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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:26:22 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Ah, the last line of defense... if you HAVE no defense, and you've made a complete ass out of yourself in front of everyone, attack using such distractions as weight (or the age...or the color... or the religion) ...anything to blow smoke and distract the argument... you know, the one you have made that you've made that reveals yourself in a very unpleasant light.  Even better, make it look like someone else made the personal attack.

Really, some people have no class.

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
No, no need to rewrite the profile. Shouldnt you be at weight watchers?


We KNOW Proprietrix didn't write this, because we're perfectly capable of looking at her posts ourselves and seeing that she did not.  You did.  Nice try but it didn't work.  Tsk tsk.  Really, REALLY bad form, you know.  Not sporting at all.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:31:49 PM   
LadyMorgynn


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Ooooooooooh, I suppose we're now suposed to be all impressed?  We're supposed to bow and scrape and realize your superiority and your right to make completely assinine posts, because you claim (unsubstantiated, of course) to be a do-gooder?  I feel sorry for the people whose causes you purport to assist!  If, of course, you actually, do, which I personally doubt.  Of course, some (fortunately few) activists ARE motivated by a need to be recognized as being somehow wonderful and better than everyone else and expect praise and kowtowing from all lesser folk.  Yep, this fits you just about perfectly!

Geez, go find a good cause to perpetrate your ego on and leave us alone.

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
The fact that I am a political activist and write millions of words for a variety of causes according to you is for one purpose, to get a few people to join a little hobby site, lol?


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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:39:39 PM   
gooddogbenji


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I realize, this is not the complaining thread, but seriously, I try to exagerate things, take them to their logical extreme, and use that for humour.  The OP really has spoiled it. 

I will freely admit, I did not read the entire thread.  After a few long replies I gave up.  But wow.  I need to file this one away for future reference.  This is someone I can learn from!

Yours,

benji

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 8:45:51 PM   
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ORIGINAL: hardbodysub
I think it's mostly "monkey see, monkey do". A LOT of so-called dominants learn from watching others, and simply adopt these stereotypes without any critical though
I'm glad you're not making this statement out of bitterness, but wondering where you arrived at the conclusion that A LOT of (suggesting most) dominants learn who they are, what they desire in a submissive man, and what they should do with one from watching others?   Is there a study, or just the word from your gospel?   M

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 9:45:29 PM   
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Ok kids, enough.  Please keep the vitriol to a minumum before we have to take a greater interest in the thread.

Thank you.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 10:23:15 PM   
Gauge


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quote:

Can someone explain to me the importance of this topic? I think I'm missing it.


No, you aren't missing it. Trust me, the point (if there is any) has been discussed, hashed-out, beaten into submission and generally kicked around. The only thing that I have gotten out of the thread is some tired eyes and a little exercise for my neck from shaking my head in disbelief.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 10:58:37 PM   
IndigoDadesi


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quote:

ORIGINAL: BlkTallFullfig

quote:

ORIGINAL: hardbodysub
I think it's mostly "monkey see, monkey do". A LOT of so-called dominants learn from watching others, and simply adopt these stereotypes without any critical though
I'm glad you're not making this statement out of bitterness, but wondering where you arrived at the conclusion that A LOT of (suggesting most) dominants learn who they are, what they desire in a submissive man, and what they should do with one from watching others?   Is there a study, or just the word from your gospel?   M


I think you missed the part where he said "so-called dominants" so his statement is not refering to us, or most of the dominants that post on this site on a regular basis. <------thats my cheeky grin!

~Indi

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/19/2006 11:03:48 PM   
MsMacComb


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AAkasha
You got your token sub asskisser and now you feel vindicated.

The truth is you started a thread designed to throw shit at dominants that tell it like it is.  When a submissive comes on and posts things like "Mistresses please tell me how you would torture my cock," or "my name is asshole4Mztrss why can't I get a woman to use her strap on on my ass? I am willing and ready! Why are femdoms ignoring my emails?" non-pro femdoms tell them to change their approach if they want to meet possible relationship partners.

Non-pro femdoms tell submissives that their fantasy is different from reality.

Non-pro femdoms tell submissives that the best way to approach a femdom as a woman first, and a fantasy second.

Non-pro femdoms tell submissives to write profiles that are not wish lists, but show the entire man behind the sub.

You come along and try to be the champion for the poor, oppressed submissive by claiming that femdoms who do not blow smoke up subs' asses are bitches or have some self esteem issues.  Please -- coming from the woman that had to resort to hurling insults like that weight watchers slam?  Grow up.  Talk about petty.

The sad thing is that the subs do not realize that by you blanketing them with your "it's ok subbie, your kink is fine AND your approach, that of a guy with a cock in one hand and the mouse in the other, will work just find with these ladies -- you just have to find one with patience and who REALLY understands you" is just a scam.  Pure and simple.  You want them to all follow you to your site and pay up -- pay for the priveledge of believing their fantasy world is real, and yes, femdoms are out there who are just fine catering to their desires.  You just leave out the part about the money.

You have shown your true colors on this thread better than anyone could point out.  You and your token subs will have a joyous time on your pay site.  Meanwhile, those subs looking for relationships based on respect and devotion will get some "tough love" responses for the most part. But at least it's *honest* -- which is more than can be said for your approach to win business.
Akasha
 

What in Gods name is your obsession with pay sites and pro dommes. I have yet to see a single post from you that didnt mention one or both. Perhaps you more than anyone else has a low self esteem as you seem almost neurotic over this issue. Try to get some sort of therapy about your self image and perhaps get tested for OCDs. Meds could be your salvation.
As to the rest of your very tired and predictable rant, well its always the same. Babbling about your opinions of how the only validated relationships are the type that YOU advocate for and promote. Did it ever occur to you that a good part of the male species does NOT want your conventional form of boring wedded non-bliss? Did it ever occur to you that perhaps some of them (and other women) prefer casusal sex, freaken, getting busy, slapping off without the emotional attachement? Seeing as how thats what about 60% or more of all Americans are doing as of now and the last decade or so (hence the 50% plus divorce rate) do you feel like you are preaching for a lost cause? You have your little pathetic websites that promote your one size fits all guide to S/M, B/D. Thats fine. What is your issue with allowing others to live their life the way they see fit? Maybe, just maybe (guranteed) not everyone (or perhaps anyone) wants to emulate you, your agenda, your lifestyle. Get over it.

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/20/2006 3:18:11 AM   
MistressYlwa


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Didn't know I had a self esteem problem. Glad someone was able to point that out to me. Will take it for what it is worth.  Nothing.





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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/20/2006 5:40:06 AM   
babyblues


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you know what i love about Dominants? that whole "me me me" attitude that MsMacComb is complaining about....it works well with my whole "You You You" persona......
 
 

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/20/2006 5:47:13 AM   
meatcleaver


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Well at least we all now know the art of bitching isn't dead!

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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/20/2006 5:56:52 AM   
MstrssPassion


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LadyMorgynn

She rewrote her whole profile real quick... scared of all the heat she was getting on here I bet <g>  Or she must have been ashamed of something!

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ORIGINAL: MsMacComb
I will reiterate for those that are exceptionally slow. I am NOT a prodomme so get a clue.

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ORIGINAL: Proprietrix
I don't think they're meaning Pro-Domme. I think they are referring to your pay sites.

**edited to fix quote**

I had second thoughts when I posted my reply early on... as it is, quite a few people pointed out my exact sentiments.

I found these replies & it got me thinking.

Did anyone else take a look at the avatar photo picked out by our non-pro, pay site owning, political activist, saviour of the misunderstood do-me types??

A picture is worth a thousand words. Still with all of the attributes professed, you're willing to drop your panties for a room full of strangers. YOU GO GIRL! Everyone get their dollars out, the show is just getting started.

One last quote that supports my original thought.
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NeedToUseYou:  Good job, but it does prove that some dom/mes are like you say.




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RE: Why So Many Dommes/Doms Self Esteem Issues (Repost) - 4/20/2006 11:28:10 AM   
IndigoDadesi


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ORIGINAL: MstrssPassion
A picture is worth a thousand words. Still with all of the attributes professed, you're willing to drop your panties for a room full of strangers. YOU GO GIRL! Everyone get their dollars out, the show is just getting started.


Hey, I like the picture. And I wait with my spare change ready to throw it at her crotch because I know if I dislodge the loonie she has strategically placed I will be the proud winner of a MsMacComb (slightly used) poster that I can wank to later at home, while looking at her paid (non-pro-domme) sites, letting my hard earned bingo winnings slip away with my dignity and credit rating.

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