i never qualify for any of the bad ones. *giggles*

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:28:36 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Thanks, akisha!

So by asking what it meant, I did not qualify myself.  Whew!

Yours,


benji

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:33:24 PM   
akisha


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Status: offline 		my pleasure benji

i always like when i can actually answer the hard questions  "wipes the beads if sweat from my brow"

*grins and dances away giggling*


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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:45:26 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Listen, akisha, I could ask you harder questions, but I thought I'd start off easy, warm you up.....

Glad I could make you smile though...  lol!

Yours,


benji

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:53:09 PM   
PlayfulOne


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K

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 9:55:44 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Playfulone,

What's your spread?  It could be a way for me to make a HUGE amount of money by betting he will....

Yours,


benji

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 10:02:35 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		lol Benji,  after reading these responses I dn't think he has the balls, cause if he hadem he wouldn't be sitting at a computer screen scratching his head about what to do with two slaves

K

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 10:06:29 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Chances are slim, I will agree....  But I'd love to wager a buck and get back 100....  Especially because we'll never know the answer until he does (you can't prove a negative)

Yours,


benji

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 10:11:27 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		lol,   I would say $10 to get you $20  and I think its slimer than slim

K

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 10:15:18 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		If it's that slim, why aren't you taking a risk on it?  It should be fair, no?

Besides, I don't gamble anyway....  and I just checked, no profile.  Alright, bets are off.

Yours,


benji

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 10:18:01 PM   
PlayfulOne


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Status: offline 		lol benji,  and I don't think this post wil last much longer before it gets pulled

K

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RE: subs or slaves online - 4/15/2006 10:26:30 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Status: offline 		Awww..  and I was having so much fun with it!

I'm gonna jump ship before it sinks.  Bye, masterulrich!  Please come back and help me win the bet!

Yours,


benji

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