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Jeffff -> Huh? (7/13/2010 10:19:33 AM)

On a current thread I just learned drooling is gross. On another thread I learned anal sex is a hard limit. On yet another some folks are being chastised for not falling in love before they play.

We have had some posters here lately who thing beating a person is a BAD BAD thing.

And of course, we must remember to treat even the stupidest newbies with respect.

When did this place turn into Castle Realm?




laurell3 -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:20:48 AM)

lol.....god I love you..............




mnottertail -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:22:32 AM)

Makes a feller wanna give up all this fuckin and suckin and slapping the gash around....it is getting to be where I dont even feel like shitting down a womans throat anymore.




AQuietSimpleMan -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:24:22 AM)

I have an opinion on this...... but due to a desire to not be moderated I will keep it to myself.

In a LESS controvercial light I will say this.

The EASIER Softer way, has become the baseline for so many.

There is far too many people espouting things that weaken the Master/slave Dynamic in my mind... and the Newbies are coming in droves and then getting told it's okay to be ignorant of the history of the lifestyle you are trying to engage in.

Personally most of the time I just shake my head and wonder where they got the ideas they got..... then I realize they just made them up.

QSM




myotherself -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:24:39 AM)

oh get a room you two!!!! [:D][:D][:D]

I'm just looking forward to college and school getting out for the summer over the next few weeks. [:'(]




Jeffff -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:25:23 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: laurell3

lol.....god I love you..............



Course you do!   [:D]




Jeffff -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:32:35 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Makes a feller wanna give up all this fuckin and suckin and slapping the gash around....it is getting to be where I dont even feel like shitting down a womans throat anymore.



Sighsssss..... tell me about it.




Aileen1968 -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:43:05 AM)

Sure...slap a little ass for a weekend and you think you know it all.
BTW...I agree completely with you.

One of my biggest turn ons in all of this is not having control or setting any rules for him.
I get off on knowing that anything he wants to do to me will be done.
He may have to tie me down for somethings so that I don't hit him or try to get away.
If I put up a fight over something and he said "oh ok..we won't do that" then I think I'd look at him differently and the relationship would suffer if not end.
He's at his most primal when he does the most dirty and sadistic things he can.
Nothing in life has come close to turning me on like it does when I see that look in his eyes at those moments.






pahunkboy -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:43:10 AM)

Jefff has nice legs!!!




laurell3 -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:43:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

Makes a feller wanna give up all this fuckin and suckin and slapping the gash around....it isĀ getting to be where I dont even feel like shitting down a womans throat anymore.


Remember when the boards were full of breaking the slave D types and no limits s types? It's so odd to read this stuff and think man I really am out there now........


I should clarify, there is nothing wrong with the easier softer way if it's your thing. It's just odd that it's become so common compared to what I am used to here.

and well said Aileen I agree totally.




LaTigresse -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:48:42 AM)

Ward, that's cuz the X, Y, Z, whatever the hell generation it is, is a bunch of gutless, politically correct, pussies.

That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

June




pahunkboy -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 10:53:43 AM)

He perks up when he sees me.

His eyes twinkle.  He gets a big grin.


He sighs with relaxation at the thought---

even now- he has a guilty grin on his cute face!!


stomp




Jeffff -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:05:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

Ward, that's cuz the X, Y, Z, whatever the hell generation it is, is a bunch of gutless, politically correct, pussies.

That's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.

June




June. you will be mine!




pahunkboy -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:09:00 AM)

This is not June



It is July.




VirginPotty -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:09:19 AM)

My sentiments exactly, Jeffff!
So much so that I created a thread awhile back asking "Has BDSM become soft" after reading some ridiculously "soft" things that were done all in the name of BDSM.

Aileen, you're my hero & I'm going to emmulate you the best that I can [:D]




Jeffff -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:12:00 AM)

Tonight, to honor us all, I promise you that DG and I will refer to chicagosub4u as a worthless cunt all night long!




Lockit -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:14:15 AM)

Damn, you all are going to make me go to eharmony aren't you?




LadyPact -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:16:33 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

I have an opinion on this...... but due to a desire to not be moderated I will keep it to myself.

In a LESS controvercial light I will say this.

The EASIER Softer way, has become the baseline for so many.

There is far too many people espouting things that weaken the Master/slave Dynamic in my mind... and the Newbies are coming in droves and then getting told it's okay to be ignorant of the history of the lifestyle you are trying to engage in.

Personally most of the time I just shake my head and wonder where they got the ideas they got..... then I realize they just made them up.

QSM

Thank you for saving Me keystrokes. 






CalifChick -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:18:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

In a LESS controvercial light I will say this.

There is far too many people espouting things that weaken the Master/slave Dynamic in my mind... and the Newbies are coming in droves and then getting told it's okay to be ignorant of the history of the lifestyle you are trying to engage in.



I wonder if new lesbians are allowed to be ignorant of the history of their lifestyle... wait... IS there a history of the lifestyle of lesbianism?  I guess I could ask the same of BDSM... IS there a history of the lifestyle?

I just thought it was people doing what people liked to do, as people have been doing for centuries.

Cali





marie2 -> RE: Huh? (7/13/2010 11:36:25 AM)


quote:

ORIGINAL: AQuietSimpleMan

I have an opinion on this...... but due to a desire to not be moderated I will keep it to myself.

In a LESS controvercial light I will say this.

The EASIER Softer way, has become the baseline for so many.

There is far too many people espouting things that weaken the Master/slave Dynamic in my mind... and the Newbies are coming in droves and then getting told it's okay to be ignorant of the history of the lifestyle you are trying to engage in.

Personally most of the time I just shake my head and wonder where they got the ideas they got..... then I realize they just made them up.

QSM



Where else should they get their ideas? Who cares about the "history" of ms relationships? Does such a thing even exist? Shouldn't it be about finding whatever dynamic works for the individuals involved? Or should they be concerned with passing some invisble bar of "legitimate bdsm" that doesn't even exist. See, this is the attitude that causes clueless newbies to come out here and feel like they're not "fitting in" with the lables and all that other crap. Do i have to be x y and z to consider myself a submissive?. Is it right that my master expects me to do a b and c, and I don't want to?

What answers do they get? Um have you checked your common sense at the door? If it feels wrong to you, then it's wrong. Bdsm doesn't mean you give up your own preferences, you just need to find someone compatible

Then when they share stuff, we judge them as too soft too hard, too stupid, or simply not bdsm enough.


Who cares if drool is gross to someone? Getting shit on is gross to a lot of people, yet we find that acceptable, but the person who doesn't want drool running down their body is soft. And maybe the person who loves anal sex fears needles and vice versa. Who's the soft one? The wrong one? The pussy?

Sorry to be the odd man out you guys, but this is just looking like another "one true way" bitch and moan session all around.




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