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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/12/2010 8:08:56 PM

Aileen1968

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ORIGINAL: laurell3

I'm having a hard time picturing Shore beating you...does he have to stoop over? Do you need 4 foot quirt? I have one in my garage, brand new!

Ha. People don't realize the height difference until they see us standing next to each other.
I'm always in heels so that makes me taller, but then he likes spreader bars when I'm standing so that makes me lower a bit.
And then I'm blindfolded a lot of the times. So maybe he does stoop and I just never see it.
He finds a way...

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/12/2010 8:13:45 PM

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This thread is entitled Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you?... you are the one that conflated it, not I.

Nope.
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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/12/2010 8:21:50 PM

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/12/2010 9:05:29 PM

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ORIGINAL: texangael

quote:

This thread is entitled Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you?... you are the one that conflated it, not I.
Nope.
http://www.collarchat.com/fb.asp?m=3356553

You are showing an utter lack of ability to discern your thoughts from extant reality... good luck with that

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/14/2010 8:19:18 PM

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absolutely!! hope he luvs it as much as I do. but Not if you don't enjoy it too (secretly??) (huggz!!)

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/15/2010 4:49:55 AM

ranja

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ORIGINAL: Aileen1968

I got punished just yesterday. I was tied to the pole in the garage and beaten.
I was crying, not from the beating, but because I had fucked up and disappointed him.
And then he fucked me up the ass...hard. No lube. No warmup.
I enjoyed it.
Sooooo...spanking most definitely can and is a punishment and one can enjoy it and it isn't wrong to feel that enjoyment.

Maybe you got punished or maybe it was just normal interaction... we personally use any bit that is happening for some good old bdsm fun when we're in that mood.
Sometimes i cry... not usually from the pain, more because of the humiliation or just because i feel like crying... maybe because i fucked up a bit... nah not often because of that...
He might fuck me too as He usually gets aroused by being physical with me; letting His passion out on me has that effect...
and when He has beaten me sufficiently i will be wet so there will be no need for lube...as i suppose that might be the case with you too...
The beating is the warm up don't cha know?

Indeed spanking can be a punishment and i see nothing wrong with enjoying it either.

As for the op: yes He enjoys spanking me... i think it is one of His most favourite activities, any excuse...

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 8/15/2010 8:15:30 AM

nephandi

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Greetings

quote:

I will gear this question primarily for the females as I would imagine most men would want their mistresses taking some form of enjoyment from process of doling out a punishment, but the reverse could seem to border on abusive, and I was wondering where the line was (or ought to be) drawn, and how fine it is.

Why would there be a difference to a female Dominant enjoying spanking her sub than a male Dominant doing the same? Why would it be abusive for a man to be a sadist but not for a woman? Do you think women are never abusive in vanilla relationships?

Yes my Dom enjoy spanking me almost as much as I enjoy being spanked, we do it for foreplay, for laughs and for cuddles. There is nothing abusive in it what so ever. However for us spanking is not a punishment. Neither us us enjoyed a punishment when I was a slave, that was correction of bad behavior not play. Also why would a female Dominant enjoy having to do the work of correcting bad behavior and why would a male sub want her to? There is a huge difference between play and punishment.

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 9/17/2010 6:08:56 PM

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My mistress enjoys tears in my eyes & I'm starting to love.. actually in most recent i'm asking my Mistress to do it

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 9/18/2010 1:28:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: littleone35

Puniahment is not fun it is punishment usually cause it works is a spanking for me. Funishment spankings i like and Master just loves giving them to me. Sometimes i just need a spanking, case in point after my Mom passed away my emotions were all over the place and i need a spanking to settle and center me i asked Master and he was more than happy to help me out int that way.

In my case is someone slapped me across the face to me that would ber abuse for others not at all they love it.

Matt's littleone

a slap on the face would be abuse to me as well.

we hhave 3 sort of scenarios for spanking belting which are masters 2 preferred means.

1 is purely fun turn ons excitement etc
2 is when i as the above mentioned have a need to balance and centering.
3 punishment which is only very rare and short but is never enjoyable for either of us allthough he loves the reaction i have after when he sees the calmness and settlement in me because i have closure to the dead that caused it

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 9/20/2010 7:56:02 AM

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No, Master does not enjoy spanking....
1) He hates having to punish for anything so we try really hard not to go there; any punishment there has been has been a little more imaginative and, more to the point, fit the crime.
2) He's not a "spanko" to begin with, finds it boring and unproductive
3) this one is sooooo not a "spanko"...hates slappy stuff of any kind. she also finds it boring and unproductive and not good pain at all, she thinks that if you're gonna beat her, put some oomph into it.
4) she also does not understand (or like) the idea of "funishment". If she needs to be punished, do it. If not, let's call it play and have fun. she does not do the "naughty girl needs a spanking thing" well at all.

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 9/20/2010 2:51:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Jaybeee

Hi all,

I will gear this question primarily for the females as I would imagine most men would want their mistresses taking some form of enjoyment from process of doling out a punishment, but the reverse could seem to border on abusive, and I was wondering where the line was (or ought to be) drawn, and how fine it is.

Apologies if this question has been asked umpteen times already!!

omg why else would they do it????????????????????????? think the line should be drawn in the form of a nice red cane mark on someones bum , have not the patience to read all the rest of teh posts but surely thats why we all do this??????????

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 9/20/2010 10:46:17 PM

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Spanking's a nice way to get her warmed up.Then it's time to move on to bigger and better things, like canes...

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 9/21/2010 7:21:12 AM

DarkSteven

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Unless it's punishment, why the hell would I do anything to her that I don't enjoy?

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 11/9/2010 6:23:29 PM

subjan1962

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Yes!

I know Master enjoys spanking, flogging and whipping me because He knows that i get pleasure from it and that in turn gives Him pleasure.

He wants me to enjoy my submission and i enjoy pleaing him, flogging is my favourite and often ask for it!

Punishment is different, neither of us enjoys that but we both know that it is necessary at times.

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 11/9/2010 8:20:22 PM

CalifChick

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Cuz I'm a lazy git sometimes, can someone tell me whether or not, in the last 6 pages, the OP clarified their question to mean either punishment or spankings, or understands that not all spankings are punishment?

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RE: Should/Does your Master ENJOY spanking you? - 11/9/2010 8:32:24 PM

dory007

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spanking isn't punishment for those of who like it. so yes it should be enjoyable to both parties. My Master is definitely an ass man. he likes looking, touching, spanking.

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