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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:31:06 PM   
givemyall


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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:32:49 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		Um... I'm sorry, I didn't find anything in the OP that was *worthy* of spending a lot of time thinking up a reply to.  it was just mindless ranting, very little of it justified and all of it a sweeping generalization.  Basically my feeling was if you were such an ass to have posted that at all, you weren't worth any more of my time than a one-liner response anyway. 

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

Interesting. Those with thoughts and the ability to think things through posted lengthy replies (whether they agree or not). Those with nothing intelligent to say but simply a desire to "bump" up there total post numbers blathered and made lameass attempts at insults. Kind of adds more evidence to my whole point. My favorite is "as stated by others......too many generalizations to even begin to answer.." yet this person still took the time to answer, lmfao.


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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:34:09 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Status: offline 		OHMIGOD, cloudboy, you and I actually AGREE ON SOMETHING!

has anyone checked to see if it's frozen over in Hell yet? 

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but then I like FOX News


Say it isn't so.


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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:36:53 PM   
Proprietrix


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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
I will reiterate for those that are exceptionally slow. I am NOT a prodomme so get a clue.


I don't think they're meaning Pro-Domme. I think they are referring to your pay sites.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:41:06 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
I will reiterate for those that are exceptionally slow. I am NOT a prodomme so get a clue.


I don't think they're meaning Pro-Domme. I think they are referring to your pay sites.


< Message edited by LadyMorgynn -- 4/19/2006 3:08:48 PM >

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:42:52 PM   
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Good job on the yelling and nice follow through with the font. However, one small teenie little point. I am NOT a prodomme, never have been, never will be. So I guess that kind of blows your little paranoid delusions out of the water.


Since you enjoy large font ...

Of course you aren't, Mswhatever; that website link with the credit card billed membership has nothing to do with making money off of people's need to satiate their masturbatory needs in this area.  Whether you aren't a "prodomme" in the sense that you come in direct contact with anyone (something we'll  have to take your word for, sigh...) or not, you sell sex for a living.  OK; at least admit you're a porn merchant.  To me and most other people, you are a "pro". Not that you care, really.  You have one objective, driving business your way.  If that's my "paranoid delusion" delete your web links, hell, delete your website and come back under another name to continue ranting.  (Yeah yeah, I said people should stop responding, and if no one but you had I wouldn't have, but as I said, "fat chance").  It's my last response to you, however.  I charge for my copy writing.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:47:44 PM   
BlkTallFullfig


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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
So lets see, a substantial amount of the threads here are bitter old Doms/Dommes making caustic comments about subs that PM them or the way they are approached. Naturally according to the likes of you its ALL the subs fault. Yet some are not able to add one and one and see that half the problem why they are alone is themselves and their attitudes. Daily a new forum member and/or sub will arrive here and get slammed for their first post by multiple people (usually the same little bunch) and most others don't see a problem with this, nor the cause.
I will reiterate for those that are exceptionally slow. I am NOT a prodomme so get a clue.
Really?  Your profile is NOT an advertisement for your pay site?  You're right I am too slow to understand you, and you are too ignorant to understand me or most of the dominants on these forums.   What did you think your rant would accomplish?   If you have a specific issue with a specific person you want to deconstruct, state it, otherwise, every person has the right to be himself whether you approve or not.   You looked very much like the blowhard you called us, but I've always heard it takes one...

If I wanted a punished cuck husband, I'd have one.  We are all sufficiently self aware to know who we are, and what we seek.  If I have to accept a man with cock in hand approaching me before I can find a submissive, I will remain single.  I seek to add someone with a brain, a heart, and soul to my life, though it so happens he will have a cock with which we will have much fun, but being single isn't a disease or a problem for which I need to give up my principles in order to cure.

As for bitter and old, you sound pretty nasty, and you're almost my age, so I got nothin'.  LMAO.   

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Someone has been blowing wind up submissives' asses.... and i've missed out again.... sheeesh!    Will someone phone me next time, so I can get in line with my saggy ass raised.... thank you xx
LOL, Welcome to the boards Givemyall, stay a while, and you'll get it done to you!  M

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 2:55:07 PM   
Gauge


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Status: offline 		So, the fact that you have two lifestyle sites that you obviously run and promote in your signature and charge money for means you aren't a pro domme? OK. I can see that. Just like I can see that your over generalization of the dominants on the site (notice I didn't say you said all) is completely accurate and should be touted as the gospel truth.  Come on, even you must see how transparent you are being. You criticize collarme for harboring the biggest amount of blowhards etc., yet you say you are not negative and do not deserve the rebuke you are getting? I fully understand your position and I will even defend your right to post it, but your insistence that you are not a pro domme looking for money from your web sites is just asinine. You are promoting an agenda that people on these boards have seen from others before you and will see from others long after you are gone. The thing I find amusing is that you actually believe what you are saying.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 3:15:54 PM   
ShiftedJewel


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Status: offline 		Has anyone considered hooking her up with our "friend" from the ask a Mistress board? They seem to have similar mindsets.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 3:28:52 PM   
BitaTruble


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Surely there are at least a few *over* educated and highly opinionated souls here that could explain to me how alienation of subs and switches somehow equates to a good time for Dommes/Doms in play, in relationships, in a collegial atmosphere, for the advancement of our cause, the betterment of society as a whole, which includes us and our other aberrative counterparts.


The problem is you are starting with a false premise. You make an assumption that those Domme/Doms of whom you speak are interested in advancement and/or betterment to anything. Frankly, they're not. The vast majority and it doesn't matter which side of the leash you are on, are into themselves and/or their partners. The rest of society be damned. It shouldn't come as any surprise that shunning cohesiveness is a byproduct of a subculture composed of individuals who couldn't find what they were seeking out of main stream society. Once you delete the falsity of the base premise, the rest of the argument can't stand up. It's not a group thing, it's individuals with specific behaviors. "Some" people are bothering you. That's it in a nutshell.

Personally, lots of people bother me, but I have a strict two post/email rule from Himself in dealing with them. Two posts and/or two emails and then I either have to block or behave myself if I continue to expose myself to them. It's one of the reasons I don't post rants. It would only leave me one post left for each person.. and lots of times I need two.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 6:22:55 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

She rewrote her whole profile real quick... scared of all the heat she was getting on here I bet <g>  Or she must have been ashamed of something!

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
No, no need to rewrite the profile. Shouldnt you be at weight watchers?

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 6:30:11 PM   
MsMacComb


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Gauge

So, the fact that you have two lifestyle sites that you obviously run and promote in your signature and charge money for means you aren't a pro domme? OK. I can see that. Just like I can see that your over generalization of the dominants on the site (notice I didn't say you said all) is completely accurate and should be touted as the gospel truth.  Come on, even you must see how transparent you are being. You criticize collarme for harboring the biggest amount of blowhards etc., yet you say you are not negative and do not deserve the rebuke you are getting? I fully understand your position and I will even defend your right to post it, but your insistence that you are not a pro domme looking for money from your web sites is just asinine. You are promoting an agenda that people on these boards have seen from others before you and will see from others long after you are gone. The thing I find amusing is that you actually believe what you are saying.
 

A professional dominatrix is one who charges for sadism and dominance in the flesh. If anyone that owns an adult website is called a "pro-domme" than I guess there are a lot of gay website owners in for a surprise.
And yes, I am prompoting an agenda that the majority here didnt even take time to contemplate before spouting off. Pretty much par for course. One notices its the same group that does the same thing to anyone that posts something out of the ordinary. Standard response is to go into auto-disagree, start slamming, accuse everyone of being a prodom regardless of their agenda, their gender, the points they make or any other facts.As you have just proven.:)

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 6:33:16 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: subtoFemDommes

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Good job on the yelling and nice follow through with the font. However, one small teenie little point. I am NOT a prodomme, never have been, never will be. So I guess that kind of blows your little paranoid delusions out of the water.


Since you enjoy large font ...

Of course you aren't, Mswhatever; that website link with the credit card billed membership has nothing to do with making money off of people's need to satiate their masturbatory needs in this area.  Whether you aren't a "prodomme" in the sense that you come in direct contact with anyone (something we'll  have to take your word for, sigh...) or not, you sell sex for a living.  OK; at least admit you're a porn merchant.  To me and most other people, you are a "pro". Not that you care, really.  You have one objective, driving business your way.  If that's my "paranoid delusion" delete your web links, hell, delete your website and come back under another name to continue ranting.  (Yeah yeah, I said people should stop responding, and if no one but you had I wouldn't have, but as I said, "fat chance").  It's my last response to you, however.  I charge for my copy writing.

 
I rather doubt you are capable of shutting up. Your only agenda in life is to argue , use large fonts and scream. The fact that I am a political activist and write millions of words for a variety of causes according to you is for one purpose, to get a few people to join a little hobby site, lol?

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 6:37:33 PM   
hardbodysub


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Status: offline 		I think it's mostly "monkey see, monkey do". A LOT of so-called dominants learn from watching others, and simply adopt these stereotypes without any critical thought.

Note for those who complaining about the original post overgeneralizing, etc., etc.: she never said any of her complaints applied to all doms/dommes. She simply said that there are "so many" who had these traits that she didn't like. She's right. If you took offence to her comments, maybe you're the one who should get over it.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 7:00:06 PM   
Proprietrix


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

She rewrote her whole profile real quick... scared of all the heat she was getting on here I bet <g>  Or she must have been ashamed of something!

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
No, no need to rewrite the profile. Shouldnt you be at weight watchers?







Ummm, I did not say any such thing like that. Nor would I.
Please learn to use the quote function properly.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 7:32:08 PM   
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Can someone explain to me the importance of this topic? I think I'm missing it.


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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 7:46:30 PM   
crouchingtigress


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quote:

ORIGINAL: cloudboy


Can someone explain to me the importance of this topic? I think I'm missing it.




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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:05:24 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

I think it's mostly "monkey see, monkey do". A LOT of so-called dominants learn from watching others, and simply adopt these stereotypes without any critical thought.

Note for those who complaining about the original post overgeneralizing, etc., etc.: she never said any of her complaints applied to all doms/dommes. She simply said that there are "so many" who had these traits that she didn't like. She's right. If you took offence to her comments, maybe you're the one who should get over it.


Very well put. Oddly enough those that keep complaining don't address the intial points. As you mentioned, perhaps the truth hurts and its a little to close to home.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:09:03 PM   
MsMacComb


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ORIGINAL: crouchingtigress

Oh gosh you missed it? It was that she is perfect and all the rest of us suck....
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No the point was that some have major self esteem issue's which they overcompensate for by acting aggressive. I never said I was perfect nor that everyone else here sucked. YOU may suck, but thats your own issue. :)


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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:14:35 PM   
AAkasha


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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb

quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub

I think it's mostly "monkey see, monkey do". A LOT of so-called dominants learn from watching others, and simply adopt these stereotypes without any critical thought.

Note for those who complaining about the original post overgeneralizing, etc., etc.: she never said any of her complaints applied to all doms/dommes. She simply said that there are "so many" who had these traits that she didn't like. She's right. If you took offence to her comments, maybe you're the one who should get over it.


Very well put. Oddly enough those that keep complaining don't address the intial points. As you mentioned, perhaps the truth hurts and its a little to close to home.


You got your token sub asskisser and now you feel vindicated.

The truth is you started a thread designed to throw shit at dominants that tell it like it is.  When a submissive comes on and posts things like "Mistresses please tell me how you would torture my cock," or "my name is asshole4Mztrss why can't I get a woman to use her strap on on my ass? I am willing and ready! Why are femdoms ignoring my emails?" non-pro femdoms tell them to change their approach if they want to meet possible relationship partners.

Non-pro femdoms tell submissives that their fantasy is different from reality.

Non-pro femdoms tell submissives that the best way to approach a femdom as a woman first, and a fantasy second.

Non-pro femdoms tell submissives to write profiles that are not wish lists, but show the entire man behind the sub.

You come along and try to be the champion for the poor, oppressed submissive by claiming that femdoms who do not blow smoke up subs' asses are bitches or have some self esteem issues.  Please -- coming from the woman that had to resort to hurling insults like that weight watchers slam?  Grow up.  Talk about petty.

The sad thing is that the subs do not realize that by you blanketing them with your "it's ok subbie, your kink is fine AND your approach, that of a guy with a cock in one hand and the mouse in the other, will work just find with these ladies -- you just have to find one with patience and who REALLY understands you" is just a scam.  Pure and simple.  You want them to all follow you to your site and pay up -- pay for the priveledge of believing their fantasy world is real, and yes, femdoms are out there who are just fine catering to their desires.  You just leave out the part about the money.

You have shown your true colors on this thread better than anyone could point out.  You and your token subs will have a joyous time on your pay site.  Meanwhile, those subs looking for relationships based on respect and devotion will get some "tough love" responses for the most part. But at least it's *honest* -- which is more than can be said for your approach to win business.

Akasha


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