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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/29/2010 7:53:57 PM

CynthiaWVirginia

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ORIGINAL: PeonForHer

Third time lucky . . . .

Oooooh, that is sweet. Gives something to comment on if looked at closely. A guy could even tell a vanilla woman who asks that it is there to remind him to put women first.

Nicely done.

I was just wondering...with his bracelet giving a clue if he is INTO providing service if feet or shoes or boots are involved. Maybe a smile or head tilt to seal the deal that he is willing to serve.

We do not have enough servants in stores here, I don't know how it is in the UK. A sub who gets a kick out of shoes might lurk near a shoe store. If I am without male company around (son and friend are well trained already, lol), then someone who will assist by getting the correct size, or possible sizes, from sometimes the very top of a stack, or to get down on his knees to see ones stacked on the floor...mmm. There to put on shoes, take them off, put rejected ones away, to be there for balance if needed, opinions only if asked for, to hold my selection(s) until I paid and left and...follow behind me until I held out my hand for my bag...this would be enjoyable.

Service while clothes shopping...having a regular employee to put rejected things away isn't very helpful if one...wants a different size or color and is in the dressing room.

When I was shopping today at Sams, I made a comment to her about it's too bad I hadn't brought any male with me and I would rather one of them putting my stuff on the conveyer belt.

When I was young, shoe stores had men...that catered to customers and served. Some of my fondest memories were of having them kneel, remove my shoe, offer a shoulder as I stood and waited to have my foot measured. He would thoroughly assist in finding shoes, even if there were dozens of possibilities, and kneeling or sitting on a low stool to put each possibility on...as well as using his thumb to check the fit and maybe offer something more suitable. Those were the days...

We had a supermarket that was family owned and finally shut down after the floods, but they had well mannered boys there who addressed customers as Sir and Ma'am and behaved as good servants. They would also take the groceries to someone's car, either by pushing the cart or by carrying the load, then they would put everything away into the trunk and...just smile and leave. Some of these "boys" were in their 40's and I wonder at how fervently some got into their role. None of the other grocery stores do that now...and if one did then I would take my business there because I enjoy service with a good attitude.

Not like at some places, where politeness is delivered in a robotic and often impolite way. For example, as when McDonald's has an employee do suggestive sales..."Ma'am, would you like to try our extraspecialBiggerSized blahblahblahThankyouNowPayUpandgoaway." <screeches of speakers, sirens shrieking, cold dried out fries and oops, forgot ketchup, wrong soda, no straws but a pound of napkins and salt, and PICKLES AND ONIONS when specifically a catsup only cheeseburger was required for passenger> We get lots of lovely service, as some beaurocrats at corporate offices can prove with their paperwork.

I still have my memories though, and D/s. I know someone around me WILL do windows... <winks>

Now where are the male subs who might be willing to get wet to provide service? My minivan needs washing...

<looks for a wet sponge icon on a bracelet, lol>

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/29/2010 8:12:50 PM

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This is just me thinking out loud...and what makes y'all think I already bought a bunch of seed beads and something to weave bracelets on, huh huh huh?

It seems you have given this a great deal of thought. Fantastic ideas!
So just when will they be available for purchase?

I enjoy making things for my own use, and am more likely to give something away than sell it.

This is part of the reason I gave up oil painting and art.

I love it when others share ideas...and I am still grateful to someone sharing information with me a few years back in a thread. Lady Hugs explained how floggers used to be made and about balancing them, and I took that ball and ran with it. I have made scores cuz I love them so much.

One of these days I am going to do a search on her username just to see what other good advice she has given over the years. It is so good to *see* familiar faces, especially when they rarely posts.

LadyHugs, just seeing your post made my day.

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/29/2010 8:20:41 PM

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Third time lucky . . . .

Damn dude I like that, seriously you need to make up a couple hundred and offer them for like five dollars, ten if you want the D-ring on it, hell I'd buy one of each for myself in a heart beat.

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/30/2010 12:41:28 AM

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Third time lucky . . . .

I like it. Well done peon.

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/31/2010 5:15:41 PM

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Hi LadyHugs,

Thanks for your comment.

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A submissive man can give off energy as well as do things to cause a Dominant's radar to tingle. A slave man has even more traits, to which may be considered extremely old fashioned and that is called -- "manners."

Ladies and Gentlemen who are submissive / slave and or servant types -- behave in a rare and most welcomed style of kindness and consideration. The way a person dresses also gives clues and, neatness counts. If they dress like a slob so often, their submission/slavery is sloppy. Some may like that however, I admit I am extremely old fashioned and very out of date. However, in public or private--when I am around Ladies and Gentlemen--the experience is wonderful and unforgetable.

I think that what might distinguish a submale from other males is a feeling of being 'hit' by the woman in question. A dominant woman - or even a vanilla woman who's being very forward - will go straight through his defences. It will feel awkward, basically. As a sub you'll feel that your manners must suddenly go to fifth gear. I guess that'll show. Or, at least, that's how I've felt.

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/31/2010 5:18:16 PM

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FR,

Thanks to all those who complimented my modest little effort. But - no, I'm not going to go into business with this idea. You can make it yourselves! You only need a bit of ribbon, some glue, velcro, and an ordinary computer printer. Piece of cake!

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/31/2010 5:21:54 PM

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When I was young, shoe stores had men...that catered to customers and served. Some of my fondest memories were of having them kneel, remove my shoe, offer a shoulder as I stood and waited to have my foot measured. He would thoroughly assist in finding shoes, even if there were dozens of possibilities, and kneeling or sitting on a low stool to put each possibility on...as well as using his thumb to check the fit and maybe offer something more suitable. Those were the days...

You know, I never thought to apply for a job in a shoe shop. It didn't cross my mind at all. But I was a - kind of - butler for a short while. That was fun. The butler's clothing very much helped me into the role. Funny how that works .... :-)

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 7/31/2010 7:33:20 PM

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The previous companion worked in a shoe store at one time...he had tales of large footed women being the wicked stepsister and insisting on much smaller shoes! Helps with tact--mom was snorking over a convo she heard in a shoe shop in Venice!

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 8/1/2010 8:35:52 AM

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Third time lucky . . . .

Oooooh, that is sweet. Gives something to comment on if looked at closely. A guy could even tell a vanilla woman who asks that it is there to remind him to put women first.

Nicely done.

I was just wondering...with his bracelet giving a clue if he is INTO providing service if feet or shoes or boots are involved. Maybe a smile or head tilt to seal the deal that he is willing to serve.

We do not have enough servants in stores here, I don't know how it is in the UK. A sub who gets a kick out of shoes might lurk near a shoe store. If I am without male company around (son and friend are well trained already, lol), then someone who will assist by getting the correct size, or possible sizes, from sometimes the very top of a stack, or to get down on his knees to see ones stacked on the floor...mmm. There to put on shoes, take them off, put rejected ones away, to be there for balance if needed, opinions only if asked for, to hold my selection(s) until I paid and left and...follow behind me until I held out my hand for my bag...this would be enjoyable.

Service while clothes shopping...having a regular employee to put rejected things away isn't very helpful if one...wants a different size or color and is in the dressing room.

When I was shopping today at Sams, I made a comment to her about it's too bad I hadn't brought any male with me and I would rather one of them putting my stuff on the conveyer belt.

When I was young, shoe stores had men...that catered to customers and served. Some of my fondest memories were of having them kneel, remove my shoe, offer a shoulder as I stood and waited to have my foot measured. He would thoroughly assist in finding shoes, even if there were dozens of possibilities, and kneeling or sitting on a low stool to put each possibility on...as well as using his thumb to check the fit and maybe offer something more suitable. Those were the days...

We had a supermarket that was family owned and finally shut down after the floods, but they had well mannered boys there who addressed customers as Sir and Ma'am and behaved as good servants. They would also take the groceries to someone's car, either by pushing the cart or by carrying the load, then they would put everything away into the trunk and...just smile and leave. Some of these "boys" were in their 40's and I wonder at how fervently some got into their role. None of the other grocery stores do that now...and if one did then I would take my business there because I enjoy service with a good attitude.

Not like at some places, where politeness is delivered in a robotic and often impolite way. For example, as when McDonald's has an employee do suggestive sales..."Ma'am, would you like to try our extraspecialBiggerSized blahblahblahThankyouNowPayUpandgoaway." <screeches of speakers, sirens shrieking, cold dried out fries and oops, forgot ketchup, wrong soda, no straws but a pound of napkins and salt, and PICKLES AND ONIONS when specifically a catsup only cheeseburger was required for passenger> We get lots of lovely service, as some beaurocrats at corporate offices can prove with their paperwork.

I still have my memories though, and D/s. I know someone around me WILL do windows... <winks>

Now where are the male subs who might be willing to get wet to provide service? My minivan needs washing...

<looks for a wet sponge icon on a bracelet, lol>

When I was in college, I had a job in a women's shoe store. Needless to say, I liked it.

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RE: how can you recognize a male sub?! - 8/1/2010 8:14:20 PM

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Oh, do look Her directly in the eye, and sincerely tell Her that you would crawl naked on your belly through broken glass for the opportunity to kiss Her feet, and make Her believe that you would. If She is a Domme, is interested in such a display, and is interested in you, She is likely to forgive the eye contact. On the other hand, be sincere in this offer, because you may find yourself picking out glass shards for months.

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