MsMacComb
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Joined: 3/30/2005
From: My Mothers womb.
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If you think I am posting to become popular, gain friends or win a prize then you are sadly mistaken. The whole point may have eluded you but if the truth is negative it may still be the truth. You may consider that to be a bad thing and think I give a rats ass if other people have a negative reaction to it. But that doesnt change the facts does it? My second point was that the majority of the people with negative replies have NOTHING to say. Why should I care about them?
It seems that maybe some people need to reread things before spouting off. The implication that I was talking about ALL Dommes/Doms shows how ignorant some people are. I believe the term I used was "So Many" which does not imply all.The is a grave difference. You also seem to have discounted all the replies that totally or some what agree with some or all of my statements. Why? Are you just being negative, lol?
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ORIGINAL: NeedToUseYou
Let me show you why people are giving you more from your viewpoint negative responses.
I think a good indicator would be the number of negatives in the OP. Let's count.
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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
Why is it that so many display such childish levels of needy, clingy, me-me-me, attitudes?
childish, needy, clingy, me-me-me. that would be 3 in one sentence. And notice the qualifier that so many, implying most dom/mes possess these qualities. Why would people respond negatively?
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Why the false bravado? Why the "all talk and no cock" (metaphor,,,or not) ego, from both sexes?
false bravado, all talk and no cock, ego. 3 more. Total of 6 negatives.
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Is it something in the water? Is it something in their upbringing, their childhood, something that happened in the womb? Is it that they are so powerless in real life that they transfer that into a "power grab" online, here, or in their attempts at S/M relationships in everyday life?
Next line is it something in the water, implies it is a widespread problem as in every dom/mes are like this. Something in the womb, more sarcasm. Next line implying dom/mes are powerless So, we'll just count that as one negative, total of 7
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Whats the reason, the purpose and the logic behind the hostility, the egos and attitudes that permeate far to much of the S/M and related kink community? A need for a hug, an enema (some people a little backed up?) a spanking?
I really don't know what you are talking about, you open with a attack then now complain of being attacked. Maybe an example? Maybe you need a enema, hug or spanking? Imply again that most are hostile, with ego, attitudes and need a hug, enema, spanking. Let's just count that as 3 more. So 10 negatives.
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Everyone is looking for the same thing but from their own individual perspectives and angles. Everyone wants to be loved, to be desired, to be understood, to feel validated and significant from both sides of the hairbrush, cane or whip. Tops and bottoms, Doms/Dommes and subs, spankers and spankees, go together like a *soup and sandwich* (props to Eve). Without one the other is lost.
A rational non-negative statement, good job!! Still at 10 total negatives.
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Theres an old joke about what happens in a room full of Doms/Dommes? Nothing! Without subs or switches its just a room full of Dommes/Doms that can't take the pain and whose egos can't handle being submissive. A room full of subs or switches can at least "roleplay" and get each other off in more ways than one. Tops can't.
Here you imply Doms/Tops are are Nothing but Subs or switches will convert to Doms/Tops if they wanted to. So 1 negative, maybe two if you consider some submissives might be offended by a notion that they'd just turn tops because they were horny.
So 11 negatives.
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So I would sincerely and earnestly like to know, what gives? CollarMe is a huge site and has a reputation for being well packed with the biggest bunch of over inflated blowhards the web has ever seen (on par with FOX News).
Now compare collarMe users to over inflated blowhards similiar to your opinion of Fox News viewers. LOL. Well give you 1 negative for that whole statement. 12 negatives.
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Surely there are at least a few *over* educated and highly opinionated souls here that could explain to me how alienation of subs and switches somehow equates to a good time for Dommes/Doms in play, in relationships, in a collegial atmosphere, for the advancement of our cause, the betterment of society as a whole, which includes us and our other aberrative counterparts.
More obvious sarcasm *over* educated implying it's not the case. 13 negatives.
Next line is the first time you mentioned the point of your post the alienation of subs and switches.
You seem angry, and don't present any reason for your anger other than generalized insults targeted at the very community you are whining to. Maybe that's why aren't receiving many non-aggressive replies, because your message is aggressive.
I'd say today you are the only person I've seen post that displayed all the qualities you've said dom/mes posses.
Good job, but it does prove that some dom/mes are like you say.
Thanks.
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