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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 4:01:56 AM

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This is an old pattern for you. How many more times you gonna repeat it before you learn your lesson about the whole work / kink thing?

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 4:37:56 AM

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How stupid am i? What's worse, He already has a girlfriend- another girl who works there. i'm pretty sure He's a Dom. He told me He likes the idea of torturing people. They broke up. Then they got back together. Then they broke up. Then they got back together. Somewhere in there, i told her i liked Him. She's kind of my friend; i didn't want to have secrets. But now they're back together, and i feel like the stupidest person alive. Don't worry, nothing's going to happen. i think He just likes fucking with me. i think He gets His kicks that way. Anyway, i feel stupid. STUPID. Any comments? Besides how stupid i am, i already know that.

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Don't make it any worse, don't risk the friendship and don't risk your job!

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 7:07:02 AM

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I don't have anything against the work/kink thing with peers in general but if it includes your boss it is a supremely bad idea. Since these are just ruminations on your part it's no big deal. In the grand scheme of things the idea would be kinda stupid on your part and horrendously stupid on his part. Fucking around with the boss is a dumb idea but fucking around with a subordinate is evidence of brain damage.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 7:08:44 AM

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i am NOT fucking my boss!!! He's just head fucking with me.

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Give us an example of that?

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 8:01:11 AM

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Find a new job. Don't fuck where you work. The time to act on these feelings is after you've moved to another job. And that's the time to express them also.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 5:06:52 PM

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Working on getting a new job, yes.

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Cum to Chicago. Work for Papa M.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 5:45:47 PM

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Working on getting a new job, yes.

pam

Cum to Chicago. Work for Papa M.

I can see it now...
Mr. Mustard, in the office, with the stapler... That wasn't creepy at all!

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 5:46:33 PM

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i am NOT fucking my boss!!! He's just head fucking with me.

pam

I'm sorry... I don't understand. How is it that your boss fucking with your head? From your op, you state you told his girlfriend that you liked him at one point while they were on-again, off-again. Are you thinking that she shared that with him? Has he behaved in any way to make you think that?

Edited to add:

Oh... and by the way. I submit to my boss and fuck him. Hasn't harmed our relationship in any way. It's actually quite beneficial for us both.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 6:50:00 PM

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You got a new job?

No?

You're gonna need it.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 7:11:18 PM

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I'm sorry... I don't understand. How is it that your boss fucking with your head? From your op, you state you told his girlfriend that you liked him at one point while they were on-again, off-again. Are you thinking that she shared that with him? Has he behaved in any way to make you think that?

Oh heck I don't know how I missed that part. Of course she told him! And the boss is having the time of his life. He has two heads to tinker with. I can't fathom why you elected to confess to the ex. Good grief.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 7:15:34 PM

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We're all going on Jerry Springer next week. Just kidding.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 8:05:45 PM

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 8:13:18 PM

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Any comments?

Pull it back, and get it in check, whatever it takes.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 8:52:39 PM

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You got a new job?

No?

You're gonna need it.

Nahhh... I won't need a new job. I co-own a business. And my boss isn't just my dom, he's my husband.

While I agree that office relationships more often than not wreak havoc in the work place... or the work relationships wreak havoc on personal relationships... it isn't always the case. It really is dependent upon the stability of the relationship and the ability of the people involved to share a mutual interest in the well-being of the company.

In our case, that means my husband doesn't pull the dom card on me for some personal whim to the detriment of our business... and I put on my big girl pants and handle my work responsibilities as an independent woman.

For the most part, during normal business hours our personal relationship takes a back seat... even though we work from home.

Of course, that doesn't mean that every once in a while Firm can't have a lap dance while he's on a conference call.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 9:12:03 PM

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Never fuck your boss. Just don't.

One of you will end up having to leave and it is not going to be you.

Seen it happen over and over again. I did it once, but I waited till I left the job first.

Just don't do it while there. Flirt your ass off if you want, but don't fuck him.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/4/2010 10:26:28 PM

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How stupid am i? What's worse, He already has a girlfriend- another girl who works there. i'm pretty sure He's a Dom. He told me He likes the idea of torturing people. They broke up. Then they got back together. Then they broke up. Then they got back together. Somewhere in there, i told her i liked Him. She's kind of my friend; i didn't want to have secrets. But now they're back together, and i feel like the stupidest person alive. Don't worry, nothing's going to happen. i think He just likes fucking with me. i think He gets His kicks that way. Anyway, i feel stupid. STUPID. Any comments? Besides how stupid i am, i already know that.

pam

Good evening pam:

Obviously since you are an adult you must have known somewhere inside where NO one can see or hear…THAT any sexual contact with a Superior is only going to leave you without AND not the Superior.

Be wise. Listen to your ability to reason. You will be thankful in the long term. Also ask yourself…Why would you want a man that is not available to give himself to YOU only?

If you settle for fast and quick sex AND sharing a man....Never doubt! The end will reflect the same outcome! Bit, partial and pieces.

Take really GOOD care of YOU! Why? You deserve better!

That concludes my comments...

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/5/2010 8:58:59 AM

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Pam I had to recheck your profile to see your age and I was surprised to see this post wasn't written by an 18 year old.

So let's see.... you told your bosses on again off again girlfriend who is also "kind of" your friend that you like him (the guy she was dating). And surprise surprise they are now back together.

I know a lot of dom's and none of them like torturing people. A number of them enjoy inflicting pain upon their submissives or slaves but this is very different to torturing someone. Torture implies (to me) that it is non-consensual.

What makes you think he is fucking with you? Is it possible that you are reading too much into his comments because of the attraction you feel towards him?

Is it possible the attraction is one sided?

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Don't feel stupid Pam.

We've all made mistakes but I'm not seeing where you've done that..You expressed yourself in regards to your feelings..It sucks anytime we put ourselves out there and it's not returned.

At least you were brave enough to do it.

I think I am not alone in knowing that relationships in the workplace if one is the boss of the other person, often tends to be a recipe for disaster. In the same way, expressing your feelings for or to that person seems naive and ill thought out to me as opposed to brave.

Kudos to you Pam for recognising that this is something that would not benefit you to act upon however a word of advice if I may...next time, keep the secrets to yourself rather than sharing them with someones girlfriend

...even if she is your "kind of" friend.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/5/2010 2:14:29 PM

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Thanks for the advice, everyone. Part of me regrets disclosing such personal details to strangers. The other part thinks that the forums are the perfect place to discuss this type of problem since there is no risk of implicating anyone. We are all anonymous here. Anyway, my work problem has been dealt with. Happily, nobody got fired.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/5/2010 2:18:56 PM

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I'm glad things worked out ok, Pam. I hope you find someone soon, who inspires all those same feelings, but is willing/able to reciprocate.

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RE: i want to submit to my boss - 8/5/2010 2:21:53 PM

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Thanks for the advice, everyone. Part of me regrets disclosing such personal details to strangers. The other part thinks that the forums are the perfect place to discuss this type of problem since there is no risk of implicating anyone. We are all anonymous here. Anyway, my work problem has been dealt with. Happily, nobody got fired.

pam

And therein lies the problem. You are amazingly unrealistic. Good luck.
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