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LadyPact -> RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? (8/22/2010 1:37:20 PM)
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ORIGINAL: dejablue1
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ORIGINAL: DarkSteven
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ORIGINAL: dejablue1
re: Op's first posting
Generally speaking from experience, most mistresses are seeking a very deep wallet and a very large checking account. Everything else appears secondary. It does not matter how much a person sacrifices, gains skills, pursues education, or betters themselves. None of that matters. At the end of the day the only thing that matters is how much the poor bastard is bringing in and willing to give.
Fella, I just took a look at your profile.
It is absolutely blank. Not one single word about you, what you want in a Domme, what you offer her.
With that, you have eliminated every single one of the true lifestyle Dommes from considering you. You're 55 years old and have 55 years of experience, desires, discoveries to share. And you didn't. The Dommes will not care what the reasons are for you not saying anything about yourself - they'll simply ignore you.
The pro Dommes and scam artists of course will behave exactly like you said.
Tell you what. Fill out your profile, and come back and post more on the forums. Come with a genuine attitude of wanting to enjoy yourself and avoid complaining. Get to know some of the posters (which include some damn good women who happen to be Dommes). And see if things start changing for the better.
And be patient. It takes months, usually, to find a good match. But as long as you're enjoying it...
Of course it is and deliberately so. I had a previous profile on here for 8 years and so I am well aware of what does and does not belong in a profile. With that being said, this profile is merely a means to a personal end as this website is bullshit and the people on it are full of bullshit as well. Why have a fully completed profile that will serve no purpose beyond drawing out the scam artists and money whores? Months to find a good match, huh? No, even that statement is bullshit and you know it. Years can go by and in some cases even a decade or more to find a good match. So hence, what is the point in bothering to even try unless you are prepared to sacrifice a large portion of your life in doing so?
I've said this before to someone making these statements on the forums. You sound like the proverbial wolf who couldn't reach the grapes, so he convinced himself that they were sour.
Like it or not, what Steven told you was true, in My opinion. Not just about filling out the profile, but also about participation in the forums. There are Dominant women on these boards that would be all over certain submissive males if they were local to them. It doesn't have a thing to do with what is in their wallets. It has to do with their personalities and how much we've come to appreciate them as people. They don't have a bit of trouble getting Dominant women to respond to them via email. Even Me, who willingly said that I don't respond to everyone.
Believe it or not, I happen to think that Steven does a darn good job at giving advice to other males out there regardless of their orientation. When a Dominant man comes along to tell you what we Dominant women seem to keep saying about this subject over and over through the years, you might want to consider appreciating the fact that he is trying to be helpful. I don't think he deserved the negative way that you chose to respond.
Steven, we really do appreciate you coming to give your two cents. [:)]
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