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Aneirin -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 4:46:02 PM)

Alpha to me suggests arrogant asshole who thinks the sun shines out of him, but in reality he is a dinosaur just short of extinction. The old ways suck, welcome the new ways and see the freedom for all in it and with this continue the education worldwide where prehistory still lingers. Anyone that ascribes to a situatiuon where one is a dominant sex has no business sying anything about the problems seen in other cultures.The world moves forward and onward dinosaurs will become extinct and herald the age of yet more dinosaurs to be lined up for the chop.



GambitLeBeau -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 4:52:52 PM)

Even in a vanilla relationship, I would be appalled to be with a woman who I didn't respect. The scenario that seems to have been put out here seems like a relic from the days when women were second class citizens, purely because males are physically stronger.

We're in a world defined by intelligence and other attributes, not physical prowess, and there is NO reason why women should not be seen as, treated as and respected as equals.

Sure, you can judge people and lose respect for them for being weak willed- but that should be applied to women too- if you're acting like your opinion is worth less because of your gender, then you instantly lose respect.



laurell3 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:06:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: TheRaptorJesus

Some of what you said happened when we got out of the 1950's and stopped pretending men and women weren't equal.

Edit to add: It may be hard for you to comprehend considering you're a submissive (or slut, implied by your name I suppose) who wants/has a "daddy", but not everyone has the same slew of daddy issues or beliefs that you may possess. Some people think that the measure of a person's character is through their heart and mind, not what dangles of moistens in their pants.

You know.. real reasons.



Agreed. I'm not sure gender is the issue here at all. PEOPLE that openly insult others or define themselves by others have issues. People that see things in terms of gender also have issues imo, especially when it comes to insisting on inequality or expecting living stereotypes. Our worth as human beings is defined by what we do and how we conduct ourselves, not our genitalia. And I'm sorry to be the one to inform you, but I think men (not all of course) have been led around by their cocks since the beginning of time. I do agree, however, the the posts we see that advance manipulating anyone on that basis do not come from people that have a healthy vision of relationships and communication.

I think it's also very true that there's alot of total bullshit expressed on these forums that doesn't really portray anything remotely like what real life is. I wouldn't take most of what is written here to heart.



rulemylife -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:11:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut


So when did I enter the era where a man puts himself on the same level as a woman? I want a man who expects me to act like his woman, not his equal, not his boss but his WOMAN.

I know personally I refuse to deal with pussified men on any real basis. I want a man who defines himself, not one who is defined by me.

No weak ass pussified men for me... i want a MAN. I want an alpha male. I want to be able to be the woman in the relationship, after all if I wanted a pussy why wouldn't I simply be with another woman. After all I am bisexual.



You entered it when you decided to display both your arrogance and ignorance at the same time.





Politesub53 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:21:29 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DaddysInkedSlut


No weak ass pussified men for me... i want a MAN. I want an alpha male.


Where to start with your OP. It was a mass of generalisations on so many levels. What makes you think man who enjoys being submissive to a female, cant be alpha amongst other men. What makes you think being PC or not calling your woman a bitch is "pussified".  Come to that, how does calling a woman a bitch make someone manly. I used to work on tower cranes, before I needed a knee replacement. I knew some very tough guys who didnt have the balls to work where I did in summer, let alone on a cold and wet winters day. Did that make them pussified, somehow I doubt it. It just meant we were different guys.

I just find it sad that others in the lifestyle belittle people with differing tastes.



KyttynTheMynx -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:24:51 PM)


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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

I just find it sad that others in the lifestyle belittle people with differing tastes.


I found quite a lot of that in this thread.

Whatever happened to one's opinion was just that...an opinion? If she feels that way fine. No skin off my back. I know who and what I like. That OP wont affect it.



pahunkboy -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:26:09 PM)

I dont take it as "sad".     Maybe the posts could- a few be more expressive.



Politesub53 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:33:59 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx


quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

I just find it sad that others in the lifestyle belittle people with differing tastes.


I found quite a lot of that in this thread.

Whatever happened to one's opinion was just that...an opinion? If she feels that way fine. No skin off my back. I know who and what I like. That OP wont affect it.


I am fine with anyone having an opinion, I was just addressing some of the assumptions in the OP.



DaddysInkedSlut -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:36:01 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

quote:

ORIGINAL: KyttynTheMynx


quote:

ORIGINAL: Politesub53

I just find it sad that others in the lifestyle belittle people with differing tastes.


I found quite a lot of that in this thread.

Whatever happened to one's opinion was just that...an opinion? If she feels that way fine. No skin off my back. I know who and what I like. That OP wont affect it.


I am fine with anyone having an opinion, I was just addressing some of the assumptions in the OP.



What assumptions did I make?

I stated MY frustation.
I stated My observations.
I stated MY opinion.

I asked questions.



Politesub53 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:41:03 PM)

We will have to differ then. You see them as observations, I see them as assumptions.

No malice intended on my part I am just responding to your OP as "I" read it.



gungadin09 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:47:03 PM)

You assumed that people on this site are openminded. You assumed they could hear an opinion that was different than their own without simply becoming defensive and reacting off of emotion. Not an entirely safe assumption to make, i think.

pam



Politesub53 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:51:38 PM)

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ORIGINAL: gungadin09

You assumed that people on this site are openminded. You assumed they could hear an opinion that was different than their own without simply becoming defensive and reacting off of emotion. Not an entirely safe assumption to make, i think.

pam


Agree, but then thats the nature of web forums. For myself, I react to what I read. I also agree about being defensive.



gungadin09 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:53:16 PM)

i wasn't directing that towards anyone in particular. Just saying.

pam



Politesub53 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:54:11 PM)

I didnt think you was. It was both an agreement an admission on my part.



Aynne88 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:55:24 PM)


That is the saddest thing I have ever read, do you really think that women are not equal to men? I find it "pussified" when men are so fucking intimidated by smart strong women that they can't admit they are equal to women. I can submit to a man, but never ever for one hot minute do I think that I am not equal to them, and I find it gross that women seek validation by thinking they are less than or not equal to men. Don't you understand that we can be different but equal?





Politesub53 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:57:11 PM)

Different but equal.........I think I love you. [8D]



JstAnotherSub -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:58:11 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Aynne88

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Don't you understand that we can be different but equal?




that...



Aynne88 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 5:58:34 PM)

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ORIGINAL: DomImus

A quick show of hands... how many women want to live in the same situation that the OP describes?

Just curious.



Not this one.



Aynne88 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 6:00:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Politesub53

Different but equal.........I think I love you. [8D]


I love you too[;)]. Seriously such anger....not necessary. Men are wonderful and so are women, we need to realize that the things that make us different are what make us attracted to each other. This labeling shit like "pussified" is just ugly. No thanks...



Aynne88 -> RE: Rant of sorts....pussified men (7/18/2010 6:03:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: JstAnotherSub

quote:

ORIGINAL: Aynne88

snip

Don't you understand that we can be different but equal?




that...


Thanks honey...[:)].



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