Collarspace Discussion Forums


Home  Login  Search 

RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub?


View related threads: (in this forum | in all forums)

Logged in as: Guest
 
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? Page: <<   < prev  2 3 4 5 [6]
Login
Message << Older Topic   Newer Topic >>
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/24/2010 8:56:42 AM   
blackpearl81


Posts: 506
Joined: 8/30/2005
From: Home of the Yankees
Status: offline 		5 favorite books, movies, and records:

Books:

The Elenium Trilogy (not sure if that'd count as 1 or 3)
The Inheritance Trilogy (read above)
The Hunt for Red October
The Sum of All Fears
Patriot Games

Movies:

Lord of The Rings Trilogy
Back to The Future Trilogy
Star Wars Trilogy
Groove
Meet the Parents

Albums:

Sublime - Everything under the Sun (I'm a sucker for B-sides, rarities, and dub sessions)
Sublime - Sublime
Pink Floyd - Dark Side of the Moon
Pink Floyd - The Wall
Green Day - Kerplunk!

_____________________________

~ Karma. Being a motherfucker since 1981 ~

Ms. Pacman was the greatest prostitute that ever lived. For 25 cents, that bitch swallowed balls 'till she died.

(in reply to sweetsub1957)
Profile   Post #: 101
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/30/2010 8:17:43 AM   
cloudboy


Posts: 7306
Joined: 12/14/2005
Status: offline
It all sounds like trying to drive a car in Italy; its crazy, its wild, and you have to be on guard to get to your destination.


(in reply to LadyNTrainer)
Profile   Post #: 102
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 5:03:09 AM   
SirGuy68


Posts: 96
Joined: 7/19/2009
Status: offline 		Going back to the OP's question:

Money is the typical first form of requested bona fide ness on CM.
Second would be a wanking picture

In nine years on CM I have never done either.

Be Well

(in reply to cloudboy)
Profile   Post #: 103
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 8:45:13 AM   
LadyPact


Posts: 32566
Status: offline 		Can't say I agree with that one, Guy.  I haven't needed money to talk to anyone.  Wanking pics are usually a good way to get people not to talk to you.

_____________________________

The crowned Diva of Destruction. ~ ExT

Beach Ball Sized Lady Nuts. ~ TWD

Happily dating a new submissive. It's official. I've named him engie.

Please do not send me email here. Unless I know you, I will delete the email unread

(in reply to SirGuy68)
Profile   Post #: 104
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 9:04:16 AM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Failed sarcasm, thinly veiled bitterness? I can't decide.

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]



(in reply to LadyPact)
Profile   Post #: 105
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 5:02:00 PM   
SylvereApLeanan


Posts: 8275
Joined: 11/1/2007
From: Hell
Status: offline 		Maybe it's a two-fer?

_____________________________

Sylverë
Dark Muse
30 Fluffy Points
Grumpy Cat is my spirit animal.
Shadow Governess & Mean Girl
"There's something that doesn't make sense. Let's go and poke it with a stick."— The Doctor

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 106
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 5:08:15 PM   
LadyHibiscus


Posts: 27124
Joined: 8/15/2005
From: Island Of Misfit Toys
Status: offline 		Ah, multitasking!!! So surprising in the male.

(with apologies to Leadership, I CANNOT resist teh snark!!)

_____________________________

[page 23 girl]



(in reply to SylvereApLeanan)
Profile   Post #: 107
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 8:22:22 PM   
Dnomyar


Posts: 7933
Joined: 6/27/2005
Status: offline 		Suprised. I thought that women divorced men who could multitask.

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 108
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 8/31/2010 8:52:10 PM   
BlackTigerDragon


Posts: 180
Joined: 4/1/2010
Status: offline 		Proof that they can read. And proof that they have an IQ over 20. I don't think the mentally challenged should be subs. In a way it is kind of dangerous for them. One way to prove your low IQ is to BAAWWWWWWWWWWWWWW when I say very clearly that I am not at all interested. Who is the dominant again? (yes this is a true story. Many times. And most of these are females even though I do not want a female.)

(in reply to sweetsub1957)
Profile   Post #: 109
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 9/3/2010 10:17:58 AM   
FamilyofM


Posts: 34
Joined: 7/15/2010
Status: offline 		More than a one sentence or one word message. The ability to send an intelligently written message or introduction. The ability to be polite and patient. Sending pics with naughty bits showing is a turn off, especially ass to camera photos. So someone who presents themselves in that manner will get no where with me.

Just my $.02. Your mileage may vary.

Take care.

(in reply to BlackTigerDragon)
Profile   Post #: 110
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 9/10/2010 8:54:19 PM   
SirGuy68


Posts: 96
Joined: 7/19/2009
Status: offline 		partial sarcasm partial typical request for me on CM

(in reply to LadyHibiscus)
Profile   Post #: 111
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 9/11/2010 6:09:59 PM   
Sdoah


Posts: 7
Joined: 9/11/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: BKSir


I also require them to be coherent and at least seemingly intelligent.  The ablility to complete full sentences and not use text speak is 100% necessary.  "Hi, how R U?  I want 2 b ur slave."  That's an automatic NO, delete and block.




Text speak is a death sentence.  The beauty of language destroyed.  I'm with you hon.

(in reply to BKSir)
Profile   Post #: 112
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 9/14/2010 1:22:25 AM   
MistressDeStrict


Posts: 5
Joined: 9/2/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MsApocalypse

I'm new here and quite overwhelmed with messages begging for My time.  I'm wondering what everyone else requires before they talk to a would-be submissive.  At this point, I have decided to require a photo (face and body) as well as a detailed list of their taste in books and music before I even consider giving them any of My time.


That's a great place to start. Spell out exactly what you require in your profile. Then when you get responses that don't follow your instructions or clearly contradict what you have stated within your profile, you'll know that person is a fake, a liar, a troll, stupid and/or all of the above. Plus you can weed out most of the stupid morons who contact you by blocking them.

It's utterly amazing to Me how I can tell potential subs, through My profile, who are interested in contacting Me, to write a letter of introduction and yet I still receive one or two line, text chat stupidity.

Further, it's a sad commentary on one's comprehension level who reads My profile, knows that he doesn't fit what I'm looking for, and still decides to make contact. It's like that person thinks he's the special one who, despite not being what I'm looking for, I will somehow grant him an exception.

Mistress De Strict

(in reply to MsApocalypse)
Profile   Post #: 113
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 9/14/2010 1:23:58 AM   
MistressDeStrict


Posts: 5
Joined: 9/2/2010
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: SirGuy68

Going back to the OP's question:

Money is the typical first form of requested bona fide ness on CM.
Second would be a wanking picture

In nine years on CM I have never done either.

Be Well


That's quite impressive.

< Message edited by MistressDeStrict -- 9/14/2010 1:25:40 AM >

(in reply to SirGuy68)
Profile   Post #: 114
RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? - 9/14/2010 1:27:10 AM   
VaguelyCurious


Posts: 5264
Joined: 12/2/2009
From: United Kingdom
Status: offline
quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressDeStrict

Further, it's a sad commentary on one's comprehension level who reads My profile, knows that he doesn't fit what I'm looking for, and still decides to make contact. It's like that person thinks he's the special one who, despite not being what I'm looking for, I will somehow grant him an exception.

They don't actually read your profile-they send everyone the same message. It's not that they think you'll think they are special, it's that sending out the same mail to 100 people with a 1% success rate is much less work and much more likely to be successful than reading profiles, selecting one and then writing and sending out an individual mail with, say, a 70% success rate (which is a ridiculously generous estimate).


_____________________________

Sthetic on FetLife.




(in reply to MistressDeStrict)
Profile   Post #: 115
Page:   <<   < prev  2 3 4 5 [6]
All Forums >> [Community Discussions] >> Ask a Mistress >> RE: What do you require before you even speak with a sub? Page: <<   < prev  2 3 4 5 [6]
Jump to:





New Messages No New Messages
Hot Topic w/ New Messages Hot Topic w/o New Messages
Locked w/ New Messages Locked w/o New Messages
 Post New Thread
 Reply to Message
 Post New Poll
 Submit Vote
 Delete My Own Post
 Delete My Own Thread
 Rate Posts




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy

0.094