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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/14/2010 6:29:38 PM

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ROFL, you are so cute!

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/16/2010 3:45:05 PM

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Whenever I talk to a "new femdom" or new dominant/top, I tell them the best tool in their arsenal is confidence & the spirit of mischievous fun. All the props, and processes and protocol in the world won't replace the intoxicating effect that *honest pleasure* has on a sub. That is to say -- if SHE is enjoying it, and really, really into it, the sub/bottom is more likely to enjoy.

Techniques and toys can be learned and things can be adopted - but a femdom following her own lusts and desires is something that can't be replaced or manufacturered. So put simply - have FUN!

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/16/2010 3:47:31 PM

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Nothing replaces enthusiasm, from BOTH sides!

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/16/2010 6:35:40 PM

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I tell them the best tool in their arsenal is confidence & the spirit of mischievous fun.

A new sub could get quite a lot of mischievous fun from having her best tool in his arsenal, too.

(Jeez, that took work.)

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:10:32 PM

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Is no-one even going to give that so much as a 'lol'? All right, it wasn't exactly a moment of pure comedy gold, but surely it's worth a titter at least? You're all ungrateful bastards. Fack off.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:12:21 PM

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Sorry, there are far funnier trolls, er, posters in the P&RS section just now.

ETA: You don't really pronounce it that way, do you? Somehow, the word "fack" is screwing up My fantasies a little.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:24:37 PM

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Yep, I saw said troll. Wow. The one thing that'll always get me to zoom in on a thread is the word 'Nazi' in the title. I'm nearly always disappointed when I see the subject-matter, though.

I don't say 'fuck' as 'fack' unless I'm doing my best Sahf Lannon (i.e. South London). Takes practice. Everybody except Venatrix thinks I sound posh - but, then, Venatrix's idea of 'posh' is a little suspect, IMO. She'd probably slap the Queen for talking like a guttersnipe.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:30:34 PM

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Everybody except Venatrix thinks I sound posh

That would be because you sound posh, lovely.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:33:16 PM

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According to you, and at least two others, I sound like I've got a cock in my mouth. (There, LP. Does that cheer you up?)

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:40:23 PM

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Well I wasn't going to bring that up publicly...

It's because posh accents involve opening the throat and depressing the tongue. Kind of like making room for a cock.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:40:35 PM

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Punishment for me is play time and boy oh boy, that boy is in trouble! lol

My job isn't to raise him, but to love him, play with him and make him a bit crazy in a good kind of way. If he really needs a mother, I would gladly send him home to her.

So with you on this!

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 12:43:20 PM

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According to you, and at least two others, I sound like I've got a cock in my mouth. (There, LP. Does that cheer you up?)

Somewhat, but I'm still waiting for the visual.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 1:42:04 PM

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I tell them the best tool in their arsenal is confidence & the spirit of mischievous fun.

A new sub could get quite a lot of mischievous fun from having her best tool in his arsenal, too.

(Jeez, that took work.)

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 2:01:30 PM

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Thank you, Miss Sophie. You are an oasis of humorous appreciation in a universe of frozen, inhuman mirthlessness.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 2:04:43 PM

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It's because posh accents involve opening the throat and depressing the tongue. Kind of like making room for a cock.

Really? So how come, when I constrict my throat and push my tongue upwards, I sound like the Queen? Go on, try it - see what I mean?

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 4:21:20 PM

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Is no-one even going to give that so much as a 'lol'? All right, it wasn't exactly a moment of pure comedy gold, but surely it's worth a titter at least? You're all ungrateful bastards. Fack off.

I thought it was brilliantly funny, considering you are from Bristol.

Regards from a true safh lannoner.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 4:22:51 PM

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It's because posh accents involve opening the throat and depressing the tongue. Kind of like making room for a cock.

Really? So how come, when I constrict my throat and push my tongue upwards, I sound like the Queen? Go on, try it - see what I mean?

That's *upper-class woman* posh-I'm talking more barrister/university lecturer posh. Don't try to confuse the issue. :P

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 4:25:26 PM

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Psssstttt. VC. That's male sub speak for 'pay attention to the things I can do with my mouth/tongue'.

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 4:30:01 PM

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RE: New to the whole world of punishing men - 8/17/2010 6:19:17 PM

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Psssstttt. VC. That's male sub speak for 'pay attention to the things I can do with my mouth/tongue'.

Nah. I cooked for VC once. She saw me licking gravy off my forehead at the end of the meal.

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