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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/12/2010 9:52:20 PM   
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Nothing consentual in BDSM is wrong unless it leads to or promotes dysfunction in your life, or the life of your partner.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/12/2010 10:17:58 PM   
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I have to agree, I dont see the messed up part. I'm rather disappointed when a spanking doesn't net me some bruises

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/12/2010 10:30:13 PM   
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This just reminds me of my neighbor a few years ago. Lived in a cute apt with thin walls. The neighbor is spanking his girl. I have to admit every spank is turning me on more. Til a knock at his door. It's the little old lady about 3 days from her 100th birthday freaking out on him for beating his girl! She calls the cops. At this point with cops involved (mmmm love em) I'm even more turned on. They were ready to arrest the poor guy. I stepped out and explained to the officer that this was consensual spanking going on and not abuse. I felt so bad for the couple, yet so turned on! All ended up ok and my neighbor and I always shared a smirk when passing in the hallway.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/12/2010 11:27:09 PM   
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ORIGINAL: LanceHughes

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ORIGINAL: alatheia
As long as its consensual, its good in my book.

It may be good in your book, but watch out for criminal (not civil) prosecution on 2nd degree assault which is a felony in most jurisdictions!  3rd degree = NO intent to harm.  2nd degree = intent to harm.

Consent is not a defense.

Criminal prosecution is when police say it's intent to harm, and off you go!

Just be wary.

<edited for gooder grammer and speling.> 


Not exactly the case lance.

Consent of the victim is a valid defense in both certain assaults and batteries. It isn't infallible, but courts are much more likely to recognize the defense when:

i) the criminal act did not result in serious bodily injury;
ii) there is widespread acceptance of the risk; and
iii) there is a distinct beneficial effect attending the defendant's conduct (this would most typically be applied to medical surgery or something of the physical nature).

so, its possible that you could face criminal prosecution as a result of d/s consensual play, but it would likely have to involve a very serious injury (permanent disability or death).


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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/13/2010 7:51:24 AM   
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If it's consensual, neither.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/13/2010 8:06:22 AM   
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Goooly... is this there one of 'em trick questions? I'm going back to watching the Annoying Orange. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H6IeASZZf1c

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/13/2010 5:11:39 PM   
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When it's consensual, isn't it the fact that they both enjoy it and sharing that secret shame what makes it so exciting/bonding? .  

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/13/2010 5:24:50 PM   
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Her...for earning the spanking that left her black and blue.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 3:15:49 PM   
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What about the black and blue part? Isn't that a bit far, given that its consenual?

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 3:19:24 PM   
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What about the black and blue part? Isn't that a bit far, given that its consenual?


No, its not to far UNLESS I say to stop or use a safe word and he refuses to stop. Even if he leaves my ass welted and purple as long as I give my conscent and don't take it back at any point its still conscentual and still nothing wrong with it.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 3:22:41 PM   
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Her...for earning the spanking that left her black and blue.



Sometimes spankings are not given as punishment but as funishment. Infact there are some like myself who never recieve a spankings as punishments.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 3:24:28 PM   
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What about the black and blue part? Isn't that a bit far, given that its consenual?



sighs.....these threads are really getting old.

Try if you can to judge your own relationships by your standards and not others.

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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 4:48:38 PM   
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How many times do I have to tell you that there is room in our bed.... It's a Euro King.

Just get down here and you can have all the Mr. & Mrs. Right you want.

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I'm sorry, QSM, thanks for the offer, but you are not the one!  Though I'll remain flattered.


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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 4:49:44 PM   
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What about the black and blue part? Isn't that a bit far, given that its consenual?


If I had fun getting there, then what difference does it make?


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RE: Spankings and beatings - 7/14/2010 4:51:23 PM   
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What about the black and blue part? Isn't that a bit far, given that its consenual?



Oh fuck, yet another one.

NO, it is not to far.

Do yourself a favor and go and join e-harmony

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