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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 8:52:40 PM

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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven

It IS better than calling a woman a slut or whore right away.

I don't know....someone yells SLUT, and I immediately look around. Just saying.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 8:59:36 PM

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Definitely not a good opener. But after I start developing an affection for a man, I love to be called girl.

what exactly is the criteria utilized to determine whether an affection might be developing? If he smells better than the grill or the cash register that he is working over?

If he gives me free roller dogs, he's in. He can even call me cunt and bitch if he wants.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 9:00:53 PM

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oh DomiGuru, or Domfucius if you will, what if the girl is on the skinny side?

Mention how much you found that Karen Carpenter girl to be very sexy. Then be sure to mention that the girl might want to consider losing just a little more weight because her (insert any body part here)______________ is a just a tad bit too large.

Always choose her body part or feature that she considers her best. The one that normal sized chicks have the same.

Chubby chicks love cruelty.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 9:03:39 PM

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Didn't you mean waist (Sorry, couldn't help myself!!)?

yes I did, thanks for the grammar correction,

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 9:05:52 PM

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What is even more irksome than being called "girl" by some stranger in an email, is when they use the third person.

"How is the girl doing today"?

Grrrrrrrrr..

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 9:11:10 PM

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What is even more irksome than being called "girl" by some stranger in an email, is when they use the third person.

"How is the girl doing today"?

Grrrrrrrrr..men

hahahaha Yes. I usually reply with.. "Who?"

Hm. Next time though, I think I'll try, "Which one?" Or, "What girl? There are only Dom men here." This will be sure to confuse him.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 9:20:28 PM

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I just start calling them little boy and mention the fact Ill mail him a used tampon to prove I'm No longer a girl

Also Iron Bear, Lass can be a term of endearment like sweetheart. where as girl just makes me think the guy is fetishising the age difference....which is creepy.... and makes me want to vomit a little in my mouth...

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 9:42:46 PM

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I'd rather be called girl than Ma'am.
I hate when the kid working the register in Shoprite calls me Ma'am. Fuck.

It is that kind of service industry job that propels that usage of Ma'am. Same with Sir.

I have been calling people Ma'am and Sir so long in the restaurant business it is automatic. It is the quick and easy polite public way to address someone you are serving.

It doesnt work well on more down to earth people. They hear it more personally and it sounds weird and wrong but it is not meant in that way. I have had people say to me, "Sir? Dont call me sir!" I know it creeps them out but I didnt mean it like that, I simply need something to call folks sometimes and Sir and Ma'am are the default setting. I dont know if I made this clear at all but I guess what I am saying is it is not personal. With a really young girl I can call her Miss but I am still calling the male kid Sir.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 10:01:21 PM

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I just start calling them little boy and mention the fact Ill mail him a used tampon to prove I'm No longer a girl

Also Iron Bear, Lass can be a term of endearment like sweetheart. where as girl just makes me think the guy is fetishising the age difference....which is creepy.... and makes me want to vomit a little in my mouth...

I believe I vomited a little in my mouth from just thinking of the types of email I ge- er, *used to* get. It's all pretty much died down now.

Also I agree that 'lass' is quite nice. A wee bit o' lass...teeheehee makes me giggle

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 10:24:28 PM

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Lass was such a common term in my parents home especially from my Father's side who were both Scots and Irish so it was often "A wee bonny lad" or "A wee bonny lass". At home, I still reply, without thinking, "I dinna ken" and referring to a child as a wee bain, potatoes at "Pratties" and a glass of Scotch as a "Wee dram". I'll admit that when I've had a few "Wee drams" and am in my full dress kilt, the brogue of my forefathers tends to come out. No I do not own nor play the pipes. That ability still alludes me but I am good with a Claymore, Highland Dirk and Sghian Dubh....

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 11:41:22 PM

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What is even more irksome than being called "girl" by some stranger in an email, is when they use the third person.

"How is the girl doing today"?

Grrrrrrrrr..

And that's the caricature that wants to be skipper. Talk about a capsize in the making.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/4/2010 11:44:52 PM

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I am not even a girl ... so don't even think about using the term with me!

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 12:04:27 AM

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to the OP: i'm glad you have realised that using "girl" is a pretty rude way of addressing somebody you don't know. but as many have said, its better than whore, bitch, slut...whatever. i personally would prefer "girl" over any of those, or my personal favourite, "n****r bitch". don't do any of those, you'll get along dandy here.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 1:28:22 AM

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Thank s for all the comments

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 2:51:01 AM

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I would just like to appologise to all the Ladies I have called girl I did not mean any disrespect. I simply thought it was better that some of the name you call yourslves eg slutwhore ect.

macs,

so why do you think that is disrespectful?

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 3:27:45 AM

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why did I read that as 'men of our short stature'?

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 3:36:04 AM

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Hey boy.

to know the other is to reflect on yourself.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 4:00:10 AM

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Poor little attention grabber, keep snivelling, it may well work, some of the wannbees will sniff at you.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 9:05:36 AM

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I just call myself Andrea. Most people here refer to me as Miss. Instead of calling someone girl, woman, bitch, cumslut, ect, it might be better not to use a name at all, unless you are refering to an individual.

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I would just like to appologise to all the Ladies I have called girl I did not mean any disrespect. I simply thought it was better that some of the name you call yourslves eg slutwhore ect.

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RE: Don't use girl has an opener - 8/5/2010 9:20:11 AM

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What's really amusing is to be called "girl" or "little girl" by a 20 year old.

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