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can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 1:49:10 PM

mezrabs

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can you please tell us one of the most dominating thing you do to a man that is not a slave or an experiance with a man that you made him your slave
i want to know how a dominant woman can attract a man to make him her slave

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 1:56:08 PM

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Yeah.

I collared him.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 1:59:00 PM

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can you please put some details or you just collar him

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 2:03:21 PM

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Why do you want to know that?

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 2:22:48 PM

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sharing experiances and learning mre about that lfestyle from experts like you
and i think it is fun too

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 3:30:29 PM

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Well, you could always just use that scroll button and start reading!

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 3:35:34 PM

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Then why did you send private messages to me on the 'other side' saying something about how you are "trying to live your fantasies through forums" ? Why be frank there- but deceptive here? If you are indeed trying to live your fantasy in the forums, you should at least be honest with the people you want to cooperate with this, in my opinion. .... But hey... this is probably neither here nor there. I doubt anyone is going to give you your fodder.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 3:36:50 PM

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Good call!

(I like her already.)

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 3:51:37 PM

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ORIGINAL: LadyPact

Good call!

(I like her already.)

Yes, she is cool!

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:00:16 PM

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i told you in the forum that i want to learn and that it is fun too any way i am out of here i dont think that this was a good idea to try to chat and learn from others on this site so
sorry for bothering you all and bye
remember the true mistress have to earn it and not to wake up in the morning and decide that she want to be a mistres
and sorry for saying that i meet many woman that is not dominant as they look and me myslf i am not sub as i look i am lost and i cant decide who i am and no one here give me a hand to know who i am

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:06:57 PM

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Here you go. http://www.collarchat.com/m_1726118/tm.htm

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:21:56 PM

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~ Fast Reply ~

You're on the internet. If you want wank fodder, google, it's your friend. Why on earth do you think anyone here would supply you with fantasies? If you can't think of anything, then you have a problem that goes a lot deeper than being a Dominant.

ETA: mezrabs, if you don't know who you are, how are we supposed to know?

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:24:25 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mezrabs

remember the true mistress have to earn it and not to wake up in the morning and decide that she want to be a mistres

I lol-ed.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:27:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: WhipsAndGiggles

Then why did you send private messages to me.

Because youre a "lfestyle expert"

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:33:20 PM

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mezrabs,

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WhipsAndGiggles:
Then why did you send private messages to me on the 'other side' saying something about how you are "trying to live your fantasies through forums"? Why be frank there, but deceptive here? If you are indeed trying to live your fantasy in the forums, you should at least be honest with the people you want to cooperate with this, in my opinion. But hey... this is probably neither here nor there. I doubt anyone is going to give you your fodder.

You're asking for information in regard to people's private relationships. Someone you know may be willing to share this kind of thing with you. On a public BDSM forum though, asking in the way you have, from those who don't know you, is considered rude. WhipsAndGiggles is correct. You're not likely to get the responses you desire per the OP.

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mezrabs:
i want to know how a dominant woman can attract a man to make him her slave

A woman who is kind, interesting, and well-balanced has a good start. A sense of humour helps as does the ability to be flexible when appropriate. Communication skills are essential. Leadership skills are helpful too. Ironically, while this isn't a trait often talked about in regard to "dominance", I'd say an ability to allow ones self to be vulnerable with their partner is also an essential attribute. The kinky, BDSM-oriented dominant stuff is icing on the cake, but it's really the fundamental qualities of personage that are likely to attract a submissive worth attracting. Even still, if the man in question isn't interested in a particular woman, there's likely nothing she can do to change this. Relationships are a two-way street and this includes attraction. In regard to a woman making a man her slave... a woman can't really make a man anything, but if there is mutual interest, respect, and attraction, a woman and her partner(s) can decide what dynamics and roles they wish to share.

Elan.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 4:44:01 PM

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Ugh...I think this follows along the lines of a "Drive by"...just my thoughts.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 5:40:42 PM

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I made him think he didn't want to imagine life without me in it - how? is private

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 5:52:27 PM

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Hello mezrabs...I'll bet it's not easy finding someone to scene with in Egypt...and you might need more time reading about this lifestyle before you try to take this into real time.

If I haven't said so already, welcome to the message boards.

Now to try to answer your question.

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tell us one of the most dominating things you do to a man

I get him to trust me...with his safety, his life, his reputation, his heart, and to trust that where I lead him will be for his benefit as well as for my own.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 6:34:29 PM

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I didn't find anything offensive about his question.

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Then why did you send private messages to me on the 'other side' saying something about how you are "trying to live your fantasies through forums" ? Maybe because of your photo he assumed that you were as sweet and kind as you looked.

Why be frank there- but deceptive here? I don't see any deception anywhere. Where is it? He seems to be wanting information, if you don't want to supply it...that's okay too.

If you are indeed trying to live your fantasy in the forums, you should at least be honest with the people you want to cooperate with this, in my opinion. .... But hey... this is probably neither here nor there. I am so grateful that english is my native tongue and that these boards are not Egyptian...with hidden rules and manners I know nothing about. He is clear about not taking this to real time right now, I see no deception. He is honestly ASKING. When people want to learn something, there should be some freedom to ask. You have equal freedom...to stay silent or try to answer.

I doubt anyone is going to give you your fodder. Men often start off with their fantasies, they might be different from us and their journey take them down a different road, but I am not the *Judge* of who belongs here and who doesn't. This boy was not rude even when provoked. I also have no problem with sending males to D/s educational sites and if they use these as wank fodder I don't really care. It is THEIR journey that they will handle their way, just because it's different from my own doesn't give me the right to invalidate them.

No wonder why we have so many "drive by's" if the newbie driving by gets shot at. I'd keep on driving too.

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RE: can you please share it with us - 8/17/2010 7:00:10 PM

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Well you are really kind and understanding, Cynthia, because I saw that as utter wank. "How do you dominate someone" is a pretty encyclopedic question, too, which is why we suggested READING.

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