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The alternative life choice has taken a turn for the worse Domabees subabees are out of control.

Agree

28% (10)

Disagree

14% (5)

I am a vampire

20% (7)

WTF

34% (12)

Damn this OP is SEXY!

2% (1)

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 6:39:43 AM

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Glad you asked I cam selling the BDSM 4th edition out of the trunk of my car for a low low price of 39.99 It is a must have!

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 6:42:18 AM

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Ok, but who really cares? Do the actions of others diminish who and what you are?

Why would that be?

We are not all one big happy family. You can do what you want and I will do what I want.

If that upsets or annoys you, I can live with it.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 6:47:20 AM

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Yup, have to agree on this one here. I have been disenchanted with the lifestyle for the last several years or so because of it. Hence the reason I cannot be bothered to even attend local munches anymore, let alone anything national or international.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 7:00:05 AM

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Maybe I need more caffeine, but this confused the hell out of Me.

So, are we saying that those of us who enjoy blood play, including licking, tasting, or otherwise consuming the blood of the person that we are playing with isn't 'real' BDSM? I don't term Myself a vampire, but for those who chose that word to distinguish the difference between those who do consume the blood that they are playing with from those who don't, I personally don't see the issue. Unless, of course, in the OP's vast wisdom there's a better term that is easily understood in less than the seven letters that it takes to spell out "vampire" that can convey the meaning that the top is going to swallow the blood that comes from opening the bottom's skin during play.

ETA - For the poll, I answered yes due to the fact that anybody who doesn't recognize blood play and the consuming of blood as being a part of BDSM hasn't taken a good look at the many ways that sadism and masochism can be explored.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 8:51:31 AM

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I have been disenchanted with the lifestyle for the last several years or so because of it. Hence the reason I cannot be bothered to even attend local munches anymore, let alone anything national or international.

it's what you make of it.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 9:04:23 AM

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ORIGINAL: Jeffff

Ok, but who really cares? Do the actions of others diminish who and what you are?

Why would that be?

We are not all one big happy family. You can do what you want and I will do what I want.

If that upsets or annoys you, I can live with it.

What he said x 2.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 10:37:20 AM

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....Glad we're all on the same page about the definition of "alternative".

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 11:30:41 AM

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ORIGINAL: Saykiatric

The alternative life choice has taken a turn for the worse Domabees subabees are out of control. I have even seen a self proclaimed vampire what does this have to do with anything?

Ya know. . . you should film this and sell it on TV.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 12:26:46 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Saykiatric

The alternative life choice has taken a turn for the worse Domabees subabees are out of control. I have even seen a self proclaimed vampire what does this have to do with anything?

Ya know. . . you should film this and sell it on TV.

Get your Domabees GONE WILD!

Only 19.95 plus shipping and handling. You must be 18 years or older to order.

You could make a fortune! Good luck and you will only owe me 4% for royalties.

LOVING IT!

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 5:07:53 PM

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[/quote]
I got some bad news for ya buddy.
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Bad news? Obama is a shoe in for another 4 years?
they stopped making fruit stripes bubble gum in 5 fruity flavors?

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 5:14:33 PM

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All kidding aside the Vampire comment was simply something I just happen to notice....my question was simple do those of you who have been around awhile feel their is a decline in what Bdsm once was lets say 20 years ago before it went main stream. The munches are filled with ass chasers the clubs have by what I have seen become pissing matches with hairy chest beating the battle cries I am DOM hear me pose. I do not personally care what anyone is doing so long as it does not harm anyone else. When it effects me then I get upset...until then live and let live. I just do not personally see where swingers play into bdsm. Everyone is expected to bend to the majority so that puts getting out my poking stick again vampires at the bottom of the pole!

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 5:15:52 PM

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I don't have to define 'real'. There are people I look at and they don't do anything I'd want to do - some of them are too heavy handed or serious for me, some are too lightweight. Are they both not 'real', or only one side? It means that they are not a match for me, but seriously, unless I am in said bedroom or dungeon with you, what you do in your bedroom or dungeon is none of my business and doesn't need labels from me. I like calling people what they say that they want to be called, and being happy with that. But that is just my kink, and some people disagree with that. Got into a tiff over that on one of my lists that nearly got me kicked off, for answering a question much like this question, much like I've answered this one.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 6:38:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Saykiatric

All kidding aside the Vampire comment was simply something I just happen to notice....my question was simple do those of you who have been around awhile feel their is a decline in what Bdsm once was lets say 20 years ago before it went main stream. The munches are filled with ass chasers the clubs have by what I have seen become pissing matches with hairy chest beating the battle cries I am DOM hear me pose. I do not personally care what anyone is doing so long as it does not harm anyone else. When it effects me then I get upset...until then live and let live. I just do not personally see where swingers play into bdsm. Everyone is expected to bend to the majority so that puts getting out my poking stick again vampires at the bottom of the pole!

I did not see anything wrong with your opinion personally...and I would like to be called ...
LordMrMasterMasaSireSuperSirLoinSlaveTrainerDaDomTheOneTheRealDealTheTotalPackagePatentPending.
Thanks a truck load! It seems I to have violated TOS as I have been informed...I am going to pour over the TOS rules as to not "offend" anyone straight away....right after I go walk the gold fish.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 6:45:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: tsatske

I don't have to define 'real'. There are people I look at and they don't do anything I'd want to do - some of them are too heavy handed or serious for me, some are too lightweight. Are they both not 'real', or only one side? It means that they are not a match for me, but seriously, unless I am in said bedroom or dungeon with you, what you do in your bedroom or dungeon is none of my business and doesn't need labels from me. I like calling people what they say that they want to be called, and being happy with that. But that is just my kink, and some people disagree with that. Got into a tiff over that on one of my lists that nearly got me kicked off, for answering a question much like this question, much like I've answered this one.

oops quoted myself I guess.Try this again...
I did not see anything wrong with your opinion personally...and I would like to be called ...
LordMrMasterMasaSireSuperSirLoinSlaveTrainerDaDomTheOneTheRealDealTheTotalPackagePatentPending.
Thanks a truck load! It seems I to have violated TOS as I have been informed...I am going to pour over the TOS rules as to not "offend" anyone straight away....right after I go walk the gold fish.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 7:37:18 PM

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I got some bad news for ya buddy.

Bad news? Obama is a shoe in for another 4 years?
they stopped making fruit stripes bubble gum in 5 fruity flavors?

D'awww... You aren't even taking your own thread seriously. Does someone need attention?

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 7/31/2010 11:17:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: Saykiatric

All kidding aside the Vampire comment was simply something I just happen to notice....my question was simple do those of you who have been around awhile feel their is a decline in what Bdsm once was lets say 20 years ago before it went main stream. The munches are filled with ass chasers the clubs have by what I have seen become pissing matches with hairy chest beating the battle cries I am DOM hear me pose. I do not personally care what anyone is doing so long as it does not harm anyone else. When it effects me then I get upset...until then live and let live. I just do not personally see where swingers play into bdsm. Everyone is expected to bend to the majority so that puts getting out my poking stick again vampires at the bottom of the pole!

"Vampire" activities (the consuming of blood during play) isn't really connected to the swingers circle as far as I know, so I'm still confused by your connection. Cutting, needles, and those activities that involve blood have been a part of BDSM as long as I've been around. There are several of us on the boards who enjoy blood play. If you search the General Discussion board for any of the key words blood, cutting, or needles, you'll see that blood play has an active following here.

I can't speak for twenty years ago. I'm also not going to compare this site to what I see away from the computer. I definitely see more edge players at My local dungeon that I do here. There are also fewer casual players from what I can tell. It's very hard for Me to make the comparison because I wasn't online when I got started in BDSM over a decade ago. As far as this site goes, there are still some of us that are on the more extreme end of things, though not as many as there used to be.

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 8/1/2010 6:54:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: Saykiatric

I got some bad news for ya buddy.

Bad news? Obama is a shoe in for another 4 years?
they stopped making fruit stripes bubble gum in 5 fruity flavors?

D'awww... You aren't even taking your own thread seriously. Does someone need attention?

Oh is being "serious" in TOS also? If you make a post you MUST be serious yada yada yada. Sorry I am here for fun serious bores me.However if I say yes to I am needing attention....If I say I need a new steering wheel cover will you get me a shiney new car? *Honk Honk*

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 8/1/2010 8:09:48 AM

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Oh is being "serious" in TOS also? If you make a post you MUST be serious yada yada yada. Sorry I am here for fun serious bores me.However if I say yes to I am needing attention....If I say I need a new steering wheel cover will you get me a shiney new car? *Honk Honk*

If not being serious was against TOS, most of the forums would disappear. But on to the topic.

I have met a vampire. She is awesome. Maybe she can answer your questions.

http://www.iron-rose.com/vijohnson/

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 8/1/2010 6:33:52 PM

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ORIGINAL: Saykiatric

Oh is being "serious" in TOS also? If you make a post you MUST be serious yada yada yada. Sorry I am here for fun serious bores me.However if I say yes to I am needing attention....If I say I need a new steering wheel cover will you get me a shiney new car? *Honk Honk*

If not being serious was against TOS, most of the forums would disappear. But on to the topic.

I have met a vampire. She is awesome. Maybe she can answer your questions.

Enough already forget about the Vampire portion of the poll pulling up turtle neck all is good with Vampire getting out my cross and garlic meat balls and spaghetti cheese..

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RE: The alternative life choice has taken a turn for th... - 8/1/2010 6:48:07 PM

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All kidding aside the Vampire comment was simply something I just happen to notice....my question was simple do those of you who have been around awhile feel their is a decline in what Bdsm once was lets say 20 years ago before it went main stream. The munches are filled with ass chasers the clubs have by what I have seen become pissing matches with hairy chest beating the battle cries I am DOM hear me pose. I do not personally care what anyone is doing so long as it does not harm anyone else. When it effects me then I get upset...until then live and let live. I just do not personally see where swingers play into bdsm. Everyone is expected to bend to the majority so that puts getting out my poking stick again vampires at the bottom of the pole!

Looks like someone's got "an attitude."

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